I'm 22 and feel I'm getting old. When do people usually find "the one"?
Q. hi guys, I'm worried that i wont find the right guy. I'm nearly 22 and i feel like my dating life is nearly over. I would probably like to be settled down by 25 and marrying/kids about 30. Ive got a guy in my life, but he tends to invalidate an...
A. 23 October 2010: Dont worry too much about it.
If you really want to meet someone and settle down, then you need to get out more and meet new people. Dont settle, thats the secret.
Im 32. 10 years older than you and Im still single. But Im not worried as Im su... (read in full...)
Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 2 October 2010: Ive never really understood why women get so upset when they find out about white lies. It common knowledge that for every one lie a man tells, the women tells ten.
I'm afraid I'm firmly in the "women should get over it" camp.
As I'm anythi... (read in full...)
Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 22 September 2010: Women dont understand it and never will for one reason only. They dont want to understand. They are right and thats that.
They just cant understand the notion of "having to masturbate" as opposed to wanting to.
Im serous when I admit when I was... (read in full...)
I'm ending all contact with my ex. Is there still a chance he will come back?
Q. My ex boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me last February, because he wasn't ready for a commitment, and he didn't know what he wanted. The whole, "It's not you it's me" deal. I was heartbroken because I was happy. Since then we would hang out ...
A. 31 August 2010: I only have one real piece of advice when it comes to ex boyfriends and girlfriends.
Forget them and meet someone new... (read in full...)
Growing hair in abnormal areas
Q. I have been growing lots of hair on my buttocks, my vaginal area and my nipples...is this normal? Will guys find it repulsive? I need to know....
A. 31 August 2010: My first girlfriend had hair on her breasts, it didnt bother me too much.
Hair down there is perfectly normal so dont worry about it. Besides if you really hate it you can always shave it off or wax... (read in full...)
What you need to know about Online Dating
Q. First, let me start off by saying that online dating is not a bad thing. In todays age of technology and the internet, I think online dating is just as good if not better than simply meeting someone at a bar, pub or nightclub. When you meet ...
A. 31 August 2010: Thank you for writing this.
Im afraid i have to admit that I have been scammed out of money this way.
The situation was simple, I was lonely and just wanted to meet a girl, she sounded to good to be true, but I was lonely as i have said and th... (read in full...)
LDR: what's the point?
Q. I would like to know something, as it's always seemed highly absurd to me, and nonsense, what is the point of being in a Long distance relationship??? I mean, you cant touch the person, right? which means you cant hold them, kiss them, fuck them, ...
A. 25 August 2010: I was always oposed to LDR's. Thought they were just a lie.
Then I met a girl online, she lives in the USA and I live in Australia. And for a month it was nice, we sent letters back and forth and played evony together.
But yes, I went to b... (read in full...)
Kissing Cousins!
Q. Kissing Cousins. I have read many questions on this site about cousins that are "in love". For some of these couples I really do believe that they love each other. But cousins are still your family. And cousins that are couples who are 1st cousins ...
A. 25 August 2010: Well some people say 3rd cousins are family and some dont.
I guess that is a "to each their own" situation.
I personally dont recognise 2nd cousins as family as I really cant see how we would be genetically connected. They have teh genes from m... (read in full...)
Any experiences of love spells working
Q. Has anyone tried a love spell? Did you have any success stories, please share them and share the love spells. Please can you provide a love spell for me as I want my partner back so loving and for him to be faithful and worship me. Plea...
A. 22 August 2010: An ex tried a love spell on us once, she put a pouch under the mattress and we had to sleep.
Spent the rest of that week arguing over sex..... guess it was a luv spell
A good love spell that seems to work is:
1. loads of alchol
2. pr... (read in full...)
Why Men Visit Strip Clubs
Q. Quite a few of you have written to me in regards to your boyfriends (and a few husbands) frequenting the mens den, called Strip Clubs. This issue is a concern for most if not all women in a relationship and I can understand that. So today, I decided ...
A. 2 August 2010: Very interesting read there Anon.
I live in Australia and things are a bit different here. Prostitution is legal so in our strip clubs there are women walking around offering their survices.
But I do agree that no self respecting guy w... (read in full...)
Marriage - why should any man bother?
Q. Women… why should any guy propose marriage? Full disclosure: I have never been married, but several family members and friends have been hurt by divorce, and I know of only a handful of happy marriages over one year old. My feelings for the...
A. 23 July 2010: i hear you brother
Women in truth have become quite self obsessed, and seem to have no respect or regard for men at all.
