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I'm in love with my boyfriend's best friend... any advice?
Q. i have been in a relationship for 4 years now and i love my boyfriend very much and im sure he loves me but a for a very long there has been another man i like, i have liked him before i meet my boyfriend when i was in school. but lately for the ...
A. 12 November 2008: well yes you said it chic yer only 18 :) sooner or later the likelyhood is yous will break up but if you really feel something for this other guy go for it honestly :) dont take life as if you have all the time in the world! last week my best friend ... (read in full...)
Christmas is coming up and I don't know what to ask for!
Q. I'm really stuck...everyone keeps asking me what i want for Christmas and i really have no idea what to ask for??? any suggestions for a teenage boy welcome:) Thanks:)...
A. 12 November 2008: the new ipod touch maybeee??... (read in full...)
We keep having affairs - when will he stay with me?
Q. I have been in love with a guy since i have been 16. We never dated because another guy kept us apart because he wanted to date me and was telling the guy i was in love with i moved and i wasn't interested in him. well i didn't move to another state ...
A. 12 November 2008: awh my that sounds like a pretty good love story to me bar tha affairs and people getting hurt! tbh i think yas should get together permanently because yous have been on an off there is obviously something serious between yous i honestly think yas ... (read in full...)
Should I teach my roommates a lesson?
Q. I live with 5 other girls and they drive me insane!! They are so immature, loud and gossip non stop. They keep me up all night even when I nicely asked them to keep down. They are so interested in my personal life, since we share a wall, they listen ...
A. 12 November 2008: well tbh if yer really un happy about yer situation then of course report them! everyone is entitled to be happy and if yer really not happy then do what you gota do girl :) just be careful that it doesnt backfire an its yer whole room that doesnt ... (read in full...)
His libido is nonexistent and he says he doesn't know why.
Q. What is usually the right thing to think, when your husband loses his sex drive? Do men usually know, why they don't have sex drive ,or they are not? Is it possible not to know? My husband lost his sex drive years ago, and he says, he has no i...
A. 12 November 2008: well i know im not younger than you but in biology we learnt about like the girls menopause at the age of around 40-50 and with that we learnt that something similar happens to guys but it effects there sex! its just that they dont have the same ... (read in full...)
Lying about my life just so he is interested in me!
Q. i am gonna sound so strange but here we go. Well recently i have made friends with this boy, and we have become really close, but i have been telling him lies, just so he is interested in me :( i told him i have 8 sisters 5 cars and my hair colou...
A. 12 November 2008: i really think you need to tell him the truth :)
i made the mistake of lying to meet a boy once and i was lucky because i told him the truth an he understood an forgave me! really jus tell him the truth tell him you said what you said to impr... (read in full...)
I don't want to have sex but he won't leave me alone!
Q. i met this guy only like 3 weeks ago. he is 15 and i am 13. he's already had sex before and wants to do it with me. he's not even my boyfriend. he keeps asking me to come to his house and tell him i don't want to. every time he asks me to come over, ...
A. 12 November 2008: Oh My Gosh! dont even think about havin sex with him =O most guys are the same tbh he sounds like the typical player all he wants is to bed you hel not want nefin after! yer 13 chic :) do nottt lose yer virginity to someone like that he just doesnt ... (read in full...)
My loving husband has been seeing a dominator for the past 3 years!
Q. I'm 28, been married to my husband for the past 4 years. I found out off a very close friend last night that he'd been seeing a dominator (I can't use the word dominatrix as it wasn't another woman he'd been seeing). She said that she was driving ...
A. 12 November 2008: One Thing Sayin "thanks for 3 great years of fun may it coninue" doesnt sound like a thing many people would say to someone ona street an the person below me is totally right i can barely hear people in a car never mind outside it unless ther ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slept with my bestfriend, I can't forget it
Q. My boyfriend slept with my best friend, i cant forget and its causing problems in are relationship. I have also cheated to get even but now i feel just as bad. What can i do ?...
A. 12 November 2008: You just have to walk away from this. ring him an tell him its over an get on with yer life if he refuses to take it thats his own problem buh you know you've ended it with him! jus tell him its not workin and to move on! it should be tha best for ... (read in full...)
Corsage or flowers? Which one is better to give to her?
Q. Homecoming is coming up and i was wondering if i should bring a corsage or just flowers. Like i dont want to over do it. And if not what should i bring?...
A. 19 October 2008: definitely a corsage :) its way cuter :)... (read in full...)
She likes me!... But she lives far away. I don't want to hurt her. How can I spare her feelings?
