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writes:hey everybody! Thank you for taking to time to read my question.I met this guy about a month ago and he really likes me. I enjoy being around him and we have a lot in common. He enjoys being around me too. However yesterday he brought up the subject of how he is sexually attracted to me and how he wants to have sex with me. I knew he liked me a lot but I was not expecting for him to ask me these type of questions because I have told him that I just wanted to be friends for now. The thing is I dont want to be in a relationship with him right now. First of all, im too busy with school and trying to get into med school and I dont want anything interfering with my dream. Secondly, he just broke up with his girlfriend and he still lives with her. Nothing goes on between the two at all and they are just friends but the fact that he just broke up with her and then started seeing me raises a red flag for me.I dont know what to do. He is a really nice guy and is pretty good looking but I am not too sure about jumping into a relationship and getting physical with him. I think I could trust him but it seems like he brought up the sex thing too soon. I have seen him a couple times but i am just not sure about this situation.Please help me out, i need advice.Thanks guys :)Jeannie
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys :)
Your advice really helped me and i think i am going to just stay friends with him. I need to worry about reaching my goal first and i dont want anything slowing me down!!
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reader, salvation  +, writes (27 April 2008):
i think for now focusing on your dream is the best option but you do need to talk to him about it and tell him you dont want a relationship right now and how you feel about the whole sex thing
keep it friendly and be honest with him. Good luck
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reader, Nikkii Babyee +, writes (27 April 2008):
 heyy! :)
i really think you should go with yer gut instinct on this one! i feel that as you say you have too much going on in yer life to get serious with someone because ets face it...guys do bring a lot of hassle! if he's still living with his girlfriend it might not be a good thing to get involved because it could end up being really messy! =/ tell him that you like him asa friend but you just arent ready for anything more! sex is menta be special not just with any old person and it sounds to me that he might just be looking to have sex wiuth you to get over his ex! just a suggestion like but to be careful because i wouldnt want to be getting involved especially at the fact that he is still living with her!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): HELLO I am megan
i have read youre question to be honest what i really think is he just wants to get his leg over darling im sorry to say it but ive seen it all before.
i think you would be making the right choice if you just get on with your school work before you think of relationships babe x
good luck and i hope this is useful to you x
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