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writes:help.I'm feeling so crap about myself, i got way to drunk last night. all i had was 3 drinks of vodka and my tolerance is normally way higher. i dont remeber anything but i had gone and insulted both my friends who i also live with telling one shes a superficial b****h and only gos to the gym to use the sunbed cuz shes lazy and fat. this is not me at all, i'm always a really nice person aware of peoples feelings and never say anything offensive, and i hate confrontation.even my boyfriends looking at me funny and acting strange. i honestly do not know how to say sorry and im scared ive put my boyfriend off me.please help with any advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010): honestly it's comforting reading this cause I'm through a similiar situation. I was with a group of guys tonight and we were all playing bear pong and crap and seriously I got waaaaaaaaaaaay drunker than expected.. like.. idk. just embarassingly drunk... like Is stumbling into shit.. laughed at dumb shit.. and basically just made myself want to jump off a bridge my the end of the night, Im really trying to just noot drink anymore. this shit ends up happening every fucking time., i feel like i can control myself just fine until I drink. the true key is to just find a limit... know how much you ate that day.. and just go slow... you shouldnt go wrong
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for all your advice i really apreciate it. and no im not on any medication just my contreceptive pill, housemate did put two shots of 40% vodka in my drinks though, but i have such a high tolerance to bourbon etc...
but i have an even bigger problem my boyfriends acting all distant and says that it because of the other night and that i need to sort it out with my housemates, i tried to apologise to ameilia this morning (thats the girl theres also her partner whom im terrified of hes very brash and up front) but she said she didn't have the time to talk to me. it took so much guts on my part to even do that and she just shot me down.
so now im scared im losing my boyfriend, he went out just now without even saying goodbye. i feel like curling up in bed and never waking up. im so down about this, obviously, but what i care about more is losing my boyfriend. hes such a wondeful understanding loving man and i just don't get his behavoir.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 May 2010):
Wow. That is something. Like Auntie E says, make sure there wasn't something that you could have had a reaction with. Also write a letter of apology. And stay off the vodka.
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reader, Auntie E  +, writes (15 May 2010):
 Are you sure you did not inadvertently combine some medication with your vodka? Sounds to me like some sort of reaction. But to answer your question write your friend a sincere note of apology. It's that simple.
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (15 May 2010):
 Maybe you should just avoid these people for a while. I suppose you can apologise. But wait for the right moment.
I got drunk about a month ago and made a fool of myself too. But as they say...Life goes on.
It's good that you have remorse though. That's the main thing.
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reader, Myau +, writes (15 May 2010):
 The sooner you speak to your friends about it the better. By waiting you are allowing it to fester and soon you will be estranged from them.
This is how good friendships end you know. Just face up and take the yelling you know is coming and then you all can get past this.
All the best
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