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He is eager to recreate the one night stand, is this normal interest? Surprised by the repeated invitations!

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Question - (27 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I am confused. I met this guy about two months ago online we exchanged pics and decided to meet up in a bar.

After talking for about 7 hours suddenly it all happened we started snogging and then ended up back at mine and had the most amazing sex ever. Well we didn't have proper sex he started but then I said no because of the unsafe sex thing. So we just a 5 sex shag.

It was just touching, blow job etc. but I did make him orgasm and he practically did the same to me. It was truly amazing.

The next day he sent me lots of dirty texts saying he loved what I did to him. Then I did not hear from him from a few weeks, then he asked me out for a drink in the hope of sex. We didn't end up meeting but every two weeks since then he has asked me out for a drink but really he wants to meet me for sex. I have not gone yet, but he keeps asking. I have never ever had anyone ask me so much for sex, do guys normally do this?? I have had one night stands before but no one has ever contacted me this much afterwards to recreate the night. Is this normal?

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A female reader, Fiona xxx United Kingdom +, writes (20 May 2008):

Fiona xxx agony auntA one night stand is one thing...

But a F*** Buddy - no way - not my thing anyhow. I would feel strange about that like kind of used, and where do you draw the line. IMAO a recepie for getting hurt.

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (28 April 2008):

BigSis agony auntI think it's fairly normal, yes. He obviously enjoyed you enough to warrant him calling you so often.

What you need to do is, if you really want to see him again and re-create the night you had, then you should find out a little more about him.

You said you didn't hear from him for a few weeks, so he could be married or have a steady girlfriend and just want you for a bit of fun, {what we would normally call a 'F*** Buddy'}.

If you find he is single, then perhaps you can take it from there and persue your desires and go that step further.

Best of luck.

BigSis

xXx

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A male reader, salvation United Kingdom +, writes (27 April 2008):

it depends on the guy some guys will keep in touch especialy if it was good and sex without any commitment is a plus for some guys so yes its normalish i think its ok as long as your both ok with it and both know there is no commitment

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