I want a boyfriend.....
Q. Hey, I'm 15, and I want a boyfriend. I don't want any of that "you're too young" sh*t. Just give me nice answers :). Ok, so I'm home-schooled, and I only know 3-4 guys, one's Wayy too young (he's like 10), one likes me but just as a friend (which I...
A. 19 July 2012: Its fine. You need to look at expanding you social circle. Think about where you go out for fun ans see if you can try new things.... (read in full...)
She's hot and sexy. Yet I'm a little confused about my own feelings for my girlfriend. Please help me!
Q. I need advice. I could be quite jealous with my girlfriend. She's really hot and has a really sexy body. However, when when i fantasize about her, of other man touching her, looking at her, and even having sex with her I get way tooo turned on. ...
A. 2 June 2012: nothing wrong with fantasies. Just keep them fantasies... (read in full...)
I'm over eating and trying my parents alcohol as a solution. Could it be depression doing this to me?.
Q. Hiya everyone, I'm feeling a little bit worried about myself recently as I've been feeling really down and miserable for no reason. I'm 16 and thought it was just my hormones but since I was 14 going on 15 I have always felt a little bit down and...
A. 2 June 2012: Depression is very serous. I am suffering it as I write this. And I have to say you are better than I was at your age. I was in denial.
Now at age 33, I am getting counciling and feeling much better. Everyone I talk to always says that I look dif... (read in full...)
He has forbidden me to kiss him. He will not speak to me. What should I do?
Q. I'm a female 21 year old medical student.. i love my lecturer who is a doctor and married also.. i have some different feelings for him. I want to see him all the time..i want to spend a lot of time with him. once i came to his clinic and told ...
A. 2 June 2012: you can only loose in this situation, let yourself get over it... (read in full...)
Is it normal for women to only like one night stands?
Q. Hi Just after some opinions really. I know we hear a lot about blokes liking one night stands then losing interest, but I seem to be the female equivilant. I am so happy in my life right now in all ways, and I love being single. Yet I also love ...
A. 2 June 2012: There is nothing wrong with swinging while you are single, just watch out for STD's.
When you are in a relationship however........ (read in full...)
Boyfriend cheated - What should I do?
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 14 months and I've just found out that when he went to south africa in november for a month he kissed some girl who was friends with the family he was living with. I found out because he asked me to print so...
A. 1 June 2012: I always end the relationship, no matter the reason.... (read in full...)
I'm from a conservative family and in love with my cousin
Q. I am 17 years old without a boyfriend. My family is conservative. I am in love with my cousin and i don't have any hint whether he has any feelings for me or not. First it started with a crush i spent 5 years like this n now i m head over heels in ...
A. 1 June 2012: its time for you to get out and meet some new people.
This sort of thing always happenes when you isolate yourself.... (read in full...)
My ex told me I could either tell the guy myself or he would send the picture.
Q. So I made a horrible decision to have intercourse with my ex...for the last time like 3 days ago..after I met a new guy. My ex was stupid and took pictures of me. He then later found out that I was talking to this new guy. So now he said he's going ...
A. 1 June 2012: firstly, dont let people take pictures of you having sex..ever.
Secondly ditch the ex... (read in full...)
Is it alright to slip a guy your number in class?
Q. I'm not a social butterfly I'm a little shy because I don't know how to start a conversation most of the time. Anyhow I keep catching this guy in my class checking me out usually I'd see him out of the corner of my eye. Until recently I caught him ...
A. 1 June 2012: Wanna say yes. But before that try the "bump into" trick. Which is you walk into him and make it seem like an accident. When he asks if your ok, your in.... (read in full...)
This guy is trying to destroy my relationship!
Q. Hello people I have a really big problem that has been stressing me out lately. My girlfriend has recently gotten a job but all of her friends are guys and I am ok with that but the real problem is that every single one of them tries to have he...
A. 24 May 2012: This is pretty common in the workplace, I flirted with pretty much every girl I worked with, but was only looking at my GF.
So I wouldnt read too much into it, they are just having a laugh.
As for this guy, yes thats too far. Confront him. Ma... (read in full...)
I really want our kids to have my last name!