I personally wont date a white women (I am a white man btw), I just dont trust them, far too selfish in my opinion.
A... (read in full...)
I'm almost 19 and have never even kissed a girl!
Q. Hello. I'm 18, nearly 19 and I have never kissed a girl before, infact I've never hooked up with a girl before (or whatever all you hip kids are calling it nowadays). I feel there are several factors affecting this. 1; I'm a naturally very reclusive ...
A. 10 July 2010: I was 19 and 1/2 when I met my first girlfriend, wasnt even close to a girl before that.
Now days I think the whole things funny :) and so will you... (read in full...)
Do guys ever put women in "the friend zone"?
Q. I'm concerned I've been putting in some male form of the friend zone but don't know. I have been friends with this guy for 2 years. We talk everyday on the phone, he has told me very personal things he doesn't tell anyone else, he has rearrange...
A. 10 July 2010: Look this is actually quite simple. Its just that you want it to be more so you are trying to make it more by over analysing it.
He isn't going to come around, don't know why, neither does he to be honest. Attraction is one of those odd things i... (read in full...)
Does becoming FWB destroy the chances of becoming something more?
Q. I have become fwb with an old flame who i have liked for a long time, problem is i want more but dare not say anything! we have only been together twice but he stopped all night and cuddled me, stroked my hair held my hand and kissed my forehead ...
A. 6 July 2010: I would say no, Im afriad.
But I think youd be better off telling him how you feel. I mean what are you doing there, its just going to hurt you in the end isnt it... (read in full...)
Do "fat girls" ever get a chance?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am 28 years old and been single my entire life. The only excuse that I have is that I am the "fat girl." I have tons of friends I work in a environment where I have to be outgoing and am. I go out almost every weekend. The guy...
A. 6 July 2010: Do you want the truth?
Yes there are plenty of guys out there for you. But the old myth that they will come to you is nonsense.
When you go out, do you go to the same places and with the same people? Or are you meeting new people?
Ill let ... (read in full...)
Feel so lonely and broken hearted
Q. I just wondered if anyone has any advice for feeling lonely. I'm a 32 single female and it does not help that I am new to the city, and also very shy. I don't know anyone here and am an introvert so I find it really hard just to go up to people and ...
A. 23 May 2010: Its simple, try something new. Also get out of the house, I make sure that I'm out for atlest 4 hours a day (not including work)
Join a club and slowly get to know the people in said club. There are your new friends. Don't stop there though, ... (read in full...)
Is my ex boyfriend in a rebound relationship?
Q. My ex and i broke up. a month later he was dating a girl. 2 months into their relationship he cheated on her with me said he wanted to get back with me that type of stuff. then a couple days later he said he was "happy" and "knows" he wants to be ...
A. 23 May 2010: What on earth are you doing? Why are you talking to him like this?
He is trying to make you his bit on the side, nothing more.
Don't kid yourself, if your relationship was special then it wouldn't have ended, people don't just need a break...t... (read in full...)
Cheating - general consensus, variety of questions
Q. I have a few general questions on cheating that I'd like to get feedback on... If your spouse cheated on you, would you stay with them? Would you leave? If you had children with them and they cheated, would you stay with them? Would you fo...
A. 23 May 2010: I take cheating as the person telling you that they don't want to commit to you.
There are thousands of reasons people do it, but at the end the truth is that they aren't happy with just you....so why stay with them?... (read in full...)
I am attracted to two men, what am I supposed to do?!
Q. I'm a 25 year old female in an open relationship with a man ten years older than me. We've been together for nearly 6 years, but I recently took a chance and met one of my male friends from the past for the first time. This has led to some new ...
A. 23 May 2010: Well, my first impression is that you seem to want you current relationship to end. It does seem that is is winding up huh.
the only issue I have is in regards to Joe being in a relationship. He could just make you his bit on the side and thus jus... (read in full...)
Are men attracted to overweight women?
Q. hey aunties and uncles. I'm going to be direct with this question because I've always wanted to know. is being overweight a real turn off for boys and do they get attracted to overweight girls? I myself am not overweight or anything but I am curious ...
A. 23 May 2010: Just as you will find that different women will like different things in men, so it is the same in reverse.
Men's idea of overweight is actually quite obese. We like curves and don't mind women to be quite a bit fatter than you think. 60 - 80kgs ... (read in full...)
Problems with condoms?
