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writes:Dear cupid ...i really like this guy but he has a girlfriend and he said he likes me alot but he still likes his girlfriend. i told him i would wait but not too long and that i wouldnt ruin their relationship. he always say i love you when its just us but when shes around he just says bye and hugs me . what should i do ???- Cluelessly in love
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reader, BigSaint +, writes (25 February 2009):
first off i see you women always taking us men down now i know some of us are douche bags but remember there is tons of bitches so it all levels out. now for a man to be a dog he has to have a partner like the chick here married cheating on her spouse and have the nerve to complain about him not leaving his girl lol. come on you selfish ass girl your with your husband for what? think how he must feel when he finds out your on with some other guy. seriously and you wonder why guys dont trust or always jealous. ill be honest if a man finds a girl he likes and has some what of trust for her he will be with her and commit to building, but uf you hurt this man he will never trust you aggain i know we say it but we never forget like you dont in the same instance. sorry for slppy first time on laptop
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): I am pretty much in this situation right now and it scares the shit out of me. i am so jealous when he is with her. its been four months he says he loves me, but does he. we were together years ago in high school and i dumped him, i thnk hes afraid ill do it agian, thats why he handgs on to her. plues, im married, yep. shit. but i need to stay for health reasons right now, i cant lose my home, my insurance, everything right now. but i am taking baby steps, hes not. im getting fed uo and i see where this is going,. down the toilet. right?
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reader, Amy...x  +, writes (28 April 2008):
heya, i'm in almost the same position. except it is my ex who is with this new girl, he told one of my best friends that he doesnt know how to feel or what to do about his feelings. I would wait untill he makes more of an effort to get to you, he obviously does still like his girlfriend and the last thing you want to do is interfere with their relationship. if he likes you that much, he will finish with his current girlfriend for you. try not to get to hung up on him sweetie, whats meant to be, will be.
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reader, Nikkii Babyee +, writes (27 April 2008):
 hmm this is actually a toughie but i really dont think that you should wait tbh ... i think that guys can be really greedy at times and think they can have a few girls on the go at once! he obviously likes his girlfriend more than he is letting on because he would of broke up with her straight away if he meant his word! guys are just players and they always will be! just be careful sweetie because you might be the one that ends up getting hurt the mosr! try move on and find a hottie thats single itl be more beneficial to you in the long run! trust mee! :)
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reader, Nikkii Babyee +, writes (27 April 2008):
hmm this is actually a toughie but i really dont think that you should wait tbh ... i think that guys can be really greedy at times and think they can have a few girls on the go at once! he obviously likes his girlfriend more than he is letting on because he would of broke up with her straight away if he meant his word! guys are just players and they always will be! just be careful sweetie because you might be the one that ends up getting hurt the mosr! try move on and find a hottie thats single itl be more beneficial to you in the long run! trust mee! :)
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reader, pinkfairy +, writes (27 April 2008):
 hello
i have been in something like this and dnt do it he nos u like him and well like it tht hes got 2 girls likin him so he just taggin u along 2 keep yh there he probley wont even break up with him girlfriend if im wrong and he dose like u then tell him 2 make his minde up its not takeing him away becasue u dnt take people away they come if they wnt good luck =D
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): Look, I know this from experience, it's not good of you to, in a way, take him away from his girlfriend. If you like him, you'll wait around for him. You've just got to let him do things in his time, otherwise you'll end up the heartless bitch that ruined their relationship.
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reader, previasc96 +, writes (27 April 2008):
Don't be his girl on the side if you wanna be his number one! He knows you wanna be with him and says he likes you too. Give him an ultimatum, either he dumps his GF or you'll just move on.
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (27 April 2008):
 leave them alone. if he wanted you he would dump her and go with you. obviously he wants to be with his gf, or clearly he wants to play you by keeping you dangling in reserve. He gets all the love from his gf and by tellin you he wants you will also get him affection. Leave them alone to their relationship and if he still continues this after they break up then make your move but right now is not a good time. Take consideration of his current gf's feelings!
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reader, salvation +, writes (27 April 2008):
well you dont want to be the reason they split so i think you should just wait and see how it gos if nothing happens move on cause you dont know she could love him as much as you do and imagine if you were with him and she came between you. Just wait.
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reader, xxshaunaxx +, writes (27 April 2008):
I was in the exact same situation about a month or so back. and for me, it wasn't worth it. the majority, and I mean MAJORITY, of the time, the guy won't leave his girlfriend. he may say he will, but he won't. he probably just wants someone on the side for the thrill of it. forget about him. this kind of guy isnt worth your time.
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