Q. I imagine this question is going to spark a lot of controversy.Me and my fiance have been talking about kids lately. Why I have no idea. But she keeps saying about the kids have her last name. but she has already said that when we get married she is ...
A. 17 May 2012: Insist, I did. My daughter has my last name... (read in full...)
What is the average age when a man feels ready to settle down?
Q. Hi this is just a quick question. I was talking to a male friend recently and he mentioned an average age that men feel ready to settle down. I was just wondering what is a mans average age to settle down thanks ...
A. 17 May 2012: Prob around 28yrs old.
We believe in having money and a good foundation first and want a few years to go crazy before we play house you see.... (read in full...)
Should I still date him even though he is going to have a kid and a lot of drama?
Q. Alright so here is my story. About a month ago I met a guy who wasn't my type, and is 9 years older than me. He is 28 and i'm 19 almost 20. Despite me not thinking anything would happen between us we had good conversation. A coffee date turned into ...
A. 16 May 2012: Short answer...no... (read in full...)
Isn't it too early to have sex?
Q. Hello! I met this guy online. We hung out 3 times so far and we had such an amazing time. We text and chat it up all the time... The 3rd time we hung out, there was so much sexual tension between us so we ended up making out and touching each others ...
A. 16 May 2012: Sex happens when it happenes. No need to rush it. If you are ready it will be special. If you rush it will be functional at best.
Alot of people make the mistake of rushing thier relationships, just relax and enjoy spending time with him.
... (read in full...)
My Indian family, my Pakistani ex gf who still lives at my place, my American girlfriend who's treated like an outsider and me...its a wreck!!
Q. I'm 21 years old, turning 22 this year. My girlfriend is 20, and turning 21 this year. We've been together for 3 years, and I want to ask her to marry me within the next week or so. Here's the problem. I'm Indian, and she's American. My p...
A. 16 May 2012: Move out and start your life dude, or you can keep waiting for someting that will never happen to occur.
tell your parents, get it over with. They will rant but will accept it in time.....or complain less
best of luck... (read in full...)
Why do I keep going back to my B/f even though he treats me like dirt?
Q. Dear Cupid my bf of 2 years is emotionally abusing me, always ignoring me, treats me like shit, never apologize and always finding one reason to another to stop spending time with me. Its been very long since we even talked for more than 5 mts....
A. 16 May 2012: Becaue you want to. You have a rediculous illusion of your relationship and are trying too hard to hold on to it.
Being single isnt as bad as you think. try it for awhile. Delete his number so you arnt tempted.... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend never compliment me?
Q. My significant other tells me that he loves me from time to time, but he almost never compliments me. It always seems like a chore for him to do. I told already that it bothers me when he doesn't tell me nice things every once in a while but about 2 ...
A. 16 May 2012: You probably expect compliments and become arrogant. Alot of guys have this problem with their gf's.
do you compliment him?... (read in full...)
My parents favor my sister over me and I'm really frustrated with their attitude
Q. Hi DearCupid, I'd like your opinion on this. I am 20 and my sister is 16. We both live at home with our parents. I work full time, she has a part time job. My parents have spent hundreds of dollars on her for clothes, sports events, parties,...
A. 16 May 2012: My parents made this mistake aswell. They shouldnt promise you money when they are just talking nonsense.
Try to think about your situation like this: you dont really need help (money) while your sister does.
Soon enough she will have to sta... (read in full...)
Am I normal? I don't look like other women!
Q. hi there, i dont men to be crude or nasty but i have some questions the average human growth and development book wont answer. i been around various women while we change in the locker and i see them naked. i notice that 99% have a vagina that hides ...
A. 27 April 2012: Guys don't really notice that sort of thing to be honest... (read in full...)
I'm helping my girlfriend with her assignments and she's promised me bedroom-related action as motivation in return, but she keeps putting it off
Q. Hello everyone, I'd like some advice. Me and my GF are having some relationship issues but we talked and are trying to fix it. My question is about something else though. We're both in the same class and I'm making her assignments for her, I k...
A. 25 April 2012: Break up with her before she breaks up with you.
Its over dude... (read in full...)
How do I get a girlfriend?
Q. Since my satirical article on how to get a boyfriend (With the real advice on the bottom) seemed to be well liked, I thought I'd write one for the opposite gender! Like the last one, please don't read the first half and then leave. The first...
