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He's 40 years older than me, I'm 17 and I love him.
Q. Hi! I am just like this girl here too. I am attracted to a guy who is 40 years older than me, i am 17. He is attracted to me too but not for my body. We have alot in common, for example, i am into the era he grew up in which is the 1960s and alot...
A. 28 April 2008: im not sure its legal till your 18 but when you are go for it love doesnt care about age only people do and really it shouldnt matter what anyone else thinks so go for it and dont let anyones critsms change your mind. Again not sure about the legal ... (read in full...)
So many women would pay to see me naked, so how can I change her "errors" about premarital sex?
Q. I am hoping that some of the aunts on this site can help me with my problem. I am an extremely handsome, smart and funny 28 year old male. I have an excellent job and earn a very substantial sum of money indeed. I have two Ferraris and live in a ...
A. 28 April 2008: hey if she doesnt want to you cant force her if she doesnt want sex before marriage thats her choice and you should respect that not try and change it sex isnt everything and for her its something very special so her behaviour does not need ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to put a golf ball in your girlfriend's vagina? Just throwing that out there....
Q. is it ok to put a golf ball in you girlfriends vagina and the have sex with it still in there and when your done swollow it?...
A. 28 April 2008: its not something you should try you could really do some seriouse damage and as for having sex with it still in there definetly no and swallowing it is a bad idea too over all just dont do it you will most likely do a lot of damage
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My boyfriend is aroused at the sight of raw meat. Is he mad?
Q. My boyfriend of 9 mths has the strangest fetish. He become aroused at the sight of raw meat. Every time I cook dinner (we live together), he needs to go up and have sex when he sees me preparing the meat. Is he mad?...
A. 28 April 2008: i dont think he is mad its just a fetish an unusual thing that stimulates him why who knows but its nothing for you to worry about if your really curious ask him why he gets so turned on by it maybe he will shed some light on the subject
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He's my best friend and I think I love him but he sees me as a sister, do I state my feelings to him?
Q. Hiiyah! I've Been best friends with this guy for about 3 years now and i can honestly say that i love him to pieces but we've started to drift apart recently and i hate that! :( A while back before i was going with my last boyfriend i started to f...
A. 27 April 2008: it sounds like he is the understanding type of guy so if you just talk to him and tell him how you have been feeling lately he should understand right?... (read in full...)
He's my best friend and I think I love him but he sees me as a sister, do I state my feelings to him?
Q. Hiiyah! I've Been best friends with this guy for about 3 years now and i can honestly say that i love him to pieces but we've started to drift apart recently and i hate that! :( A while back before i was going with my last boyfriend i started to f...
A. 27 April 2008: yea i know what you mean but to me thats what lifes about taking risks yea it could ruin things or he could just not be effected at all and you continue to be friends or you end up with a great guy and an amazing relationship... (read in full...)
I think I could trust him but it seems like he brought up the sex topic too soon, especially that he still lives with his ex! Your advice?
Q. hey everybody! Thank you for taking to time to read my question. I met this guy about a month ago and he really likes me. I enjoy being around him and we have a lot in common. He enjoys being around me too. However yesterday he brought up the s...
A. 27 April 2008: i think for now focusing on your dream is the best option but you do need to talk to him about it and tell him you dont want a relationship right now and how you feel about the whole sex thing
keep it friendly and be honest with him. Good luck... (read in full...)
He is eager to recreate the one night stand, is this normal interest? Surprised by the repeated invitations!
Q. I am confused. I met this guy about two months ago online we exchanged pics and decided to meet up in a bar. After talking for about 7 hours suddenly it all happened we started snogging and then ended up back at mine and had the most amazing ...
A. 27 April 2008: it depends on the guy some guys will keep in touch especialy if it was good and sex without any commitment is a plus for some guys so yes its normalish i think its ok as long as your both ok with it and both know there is no commitment
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He's my best friend and I think I love him but he sees me as a sister, do I state my feelings to him?
Q. Hiiyah! I've Been best friends with this guy for about 3 years now and i can honestly say that i love him to pieces but we've started to drift apart recently and i hate that! :( A while back before i was going with my last boyfriend i started to f...
