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*ritney smyth
writes: I met this boy unexpectadly and we were going out for 2 weeks and in that time I started having feelings for him. Then he ended up breaking up with me and I was left hurt.A few weeks later I met someone else and took this boy to a club and my ex was there. He seen me with the new boy and started texting me, asking if he could take me out. From then we meet up occassionally. Friends of his have told me that he loves me but I don't know what to believe because this boy is very deep and shy and it's hard to tell. Plz help
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2006): Like camille said he is probably jealous. Ex's usually get an unexpected surge of negative emotion when they find out someone they were close to are seeing someone else.
If this original boy did not treat you bad and you want to get back with him then give it a go. If you broke up badly, then don't - just think "ha!" and get on with your life.
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reader, camille +, writes (22 August 2006):
Sounds like he's jealous that you moved on, but hey, you were only together for 2 weeks and don't forget, he dumped you. Love is a strong word, but after 2 weeks, I doubt it to be true love if he dumped you. Shy or not, if you want the answer to your question ('does he want me again?'), talk to him directly or forget it. You're not a mind reader and it's not up to his friends. If you don't get the answer you want, get on with enjoying yourself. Don't reply to his texts, don't validate him. And don't get sucked into any ego trip by his interest.
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