A. 25 April 2012: That wont work, it will put you in "the friend zone'
Ive never heard one bit of decient advice from a woman on how to date women? why is that?
The way to get woman is simply to accept the fact that "women choose men" not the other way around... (read in full...)
Is my fiance having a relationship with her cousin who is in prison?
Q. I was cleaning my fiancé’s car and notice while in the trunk there were a number of letters in a large bag. The letters were from someone in prison to my fiancé. Curiosity made me read a letter and in the letter it stated that he was going to take ...
A. 25 April 2012: to be honest, Id be very worried.... (read in full...)
Threesome gone wrong
Q. Hello everyone, I would really love some advice with my problem. You all have done greatly and I can not help but keep coming back here for more... So in advance thank you. Last week my husband and I came about to having a threesome. We both h...
A. 25 April 2012: What a mess!
Well a few things, no more 3somes.
Secondly, has he cheated on you before?
And finally What do you both do together for fun? Not sex I mean... (read in full...)
I told my boyfriend about having a lesbian encounter.
Q. hi, i am in college and i have been dating my amazing boyfriend for almost 10 months. he is the best man in the world and i know he was put into my life for a reason. well i went to this girls house who is a lesbian and she started kissing me and ...
A. 19 March 2012: cheating is cheating.
Just let him get over it and then you both can move on.
Give him time... (read in full...)
Here's my advise: Don't send money to people you meet on the Internet!
Q. Hi everyone. It's been two years since I have written anything on Dear Cupid, so please bear with me since I have been on a two-year hiatus. Well... I'm still single since I'm not involved with anyone else, aside from the fact that I have ...
A. 19 March 2012: I was scammed by a girl a few years ago. It was the final nail that set of my depression. Im still suffering from it 3 years later.
Dude, as my father once put it "you cant buy love"
try meeting people from your area in which you can see face... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a gangster! Should I marry him?
Q. Hiya, I'm 27 years old woman and I dated a 19 year old boy for 5 months last year. The very first time that we met, I doubted that we would ever got along as he's 8years younger than me, turned out, it was like love at the first sight for us both ...
A. 1 March 2012: Id advise against marridge.
The criminal path is a very short and sad one.... (read in full...)
I feel uncomfortable because I have a higher sex drive than my boyfriend!
Q. I have always had higher sex drive than my bf and that has always been bothering me. I would be afraid that he finds me overly sexually active and feels disgusted by me. I spoke to him about this and he said he is fine with it, he isnt disgusted by ...
A. 1 March 2012: Get him to read your post here, and talk to him about it.
It might just be a confidence thing with him.
But if not then you face the age old question usually reserved for males:
Am I willing to put up with this?
My answer has been no e... (read in full...)
Can a woman propose to her boyfriend?
Q. In this day and age, is it completely out of line for a woman to propose to a man?...
A. 1 March 2012: Guys do tend to get side tracked.
We think we should have the house and the car and a bit of money so we can provide for our new family.
Its very old school thinking but still holds true, Im sure he wont be offended.... (read in full...)
Any advice on how to text dirty?
Q. i guess i am having a small problem of texting my boyfriend. when we want to play and flirt on the phone he is really good at sexting and sending dirty texts, but im soo bland and i dont know how to keep the fun up? can anyone give me some adv...
A. 28 February 2012: Just type what you would do, if you were together... (read in full...)
Can a woman propose to her boyfriend?
Q. In this day and age, is it completely out of line for a woman to propose to a man?...
A. 28 February 2012: Well you can....but would you really want to?
Isn't your whole fantasy, him preposing?
Damn our one get out of commitment free card...gone!!!!!!... (read in full...)
I told my best friend that I like him and now he won't talk to me
Q. Hello, I told my best guy friend of 6 years that I liked him. He is shy as am I so I told him by txt. His reply was 'really? how long have you felt this way?' I told him about a year and now it has been nearly 3 weeks and he has not called,fb or...
A. 28 February 2012: He most likely doesn't feel the same. You know whats he's like afterall, so Id just let it go. Are you ok with "just friends" though?... (read in full...)
He can't go, so says I can't go? Am I being selfish wanting to take this big trip with my mother to see sister in Oz?