A. 27 April 2008: maybe your drifting because he likes you too and doesnt want to act on it i have done that before with someone i was close with i think you should talk to him about it get your feelings out go the open if you need to talk pm me... (read in full...)
I love him but is our relationship doomed if we don't want the same things?
Q. I am 28 and have a 9 year old daughter. I am in a long term relationship with a man for 5 years. I desperatly want to get married and have done for 2 years but he's not having it, coming up with excuses. I have recently moved 300 miles away from...
A. 27 April 2008: i dont think your relationship is doomed you just need to talk to him about this properly and make it clear that you dont mind waiting but its something you do want explain to him how you feel i think he might even be a little scared by these ... (read in full...)
How can I make him interested in me?
Q. Hello! I need you to help understand something and maybe give me some tips on what I should do. There's a friend I've know since I was 9. We were at school together for 4 years. We were kids back then but we always got along very well. I ha...
A. 27 April 2008: well you cant make someone be interested in you but you can show him your interested by being more flirty etc also i think talking to him about how you feel would help however be carefull because if has just broken up he might not be ready right ... (read in full...)
Do I let him go or keep trying to capture his attention?
Q. there is this guy i liked for 8 years we are friends..... and he knows i like him. and i feel he does too.. sometimes he says i love u.... he sometime flirts with me... and gets red when he sees me..... and everytime we see each other he gets red ...
A. 27 April 2008: well it sounds as if he isnt really sure whats going on ether you need to talk to him about it he knows how you feel its time you know how he feels so you can ether have a relationship or move on. Good luck and pm me if you need to talk... (read in full...)
Is he gay? He's my first gay love help!
Q. Im 16 bi and I met this guy about 6 months ago, at first it seems like nothing special but later on I started to like him. Where not friends but know each other. He doesnt know that Im bi but I acted like one. He's my first gay love and would li...
A. 27 April 2008: well no one here can say for sure if he is gay and asking him straight out might freak him out however there doesnt seem to be another way so i would recommend you talk to him properly about it and dont be too forward about it. Good luck... (read in full...)
Does he really want me out his life?
Q. When I was 18 ( and a Senior in High School) I met this cool guy ( 17, and a Junior) we became fast friends .. . he called my everyday and hanging out led us 2 hook up 3 times. When I graduated he called me for a month straight , but I never ...
A. 27 April 2008: it sounds like he is still hurt by what happened i think he really had feelings for you and because you just kinda stoped he never got any closur you need to have a real talk with him about the situation if nothing else atleast you two can be ... (read in full...)
What does my dream about my dead friend mean
Q. my friend killed himself, a few weeks ago, but last night i had a dream that he was telling me he was alive we were walking to my fathers house he explained that had to pretend he was dead because of things happening in his life, he was also being ...
A. 27 April 2008: he was your friend you still want him to be alive and wish that he was not dead the brain sorts out theses feelings and emotions when we sleep so this dream was just a reflection of how your feeling its ok this is not an abnormal thing so dont ... (read in full...)
What do you women see in men?
Q. This is a thought that I as a young, single, male have had for ages. I've never been in a relationship before so forgive me if you find this ignorant. I am absolutely head over heels about the female, the way they behave, act, look etc. From m...
A. 27 April 2008: i cant say for sure why women like guys i think part of it is attraction to the way we look like the way were attracted to women all the girls i know like me for the support i give them because im understanding but not in a weedy weakling kind of ... (read in full...)
In medicine school and only one month until exams-how many hours a day study should I do?
Q. hey i am in medicine school and i have less than one month for my exams..i wanted to know how many hours per day of study is required???i tend to get distracted by phone,or just log on facebook for hours.how do i keep myself foucussed.....
A. 27 April 2008: ok you need to find a quiet room with no tv or comp tho stero for music is ok. For a big exam 3 to 4 hours but not all at once only do 1 hour at a time and then take a half hour break then do another hour and so on. Good luck... (read in full...)
How to I get the guy who is my almost boyfriend to kiss me?