Q. in my past, present, and probably future relationships i have never liked using a condom. i dont know if its just me, the brand, or what. i think that smell like plastic, ranted they are, but still not a turn on. they inhibit my..pleasure. to ...
A. 17 May 2010: I know exactly what you mean, I just hate condoms...takes all the feeling away and they feel gross.
You need to experiment with different ones, there are extra thin ones that you could try that should make a difference... (read in full...)
I can't leave husband but can't stand for him to touch me
Q. U don't even know where to begin. Me and my husband hardly agree on anything. We have 3 daughters together and I have 2 boys from from before him. He treats my sons so differently than our girls. They are both great kids. They are both honor roll ...
A. 16 May 2010: You could visit your family...thats what women did before divorce. Just visit your family without him and never return. Easy as that really, but the hard part will be getting your life back on track. I do hope you have someone you can fall back on... (read in full...)
B/f makes me feel unimportant in his life
Q. Hi, please give me some advice. Iv been with boyfriend about a year, and I have to say in our relationship I'm the romantic one, but Iv come to accept that he doesn't show his love through small gestures. I'm always sending him little texts, or...
A. 15 May 2010: Why are you still with him?
You do realise that there are loads of guys in this world who will message you and make you feel special? What are you doing with him?... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be aroused by the thought of other men when you're in love
Q. I've been in a relationship with my man for nearly 7 years now and we are due to get married in another year. I love him a lot and we have great sex. But for most of our relationship I have found myself repeatedly tempted by other men. I have nev...
A. 15 May 2010: Its normal, just enjoy it. Fantasies are great, but only if they stay fantasies.
Everyone looks at who they find attractive from time to time. I mess around with most of the girls I work with. Its all just a laugh.
Just make sure you don't a... (read in full...)
Got too drunk and don't know how to apologise
Q. help. I'm feeling so crap about myself, i got way to drunk last night. all i had was 3 drinks of vodka and my tolerance is normally way higher. i dont remeber anything but i had gone and insulted both my friends who i also live with telling one...
A. 15 May 2010: The sooner you speak to your friends about it the better. By waiting you are allowing it to fester and soon you will be estranged from them.
This is how good friendships end you know. Just face up and take the yelling you know is coming and then... (read in full...)
Why did my crush act like this?
Q. Yesterday evening I was over at my crushes house to hang out with her brother. I finally got the nerve to make a move by giving her a what I like to call a "promise to date" ring. Anyway, the way I was going to go about giving it to her was to fi...
A. 15 May 2010: You have gone about this whole thing all wrong from the start.
Why dont you simply tell her that you like her and ask if she would like to hang out sometime. Subtility isnt usually the best policy... (read in full...)
Didn't wash my hands after oral sex--am I pregnant?
Q. I was giving my boyfriend oral, and i swallowed his precum, i think maybe afterward a little bit leaked on my hand. I really had to go pee, so I did. I didnt wash my hands, and grabbed the toilet paper. I didnt touch my vagina at all, but i touched ...
A. 15 May 2010: When Sperm is exposed to an oxygen environment it dies.
You are fine... (read in full...)
Creepy teacher!
Q. Ok, i'm not gonna sugercoat this. I think my tutor is a pervert and his actions are starting to make me feel uncomfortable. I am by nature a flirty person, but it's not always in a sexual way, just giving people an ego boost if they look like they ...
A. 9 May 2010: I think this issue has a very easy solution.
Simply undo what has been done, stop taking advantage of his privaleges and absolutely no flurting with him, try not to around him either.
When you talk to him use a serous tone and he will get the ... (read in full...)
He broke up but then acts all weird when seeing me
Q. i was with a much older man (33 years) and he sent me a message ending it (were together for 6 months). he said he couldnt see me to do it as if he did he want to get back with me......like why would you send someone a email saying it??! how unfa...
A. 9 May 2010: He is full of it, plain and simple.
I guess its up to you how much of your personal time you waste on him, but rest assured that a relationship with him will go nowhere.
He wouldn't break up with you if he wanted to be with you. So please s... (read in full...)
Can it be possible to be pregnant even though I am on the pill?
Q. I am 22, I need help. I am on pills and me and my Bf make love almost everyday. My periods finished on sunday. Since then i have been sick. I can smell food at all. I throw out evrything i eat. I am scared i might be pregnant. can that be possible. ...
