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Is he gay? He's my first gay love help!

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Question - (26 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 April 2008)
A male Ireland age 30-35, *awaii08 writes:

Im 16 bi and I met this guy about 6 months ago, at first it seems like nothing special but later on I started to like him. Where not friends but know each other. He doesnt know that Im bi but I acted like one.

He's my first gay love and would like to know if hes gay or bi too. He gave me signs that he might be gay. First, I always catching him looking at me during our class but doesnt look back, Im the one who turns away because Im a shy guy!! secondly, the last time I chatted with him he makes an eye contact with me, i dont know if it is but it seems like.

Most of all, hes been friendly to me all the time.

I also think that he might be straight because he walks like a straight guy, he got a big manly voice, he smokes and drink, he always use foul language and lastly HE GOT A GIRLFRIEND

Should i ask him if hes gay? or should i tell him that im bi and that i like him

Im confused!! Please help!

As you may notice im not good in english grammar and sorry about that.

Im japanese by the way and look cute.:)

Thanks for the help.:-):-)

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A male reader, gayuncleandy New Zealand +, writes (27 April 2008):

gayuncleandy agony auntHe is probably not gay and you have a gay crush which is natural. Don't tell him anything otherwise you will not be able to spend time with him. After you spend time with him you will know if he is as "manly" as he acts because there will be opportunities for something to happen if he wants it. If not, just be happy to be around him while your youth is still with you.

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A male reader, kawaii08 Ireland +, writes (27 April 2008):

kawaii08 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Also, im afraid that everyone on my class might know that im bi even my parents... i haven't talk about it. I promised to myself that i would never tell anybody about my sexuality except him...

How can i ask him privately?

What questions should i ask?

I wanted to be with him so badly that i cant sleep every night thinking of him

Thanks 4 d advice guys ^-^

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A male reader, salvation United Kingdom +, writes (27 April 2008):

well no one here can say for sure if he is gay and asking him straight out might freak him out however there doesnt seem to be another way so i would recommend you talk to him properly about it and dont be too forward about it. Good luck

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