Q. How to I get the guy who is my almost boyfriend to kiss me? He and I see each other on average once every two weeks, because we go to different schools, and he lives near my BFF and every time i go to her house, we head over to his on bike and ...
A. 27 April 2008: you wont be a good kisser straight away it takes practice if you talking about a pek it needs no explanation a frenchkiss quick tip all rookies make the same mistake they open their mouths too wide and its like kissing a bucket of water... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have great sex without falling in love?
Q. is it possible to have greatsex without falling in love im seeing a divorsed 47 male im 40 single mum im enjoying the sex he dosnt want me to get attached doi continue with this arrangment....
A. 27 April 2008: yes it is possible and there are many other people with the same sort of arrangement tho personaly i dont agree with it, it is possible to just have sex and keep it as a mutual friendship and use each other for sex be carefull with this tho and good ... (read in full...)
I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend ?
Q. Dear cupid ... i really like this guy but he has a girlfriend and he said he likes me alot but he still likes his girlfriend. i told him i would wait but not too long and that i wouldnt ruin their relationship. he always say i love you when its just...
A. 27 April 2008: well you dont want to be the reason they split so i think you should just wait and see how it gos if nothing happens move on cause you dont know she could love him as much as you do and imagine if you were with him and she came between you. Just ... (read in full...)
I think she likes him back and I get jealous! I'm planning on asking her out though.
Q. I work with a girl and I really like her. She's finishing work in a few weeks though I've worked with her for about 8 months. When we started to get to know one another, she was really friendly and chatty. I would compliment her and she would ...
A. 26 April 2008: i think give it one more shot man maybe she really did need to see her nan especialy if there close. Give it one more shot and good luck. ... (read in full...)
What compliments do women like to hear?
Q. Hello Everyone Thanks for taking the time for reading this question. I'd like to know, what do women like to hear when you are trying to compliment them (in letter or in person), e.g your beautiful, sexy, your my best friend, I love being in ...
A. 26 April 2008: just be honest and tell the girl what you like about her there are no set compliments the girl i fell in love with she had beautifull deep blue eyes a cute nose and a smile that could light up the darkest room and a personality to match. Be sincere ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy risk in case of anal sex?
Q. My boyfriend is 22 years older than me and I am 29 year old female and underweight but healthy. We had anal sex and he ejaculated in me without a condom. He did not ejaculate anywhere else. Is there a pregnancy risk here?...
A. 26 April 2008: as far as i know i have never heard of anyone getting pregnant after anal i wouldnt worry about it the human anatomy is on your side. ... (read in full...)
Can I win my Ex Back?
Q. Briefly as poss, my ex broke up with me nearly 2.5months ago now, said it didn't feel right anymore and didn't fancy me, we were together 3.5years (she lived with me most of time in my house round corner from her family home) and incidentally she ...
A. 25 April 2008: i think its possible that she might come back to you but for that to happen you need to give her space to decide what she wants and possibly realise if she wants you or not act like a friend towards her and not an ex. Time will tell... (read in full...)
I would happily settle as second best just to be with him again. How can I go about getting him to be with me again?
Q. Recently I met a guy who works for my dad. We were working together at an exhibition away from where we both live. He has a girlfriend who I met the same day I met him. He is not very attractive but throughout the exhibition we got on really well. ...
A. 25 April 2008: i know you might want to get with him but i dont think you should you just want what you cant have and i bet you as soon as you get him you wont want him anymore and i think he is unsure of what he wants right now you should give him some space to ... (read in full...)
I wouldn't believe it was true even if she did say she likes me. What can I do about my self confidence?
Q. Hello! Ok first off, i dont know whats wrong with me, ive asked for help on this site alot of times, for the same reason, but i still cant bring myself to do it. basicly theres a girl i really like, ive known her for a while now and we are b...
A. 25 April 2008: just in case you dont want to pm me and talk about it in private. You need to get your words out keep repeating what your going to say while your on your way to her house or w.e and then as soon as you see her just say what you want to say and get ... (read in full...)
I wouldn't believe it was true even if she did say she likes me. What can I do about my self confidence?
