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writes: my girlfriend of two and a half years just broke up with me today. she said she isn't in love with my anymore. i'm devistated and don't know how to cope with it. any suggestions, please?
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reader, Nay920 +, writes (23 August 2006):
You need to get out have fun dont worry about her.You need to live your life because she left you you didnt leave she is not going to realize what she got until its gone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2006): alright, i understand you completely, but crying about her isnt going to solve anything. the best thing for you to do is be with great friends who have your back 100% and give her some room, afterwhich, you can atleast be friends with her. whats the point of a relationship if ur not going to see the person agian afterwards?
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reader, zosey +, writes (22 August 2006):
 hey, well every1 finds a differnt way of copin wif fings uv probs herd tht so many tyms b4 but its true, go out wiff friends, surround ya self wiff ppl hu do love u and maby talking to her to find out the reson she just stopped lovin u, she may have found sum1 else or maby summthing has haoppened to her finding out why it happened may make u feel better, if ur confused ask her and talk, it may be better for the both of u, take care. i hope i helped u. zoe x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): this happened to me two months ago asnd things are still very difficult. i have found it hurts less when you are surrounded by good friends./ going on lots of nights out, not necessarily to pull just o have some fun. joining a gym or getting a new hobby also ,makes you feel better as you meet new people and can work out frustration on a punch bag.
i understand how bad you feel inside so remember its important to take time to build up your confidence again and feel happy bout who you are.
take care xx
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reader, camille  +, writes (22 August 2006):
 I am so sorry for you but perhaps it's too soon for anyone here to say anything that will make you feel better right now as it's so raw and new. I will say this; you will be ok but it'll take time. I often think that break-ups are horrendous not just because of lost love, but there's a habit being broken and it's hard to adjust. I also believe that as humans we have egos and rejection is also something that makes the whole thing worse. That's not a very conscious reaction as there's a lot of hurt clouding any rational thinking. In the clear light of day if only we could think that here's someone who doesn't want us anymore, wouldn't it be great if we just decided that they don't deserve us then and what's the point in crying over someone who feels that way? But life's not that simple. One day in the future you'll meet someone who will love you back the same as you love them and you will both be deserving of that and very happy. It will seem impossible now, but believe and trust that in time, you will heal and move on from this. I am genuinely sorry for what you're going through.
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reader, Tine +, writes (22 August 2006):
 the one and only thing that i feel helps with breaking up with someone is for you not to sit around and be devastated all the time. Fair enough she was the love of your life however i know that life does go on. Sitting around thinking about it will do you no good other than make you depressed and no used to anyone. Spend some time with your family and friends and try to make yourself as busy as possible so that you arent sitting around doing nothing. Spending time with others will not only cheer you up but it will help you get over this. Also it will give your girlfriend a chance to realise if she has made the right decision or not
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