Q. There's a girl who likes me. Problem is, she lives over 3 hours away. We met over facebook. Until she revealed how she felt, I thought it was just friendly banter. Although, there were a couple of occasions where we were clearly flirting. During...
A. 30 April 2008: heyy! :) firstly just wana say thats sucha a cute wee story :( but i really think that youve just got to be honest with this girl! she seems as if shed really understand and that shed appreciate to know what yer uptake on the whole situation is! you ... (read in full...)
How could he fancy me, when everyone says I'm ugly?
Q. in the past ive been told by most people that im ugly and i believe them. ive got a horrible face, a huge nose, horrible eyebrows n im fat too. but now there is 1 lad (who is a lil older than me) who texts me a lot and tells me he thinks im gorgeous ...
A. 30 April 2008: heyah sweetie :) right just gota say one thing first...do not listen to what any body tells you to put u down! for all you know they could be jealous of u! but just because other people say yer ugly does not mean that everyone assumes this! this guy ... (read in full...)
I stupidly told my friends I was goin out with this guy when I wasnt-How do I get out this mess?
Q. dear cupid, ive done somethin really stupid, i told my friends i was goin out with this guy when i really wasnt because i was so sick of them bragging about there own love lives, now my friend added the guy i sed i was goin out with on msn and shes ...
A. 29 April 2008: Ye well defo cross our fingers here :) just let us know lol
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I stupidly told my friends I was goin out with this guy when I wasnt-How do I get out this mess?
Q. dear cupid, ive done somethin really stupid, i told my friends i was goin out with this guy when i really wasnt because i was so sick of them bragging about there own love lives, now my friend added the guy i sed i was goin out with on msn and shes ...
A. 29 April 2008: awk he really wont hate you like! if you jst explain thing you never know he might even end up going along with it just to help you annoy yer friends! sometimes guys can be pretty good like that and help u when yer in trouble and u never know if he ... (read in full...)
He asks for his butt to be played with and wants to use my vibrator in his anal,-is he gay?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years, however inbetween the years we have broke up alot, however one of the times we broke up he kissed his best friend, who is a guy.. he did it for a dare as his best friends gf asked them to do ...
A. 29 April 2008: hmm i think id be similar to you in this situation! he does sound a bit iffy on it and personally, i have neva known a guy to ask me to play with his ass lyk =/ this is quite a toughie because he might not even be and it could be yer imagination. ... (read in full...)
Could there be something about me girls realize after awhile doesn't make for boyfriend material? How do I get out of the friend zone?
Q. I seem to be stuck in "friend zone" with all of the girls I know. Most of the girls I've gotten to know in the last few months, though not all, I met through us being initially interested in one another, and then, after a few weeks things dry...
A. 29 April 2008: hmm fink u just have a case of bein too nice ov a guy lol! sometimes girls can see guys as being really attractive an they see things at first that they really like about a guy but then when they start getting to know them the guy sometimes trys to ... (read in full...)
I stupidly told my friends I was goin out with this guy when I wasnt-How do I get out this mess?
Q. dear cupid, ive done somethin really stupid, i told my friends i was goin out with this guy when i really wasnt because i was so sick of them bragging about there own love lives, now my friend added the guy i sed i was goin out with on msn and shes ...
A. 29 April 2008: hey! i think you should just tell yer friends the truth! tell them that u didnt like the fact they kept going on about their own love lives and tell them that u just said that so u didn feel left out anymore! then the being yer friends should ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slept with my bestfriend, I can't forget it
Q. My boyfriend slept with my best friend, i cant forget and its causing problems in are relationship. I have also cheated to get even but now i feel just as bad. What can i do ?...
A. 29 April 2008: well chic it it helps ino how ya feel about loving someone so much that u take them back everytime! happened to me when i was lyk 15/16! but now me and that guy r really close mates and he helps me with any problems i have! it did take a while to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slept with my bestfriend, I can't forget it
Q. My boyfriend slept with my best friend, i cant forget and its causing problems in are relationship. I have also cheated to get even but now i feel just as bad. What can i do ?...
A. 29 April 2008: i say get rid of him hun! its 1 thing cheating with someone else but yer best friend? thats just uncalled for! yer 16 and have yer whole life ahead of you theres going to be so many more guys out there for you, dont get stuck on this 1! and as 4 yer ... (read in full...)
When is it okay to tell her I love her? I don't want to freak her out.
Q. hey my gf and I (I'm 18 she's 15)just started going back out about 10 days ago. Before then in January we went out for a month then broke up because we wanted to get to know each other better. and from then till now we have developed into best ...