Q. Hello! Ok first off, i dont know whats wrong with me, ive asked for help on this site alot of times, for the same reason, but i still cant bring myself to do it. basicly theres a girl i really like, ive known her for a while now and we are b...
A. 25 April 2008: its actualy a problem i see a lot not being able to tell her how you feel its hard especialy when you like some one a lot cause there is a fear of rejection when you know the person is amazing and you dont think your good enough but you are man. Pm ... (read in full...)
How do I find the courage to tell my ex to stay away? He keeps contacting me!
Q. How do I find the courage to tell my ex to stay away? I was with my ex for 18 years, we lived together for 10 years and have been finished for the last 3 years. My ex was always unhappy with the relationship, (especially the sexual frequency...
A. 25 April 2008: i know its hard sometimes to say things to people especialy if you care about them and it sounds like you still do care but you have to take a deep breath and be direct with him and tell him youv moved on and his presence is hurting you. Be honest. ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions for staying awake to complete homework?
Q. I got alot of coursework to complete n I'm getting tired at night. Is there anyway to stay awake? Thanks...
A. 25 April 2008: well i have insomnia so i have trouble sleeping. My friend once drank about 9 cans of relentless energy drink and was up for ages also taking a nap with an alarm to wake you will give the cafeen a chance to take effect and you wont be as tired. Good ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and my best friend keep flirting! Should I stay or go?
Q. i have a problem i know its a weird one but i need help ok well to start my g-f and best friend keep on flirting with eachother my g-f says their not but when i have friends saying they see them flirting i think otherwise. also my best friend ...
A. 24 April 2008: well normally i would advise communication but since you dont think you can talk to ether i think you should end it and move on just be sure of what your doing before you do it. Good luck ... (read in full...)
Do women tell the truth about their sexual past?
Q. Do women tell the truth about their sexual past... do they feel men would leave them if they told the truth? be honest and men your thoughts also please. thanks...
A. 24 April 2008: most girl will be generally truthfull when it comes to there past and what they got up to as long as they trust the person theyre telling ... (read in full...)
Looking back at the encounter with an old friend, I have done most of the talking so I feel a bit embarassed now...
Q. I went out with an old friend a few days ago, and we got on as well as we always did, talked for hours non stop about what we'd been up too, told stories about things that had happened since we last spoke, and just generally had a laugh. Problem is ...
A. 24 April 2008: stop worrying catching up with old friends of course you were a bit excited but she was too and im sure she was focusing more on the conversation and what you were saying rather than how loud you were saying it. Next time just hold back a bit.... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure, jealous, like she saved nothing for our relationship, sexually... because of her past!
Q. Is there a way to detach your feelings from sex because my woman's past makes me look at her in a bad, judgmental way I don't want to feel bad but I feel sick as I can't get thoughts of her with other guys out of my head, its making me desire sex ...
A. 24 April 2008: Sadly you cant just detach yourself but i think to feel better you should talk to her about it and as for saving something special for the relationship well love i find is more important than sex. Good luck ... (read in full...)
Worried about the pain of deflowering, am I ready to take this step?
Q. Ok, so i'm 16 and i'm just about ready to sleep with my bf. i've already seen his 'package' and he is really big (around 9 inches) and i'm scared that when we sleep together it'll hurt really badly! what do you think? ...
A. 24 April 2008: well the question title gives the answer the fact your asking if your ready to take this step says your unsure so i think you should wait. It does hurt the girl but not for the entire experience and when you start to relax itl feel great.... (read in full...)
We got married young thus I don't feel ready for the baby's arrival, I want her to agree with me on the abortion!
Q. My wife lost are baby a year ago and is now 2 months pregnant with another child im worried about her. She is not letting me touch her and is in bed all the time she is letting it take over her life. I want to hold her i knwo she is scared i just...
A. 24 April 2008: every new parent gets sacred at first and because you married young your feeling it even more but know that she is sacred too a baby is a wonderfull thing in a strong relationship based on love and trust you need to get over your feel and welcome ... (read in full...)
He said he's finding it hard not to be tempted by other girls, so we broke up, what do I do now?