Q. There is quite a bit going on at the moment I don't know what to do, but my main objective is to go and see my sister in Oz (who I am quite close to). She moved to the other side of the world last year and so me, my mum and my boyfriend were all ...
A. 26 February 2012: Go on the trip. He will get over it.... (read in full...)
He doesn't answer if I use my phone, but did when I used a phone unknown to him. Is it over?
Q. I need advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over two years. He is currently studying for the bar exam. He's had an attitude with me for the last week which I let go because he's under a lot of stress lately. Yesterday, I had my gran...
A. 26 February 2012: Hmmm not good.
But I wouldnt rush into anything if I were you. Lets see how this plays out.
But if it stays like this for atleast a week, dump him... (read in full...)
Which one? The one who likes me? Or the one I'm kind of into?
Q. There is this guy X who's in a class I'm in. And I’m kinda into to him. We talk in class sometimes but he’s extremely shy. We talk on Facebook at least once a week and he is the opposite of shy when we talk then. But I feel like I’m always the one ...
A. 26 February 2012: X is teh one you like..nuff said... (read in full...)
I make friends with girls more easily than boys!
Q. Hi i am a 16 yr old boy i was wondering why is it that im not shy of girls and i have mostly girls as friends and not much boys as friends but i seem to be very shy of boys i can easily make friends with girls but with boys is quite difficult i ...
A. 26 February 2012: It means you like doing stuff that girls do, rather then what boys like to do.
If you wanna make friends with "the boys" you need to take an interest in what they like. Sport is always a good bet.... (read in full...)
There is a sex tape of me out there and not just any sex tape a freaking party, public tape!!
Q. A few weeks ago I was at a party and drank alittle to much. There was this girl who was also a little drunk and shamelessly flirting with me and we ended up in one of the bedrooms and she was giving me head when some guy walked in. He laughed called ...
A. 24 February 2012: Apologise to her if it would make you feel better.
Don't worry, you will live it down... (read in full...)
What is the most romantic way to win over an ex who is dating someone else?
Q. 5 days ago I dumped my girlfriend that I have had for 6 months. I wanted to be single and I honestly think about my ex a lot. I love her still but she is with another man. It stinks, to say the least. So after the break up I see my ex's tumblr f...
A. 24 February 2012: You don't want her back. You dumped her for a reason.... (read in full...)
18 & never had a boyfriend or been kissed?
Q. Answering honestly and not sugarcoating anything, is it a little odd for a 18 year old girl to be so inexperienced? No bf, no kiss and of course no sex. Especially since most girls around 18 have had boyfriends, kisses and even sex, so they have ...
A. 22 February 2012: I was 19 when I met my first gf.
During High School, I though I was gay.
Just wasn't ready for the whole relationship biz I'm afraid.
Nothing wrong with being a late bloomer, don't worry bout it, you'll have plenty of guys before your done... (read in full...)
My girlfriend will ruin my life if I leave her. How do I get out of this?
Q. My girlfriend is completely obsessed with me. If I leave her she will ruin my life. I think the only way to make her fall out of love with me is to tell her that im convinced that im seriousely gay even though im not. What can I do that will make ...
A. 22 February 2012: Tell her straight and dont back down when she cries.
It will be unpleasant and ugly, but it will be over... (read in full...)
I don't want to die without trying anal sex, so is it cheating if I hire a prostitute as my wife refuses to do this?
Q. Just something that I've been thinking about: My wife and I have been together for years. Like any other couple, we have boundaries and red flags in sex. Anal sex is a red flag for her. But I can't get it off of my mind! I don't want to die wit...
A. 22 February 2012: Ok I tried anal and didn't like it, with a hooker as well lol as every gf said loudly NO! But I was single at the time.
The hooker looked shocked when I said "this isn't working turn around pls". Still makes me laugh.
Fantasies are always best ... (read in full...)
do I really need to pretend to be incompetent to make a guy stick around?
Q. I am a 26 year old single mother of two. I work a full time job, and am a full time mom. I live on my own with my kids, their dad lives over 1000 miles away. I pay all my own bills, etc... In other words, I'm completely independent. My kids dad and ...
A. 14 February 2012: Your not.
He just wasn't the right one... (read in full...)
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