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writes: Hey, this is sorta embarassing but, here it goes, im 14 years old, my bf is 15 (16 soon) i really love him, trust him, we've been dating for over 3 months now and were always very close for a bout a year before that, ive tossed him off but made it clear that i wont do anymore than that, he is very respectfull! he asked my permission for him to finger me...i sed yes as i am very older minded person, most of my friends are 16 and i am extremly mature for my age. he sed that he didnt want to hurt me at all , but wanted to give me the thrill that i gave him, soo he 'played' (over my underwear)after a while he started to push in,...i was fine with this, but it hurt a bit...is that normal..or is it just because he couldnt goo fully in because of my underwear? plz reply, thankyou XxX
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2006): wow! where u get a gf like that, naa just kiddin, the thing is was it ur first time, cuz if it was i would hurt( i guess)but i dont think is the underware, maybe he touched something he wasnt supposed to, who knows really better than u... so my advice is if it bothers u that much, dont do it.
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reader, katzkitten  +, writes (24 August 2006):
 i aint gna lecture you cos im also 14 and have done alot more than you.lol. bin fingad does hurt sometimes so i dont think it was because of your underwear. it may have been though. neways lyk i sed i aint gna lecture you but make sure you trust him and he wont get what he wants then leave you. just a warning cos ive been there done that sort of thing and it aint nice!!!
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reader, zosey +, writes (22 August 2006):
 hey, i ent gunna say u shudnt bcus it isnt my place to tell u wat to do but maby u shud read up on sex and stuff lyk that on the internet or connexions-direct, i 14 too and no how u feel, good luck. take care, zoe
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reader, Nay920 +, writes (22 August 2006):
Maybe you should slow down im not trying to be mean or any thing but you really need to think about your school work and yall dont need to be doing that until your older cause once yall have sex and you pop your cherry your goning to be hurting and your going to have some regrets.Remeber once its gone your never going to get it back
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reader, camille +, writes (22 August 2006):
 You're not going to like this, you're 14. It doesn't matter how mature you think you are for your age, you are not ready to be engaging in sexual activity. What's the rush? Generally when people are in love, they don't refer to it as 'tossing off' so I am sorry but the terminology gives you away, you're still young. Trying to finger you whilst you're wearing underwear, now of course that's going to be uncomfortable and I'm sorry..... if you were old enough, you'd know that too! Stop messing around with this boy, he's only after one thing no matter how polite he's going about it. If you love him and he loves you, he won't mind waiting til you're older and then you can enjoy each other properly.
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