A. 29 April 2008: hey! i think the fact that yous have developed into best friends is part of the reason that u love her so much! i think id wait a wee while to see what happens cuz some girls do get really freaked out when a guy says they love them especially at 15! ... (read in full...)
There might have been sum cum still on the tip of his penis,now we're afraid I might be pregnant!
Q. =( My Best guy friend and I are both 16 and last night we stayed over at a friends and got sooo drunk.You wouldnt even believe it!! so we started getting extremly physical,kissing,grinding,etc...and then we took all of our clothes off and wanted t...
A. 29 April 2008: hmm im not sureee =/ i really think ya shud just geta wee pregnancy test hun just to be on the safe side but yeah do get 1 itl put yer mind at ease! sure let me know wat the outcome is if u do 1 :)
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There might have been sum cum still on the tip of his penis,now we're afraid I might be pregnant!
Q. =( My Best guy friend and I are both 16 and last night we stayed over at a friends and got sooo drunk.You wouldnt even believe it!! so we started getting extremly physical,kissing,grinding,etc...and then we took all of our clothes off and wanted t...
A. 28 April 2008: are you really sure that it ddint go in hun? because it sounds to me like it could of went further than what you actualli thought cause lets face it you said yas wer both drunk??
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How do I ask my boyfriend to touch me "down there"?
Q. I have gone down on my boyfriend multiple times. He asked if he can touch me but I was uncomfortable at the time so I said no, but now I'm ready. How do I ask him?...
A. 28 April 2008: you really dont have to ask him to do anything hun, all you have to do is guide him down to that area the next time yer in a passionate embrace when he can see yer ready his hands will be flying evrytime! :)
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I'm 17yrs old and ready to have a baby with my boyfriend. He'll do it to make me happy but I know he's not ready!
Q. i'm 17 years old, and I live with my grandparents and my boyfriend of two and a half years who is also 17. I want nothing more than to have a baby, I know all the responsibilties because I grew up with my sister who had a baby at 17. I think i'm ...
A. 28 April 2008: although you really want a baby, you do have to think about yer boyfriends needs and wants! if he decides to have a baby with you and when it comes, what if he knows hes not ready for the responsibilty and just has to go because he cant cope? youd ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him how things are going with his new girlfriend? I've heard they've not been getting along well...
Q. Hi, my ex has been dating this other girl for a few months now, but recently they have been arguing a lot and last week he told one of my best friends that he didnt know what to do or how to feel, he said he didnt want to speak to me because he ...
A. 28 April 2008: heyah :) ehm i really dont think that you being happy that hes agruing with his gf is wrong i think its a feeling that we get when we really hate the situation! and i think that he wont speak to you and tell you his problems because he doesnt want ... (read in full...)
How do I get her number without looking desperate?
Q. Hi, i ask a somewhat similar question a few days back, but i added on to it. I know handing a girl your number is a bad thing, makes them think your desperate or whatnot but what if the only time you see this girl ,its only for a minute each day....
A. 28 April 2008: its really not a matter of lookin desperate its showing her that you have the confidence and the charm to go up to her and ask her for a date maybe even pull a wee line you guys are great at...make her laugh and then id say the onversation will be ... (read in full...)
Can casual sex end up as the real thing?
Q. Has anyone had a FWB relationship which has ended up as the real thing?...
A. 28 April 2008: i was meeting up with this guy last summer and we jumped into things really quickly because there was just so much passion between us and yeahit was the real thing! lasted a few couple of months but ven stil i know that what we had was a real thing ... (read in full...)
He's my best friend and I think I love him but he sees me as a sister, do I state my feelings to him?
Q. Hiiyah! I've Been best friends with this guy for about 3 years now and i can honestly say that i love him to pieces but we've started to drift apart recently and i hate that! :( A while back before i was going with my last boyfriend i started to f...
A. 27 April 2008: awk fanx for all yer comments :) gona just have a wee think for a while and see what to do! mybe get together do something and take it from there :)... (read in full...)
How do I get over him beause he lives to far away ?
Q. hello im 15 and well my parents have students from france and spain and italy and i just i got to no one from fraance really well and fell in love with him and it was my first time and it felt really strange but when he left i was really u...
A. 27 April 2008: hiiyah sweetie! well first of all yer 15 so ther is going to be plenty more boys that will capture yer attention in years to come! i just think that at this time you need friends around you! in school so some innocent flirting with a few boys and ... (read in full...)