A. 5 May 2010: Yes its possible, my daughter was concieved on the pill... (read in full...)
Sensitive new age guy vs Cocky and Arrogant
Q. Do women like men who are a bit cocky and arrogant? Or do they prefer snesitive new age guys? Some women, I've heard, like men who exude confidence. Is this a dumb question? Help me out here. I want to get women on side, so they stop pulling faces ...
A. 3 May 2010: I'll tell you three things to do and if you follow through, you will get a gf.
1. Be patient, get to know a couple of girls as just friends first.
2. Think about how they feel around you and how you can make them more comfortable. Try to smile... (read in full...)
Is it rude for two people to have sex while you're in the room?
Q. Does anybody else think it rude for two friends to have sex whilst your in the room! It made me uncomfortable, but, I perhaps I'm taking life too seriously or something. How would other people react? Btw it was a group if us sleeping at a mate...
A. 25 April 2010: A further thought, if you do stay there again, bring a cam corder. That way you can make some money... (read in full...)
Is it rude for two people to have sex while you're in the room?
Q. Does anybody else think it rude for two friends to have sex whilst your in the room! It made me uncomfortable, but, I perhaps I'm taking life too seriously or something. How would other people react? Btw it was a group if us sleeping at a mate...
A. 25 April 2010: It is odd. A couple of friends of myne used to dry hump alot in front of me but I just thought that was funny as they looked so rediculous.
I wonder if you should have raised a score card lol...5 or 6 out of 10?... (read in full...)
Should I un-friend my ex-girlfriend on Facebook?
Q. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend about three days ago, and I am now just starting the very hard, heart-breaking and emotional healing process. Every time I log on to the computer, I have the urge to check her Facebook page, to see how she's doing ...
A. 25 April 2010: My advice is yes, remove her. You need a clean break to properly start the grieving process.
You arnt getting over her are you, as you have said you always look at her status. So you will just keep hurting yourself until you make the break.... (read in full...)
Was my husband having lustful thoughts?
Q. myself and my husband we had been out for a picnic with a group of friends and their was a female who had worn revealing clothes my husband would look at her in breaks as we were together all the time eating and drinking does this show he was ...
A. 24 April 2010: the second one, dont worry bout it... (read in full...)
What are lustful thoughts?
Q. what are lustfull thoughts..?...
A. 24 April 2010: anything involving a tree and privacy... (read in full...)
Why does my ex girlfriend keep contacting me?
Q. Hi - can anyone help? A year ago my girlfriend ended our relationship after 2 years. I was certain that she was meeting someone else but could never prove it - she says that she wasnt - but a couple of days later I spoke to her and she said to ...
A. 24 April 2010: You arnt a bad person for wanting to get on with your life. You need to make it clear though that she isnt to message you again. Once I had to yell down the phone "STOP F**** CALLING ME!" at an ex that just wouldnt stop. So I would delete her an... (read in full...)
I just had a horrible "first time", or what should have been. I'm too hurt to move on, what do I do?
Q. "Wow, hun...You're so much smaller than my ex...I'm sorry." That's what she told me when we were just about to...yeah Then she got up, apologized, and left quietly. I felt so terrible after, I actually cried lol. We don't see each other anymore. ...
A. 24 April 2010: I wish I could say something that would make you feel better. But this will be ok in time. You are just unlucky... Did she know it was your first time? YOur fine down there and plenty of women will be digging their nails into your back screaming i... (read in full...)
Is it ok to go out with a 12 year old when I'm 16?
Q. Is it ok to go out with a 12 year old girl when im 16. No its not about sex thats completely retarded at this age. She admitted she liked after her mom told me....
A. 24 April 2010: Up to you really, but id advise against it. No one your age there?... (read in full...)
I know he's going to ask me out but I still love a guy who ignores me!
Q. so basically this guy in my class start to talk to me an were pretty good friends now an he has a crush on me an we kissed, i know hes going to ask me out next time we chill an i want to say yes but i still love this other guy who lives 2 hours away ...
A. 24 April 2010: Guys ignore girls for a reason, we want you to leave us alone... Simple as that. You only want him because he doesnt want you. Stop being silly, its a waiste of your life. Guy number 2 is the right option... (read in full...)
Can you REALLY forgive someone after they cheat?
Q. Is it ever possible to have someone cheat in a relationship, and then really forgive someone? If you really forgive that person in your heart, can you still live happily ever after?...
A. 24 April 2010: Well my personal answer is no. Cheating = end of relationship as far as I'm concerned. But that is me, If you do feel that it was a mistake and wont be repeated then yes you could move past it, BUt you would have to want that ... (read in full...)
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