Q. i broke up with my boyfriend od 6 months because he said hes finding it hard not to be tempted by other girls. i realy liked him and miss him lots, i care alot for him and it hurts that were not together. we' ve remained friend as we got along rea...
A. 24 April 2008: well if you want to know where you stand be direct and ask him. Good luck... (read in full...)
I have a fear of blood. What will happen when I lose my virginity?
Q. Hello. I have a fear of blood. When I lose my virginity, I want it to be with a virgin. If she bleeds, I'm afraid I'm going to faint. The very thought of someone elses blood anywhere near me makes my skin crawl. What should I do?...
A. 24 April 2008: Only have sex when your ready dont rush it and to be honest if you dont see the blood you wont faint its usually a sight thing. So when your at the point and your having sex when she bleeds try not to look at it.... (read in full...)
Masturbation came up in one of our conversations, and he -FLIPPED OUT??
Q. this is basically a question for the men, although ladys your advice is Greatly appreciated as well. So ive had sexual relationships, with my current partner. Everything is going great, problem is that i dont get to see him to often because ...
A. 24 April 2008: I would agree there is nothing wrong with it. You need to explain to him that it has nothing to do with his abilitises to please you or abilities in the bed room or his manhood sounds like he is a little insecure about it.... (read in full...)
I gave her space. she's still ignoring me. Advice on how to talk to her one last time?
Q. I really like my friend. She found out, I gave her space because she didnt like me. Its been 2 months, yet were still not talking. She's rejected my calls. Can anyone advice me on how to talk to her one last time-attempt before I give up? Thanks...
A. 24 April 2008: in there kinds of situations face to face is the only real way go to her tell her you need to talk to her and explain how you feel and if she doesnt feel the same express your feelings for still wanting to stay as friends. Good luck... (read in full...)
I feel guilty because of the way I feel about him so what should I do?
Q. Ok, so i've fallen for my friends on off boyfriend...which for the sake of anonymity i'll just call 'N'. But i'll start for the beggining and explain the whole story from the start... I started working at a small supermarket in january las...
A. 24 April 2008: oh and dont feel disloyal your not acting on it and in time your feeling for him will fade and then you can live your life focusing more on your current relationship... (read in full...)
I feel guilty because of the way I feel about him so what should I do?
Q. Ok, so i've fallen for my friends on off boyfriend...which for the sake of anonymity i'll just call 'N'. But i'll start for the beggining and explain the whole story from the start... I started working at a small supermarket in january las...
A. 24 April 2008: np if you ever need someone to talk to you know im just a pm away. Like i said stay strong and if you ever start to feel weak think of the child and come and talk to me im happy to help you whenever you need me. ... (read in full...)
I feel guilty because of the way I feel about him so what should I do?
Q. Ok, so i've fallen for my friends on off boyfriend...which for the sake of anonymity i'll just call 'N'. But i'll start for the beggining and explain the whole story from the start... I started working at a small supermarket in january las...
A. 23 April 2008: i have said this to many people sadly feeling cant be just switched off you have to use your will power to avoid and get over him stay strong about it and always keep in mind the child it has a future too use this idea to help keep yourself away ... (read in full...)
I think she likes him back and I get jealous! I'm planning on asking her out though.
Q. I work with a girl and I really like her. She's finishing work in a few weeks though I've worked with her for about 8 months. When we started to get to know one another, she was really friendly and chatty. I would compliment her and she would ...
A. 23 April 2008: Your not being stupid but without knowing her and seeing how she is with you no one here can say for sure if she likes you but i think you should talk to her about it you only have a short time left better to find out now than carry on wondering ... (read in full...)
He said he's finding it hard not to be tempted by other girls, so we broke up, what do I do now?
Q. i broke up with my boyfriend od 6 months because he said hes finding it hard not to be tempted by other girls. i realy liked him and miss him lots, i care alot for him and it hurts that were not together. we' ve remained friend as we got along rea...
A. 20 April 2008: give him a little space and just be friends i think you should go out with some friends and have some fun move on. ... (read in full...)
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