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writes: Hi, I'm 12 years old, and I'm going into 7th grade soon. The thing is, I haven't seen my boyfriend ALL summer. And I miss him terribly. I have a slight chance of seeing him when he gets back, but I dunno if I will. I was wonderng, what should I when I see him? Should I run over and kiss him when I see him, and just give him a hug? Should I just wave, and shake his hand? We've never kissed, so I dunno. What should I do? I'm so confused...And I care so much about him. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, thats_not_my_name +, writes (11 August 2008):
hey! well maybe you shouldn't kiss him straight away that might freak him out! not fully anyway, i'm sure on the cheek would be fine. just say how much you missed him and how glad you are that he's back home and see what happens. you'll have you first kiss when the time is right..don't feel like you need to rush into it! just enjoy having a bf :) hope i helped, good luck and if you ever want anymore advice feel free to message me xxxxxx
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reader, bluntasaspoon +, writes (11 August 2008):
its not that bad honest! when i was 13 i went to a type of summer camp, i left my boyfriend at home and when i got back it was me that ran up to him and gave him a big hug not the other way round. so dont worry about what others say or think just do whats natural and ignore what every one else has to say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys, hbut I sti,l need more help. I dunno what I could do, if I was at SCHOOL. And his sister (going into 8th) might see us....And our parents would tease us for ages. It'd be like baby photos....But WORSE.
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reader, Spiffeh +, writes (11 August 2008):
I would give him a big juicy kiss personally then go back to his place ;) but im older and your a bit too young for that kinda stuff so just give him a hug and if your brave enough maybe even a kiss whatever feels right =] x
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reader, WiccanWonder +, writes (11 August 2008):
I personally would kiss him, but only on the cheek, shaking hands would look weird... hugging would be okay but it kinnda gives off the 'just friends' vibe... waving is like, i like you enough to notice you, but i dont like you as a boyfriend... well i hope this helps, feel free to message me anytime
love and hugs,
Tasha xx
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reader, natasia +, writes (11 August 2008):
If you haven't kissed yet, i don't think you should immediately jump upon him! - Give it a bit of time. I think you should smile and, if it feels right, give him a hug. Sometimes just looking into someone's eyes tells them everything (well, actuallly, most of the time!).
Don't plan what to do. Just do what feels natural when you see him. And don't fret - it's great - you're going to see him soon : )
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