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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hey there, I just wanted to ask you guys if you knew any tips or techniques on how to make sex and masturbation last longer. It doesn't take me very long to cum, and I was wondering what I could do to lengthen the pleasure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): ok when your having generally when its time, its time but heres what you can do (which my boy friend and i find to be very effective for the both of us):
take the time to have "two rounds". Have sex until you "get off" then get your penis back up and go again for a "second round". on your second go around you will last much longer before you "get off" again... this way you and your partner both are satisfied.
as far as masterbating... take it slow and it will be more enjoyable.
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male
reader, HotANDcold +, writes (5 December 2008):
This is an answer to a similar question I answered before:
I been there and its okay dude, it happens. Some times stress makes you weak and as a result it affects you’re sexual life, in my case it did happen that way. Sex with my girlfriend wouldn’t last for more than 10 to 20 minutes the maximum and I was really depressed because of that even thought she said it was okay I knew it wasn’t okay because I could tell she wasn’t satisfied which is not a good thing.
This is what I did, I didn’t see her for 3 days either watch porn. I went to sleep earlier and workout more than I use to and avoid fights with her or my siblings. Honestly in my case it did work really well. Now we have a good sexual life, we would have sex for 30 to 45 minutes.
But in the other hand the only thing my friend did was jerking off right before having sex with his gf the following day.
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reader, ryandude18 +, writes (5 December 2008):
Well with masturbaton i think thats a bit redundant, i think the best thing about masturbation is you are alot more free to stop and start again so you dont have to finish as soon as you feel the urge!
with sex you should masturbate (or let your partner masturbate you!) to near the point of orgasm then stop just before it should happen and wait for the senstaion to go away, this will help you last longer, it is a known method.
good luck have fun
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reader, natasia +, writes (5 December 2008):
I think at your age you just need to repeat it all again half an hour later. : )
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