I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend ?
Q. Dear cupid ... i really like this guy but he has a girlfriend and he said he likes me alot but he still likes his girlfriend. i told him i would wait but not too long and that i wouldnt ruin their relationship. he always say i love you when its just...
A. 27 April 2008: hmm this is actually a toughie but i really dont think that you should wait tbh ... i think that guys can be really greedy at times and think they can have a few girls on the go at once! he obviously likes his girlfriend more than he is letting on ... (read in full...)
I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend ?
Q. Dear cupid ... i really like this guy but he has a girlfriend and he said he likes me alot but he still likes his girlfriend. i told him i would wait but not too long and that i wouldnt ruin their relationship. he always say i love you when its just...
A. 27 April 2008: hmm this is actually a toughie but i really dont think that you should wait tbh ... i think that guys can be really greedy at times and think they can have a few girls on the go at once! he obviously likes his girlfriend more than he is letting on ... (read in full...)
He's my best friend and I think I love him but he sees me as a sister, do I state my feelings to him?
Q. Hiiyah! I've Been best friends with this guy for about 3 years now and i can honestly say that i love him to pieces but we've started to drift apart recently and i hate that! :( A while back before i was going with my last boyfriend i started to f...
A. 27 April 2008: yeah i really like the sound of yer suggestion there but i am just so scared because i dont want to lose him altogether! hes a guy that really likes his times with the lads and with me i feel that he really opens up and he can trust me but i dont ... (read in full...)
I think I could trust him but it seems like he brought up the sex topic too soon, especially that he still lives with his ex! Your advice?
Q. hey everybody! Thank you for taking to time to read my question. I met this guy about a month ago and he really likes me. I enjoy being around him and we have a lot in common. He enjoys being around me too. However yesterday he brought up the s...
A. 27 April 2008: heyy! :)
i really think you should go with yer gut instinct on this one! i feel that as you say you have too much going on in yer life to get serious with someone because ets face it...guys do bring a lot of hassle! if he's still living with his ... (read in full...)
There might have been sum cum still on the tip of his penis,now we're afraid I might be pregnant!
Q. =( My Best guy friend and I are both 16 and last night we stayed over at a friends and got sooo drunk.You wouldnt even believe it!! so we started getting extremly physical,kissing,grinding,etc...and then we took all of our clothes off and wanted t...
A. 27 April 2008: i really do think that yer both still virgins! if it didnt go inside of you enough to make u bleed then it was not sex but the fact that some of his cum did touch you could mean that u have a really really small chance of being pregnant but i really ... (read in full...)
She didn't seem to care when I told her I've been grounded, and wont be able to see her as much. Why?
Q. I told my g/f that I'm grounded till the end of the school year, and I'm only going be able to see her at school. She just stood there and didn't say anything. It looks like she doesn't even care =(. I need help =( please I don't think she even care...
A. 27 April 2008: well the same thing happened to me when i was doing my gsces! i didnt get grounded but my mum and dad wouldnt let me out as much cuz they knew that the exams wer important! but believe me if she ddnt care shed have broken up with you because thats ... (read in full...)
How do I get my parents to allow my boyfriend and I to have a sleepover?
Q. How do I get my parents to allow my boyfriend and I to have a sleepover? I've asked before and was told no, but that was a year ago. Is this a trust issue or what....
A. 27 April 2008: aww i have tried so many times to get my mum and dad to let my boyfriend stay over! you'll obviously do nothing together when theyre in the house but its not a trust issue over you its just over ur boyfriend because they know what goes on in a ... (read in full...)
I really like my friend's boyfriend and he feels the same, what should I do?
Q. I don't know what to do, my friend's boyfriend really likes me and i like him. My friend and i don't speak that much now. I now speak to him everyday and really like spending time with him, but he still really likes his girlfriend. What should i...
A. 27 April 2008: i really think that you shoulg just move on from this because although you said that you and yer friend cont speak much it isn't fair to do this to someone thats meant to be yer friend! you will get a reputation for taking this guy away from her and ... (read in full...)
How to I get the guy who is my almost boyfriend to kiss me?
Q. How to I get the guy who is my almost boyfriend to kiss me? He and I see each other on average once every two weeks, because we go to different schools, and he lives near my BFF and every time i go to her house, we head over to his on bike and ...
A. 27 April 2008: Just give it a go and go straight in for a kiss when yous are alone! you know yerself with the time you've spent if u geta vibe that he likes you but just go for it girl! be strong and have the confidence to do it! that could work out better for you ... (read in full...)
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