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obviously wolfred is not my real name but it is pronounced
wol-fred. I got this name from my fav flower (why can't guys have fav flowers?)wolfbane.Really pretty and deadly too.Loaded with Anconite (thats a deadly poison for u folks out there)
I'm straight but no relationship.oh, and im 15
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How do I deal or forget her past sexual experience? Because I really love this girl and don't want to lose her
Q. Okay well I have been dating this girl for 2 months and i have really started to love her she is the first girl i have ever wanted to say i love you to but when i start to think about her past with all of the men she has slept with it really ...
A. 28 November 2012: Her past does not matter one bit if you truly care for her, but Also chigirl might be on to something. ... (read in full...)
I care, but I don't care?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 9 months now. There's some issues though. I care about her, but I really don't know if I care about her. I know it sounds weird, but it's what I've concluded to be the case. I care about her because ...
A. 28 November 2012: You have to let her Go. She'll probably hate you for it, but It's the best thing you can do for her right now. ... (read in full...)
She lives in his house, wears his clothes and has him at her beck and call... am I wrong to think this is out of order?
Q. My boyfriend and I both are 17. I have recently found out that one of the girls my boyfriend introduced to me as his sister is not, in fact, his sister. She is just a really close family friend. She has no blood or legal ties with him what so ever! ...
A. 30 October 2012: From What I can gather, she's part of his family. Blood or no blood, family is still family. I can probably understand Why you dislike this, but if your bf Says she's his sister ( by blood or not is unimportant) then I think you should ll trust ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex now at 15?
Q. Okay. So here is the deal. I am 15 yrs old my boyfriend is 17. We have been together for 9 months. I'm not dumb, and Im not gullible. I love him so much but I'm not the type of girl to express my feelings,so he doesn't know how much I care. Yet he ...
A. 9 October 2012: Legally, the answer is no. personally, i don't think you should. I mean, im 15 too, i understand how you feel, but i feel that at our age, it's really too young to make an important decision like this. Remember, you are only a virgin ONCE in your ... (read in full...)
I want to be dating my friend but don't think he feels the same
Q. Hey everyone, thanks in advance for reading, here's the issue... So a little while ago I got out of a relationship of one year. He's a wonderful person, but we just couldn't work any more. Pretty soon after the break up I started hanging out w...
A. 5 October 2012: Go for it, I don't see Why not. He's probably just shy. Good luck!... (read in full...)
He never talks to me. Yet I think my crush likes me. So why does he never talk to me?
Q. So here is the thing, I think my crush likes me too because he skips all his lessons last week when i have free lessons just to watch me. He tries to get close to me and i think he even told his mates that he likes me because i feel like everyone...
A. 17 September 2012: Make the first move. Some shy guys just need a little push.... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and I'm pregnant by my 15 year old B/f who talked me into sex. What do I do now?
Q. Hey!:) Ok, I have a huge problem and really need some help! I'm 14 years old, and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 months. He is 15, and in the year above me at school. At the beginning of the relationship, everything was absoutol...
A. 5 September 2012: Tell your parents. Get the police if necessary. Get away from that abusive a** hole. DO NOT fall for his sweet talking. They are a pack of lies.
Your parents may get very upset, but after they calm down, they will help you make it through.... (read in full...)
All of my friends have boyfriends except for me!
Q. Recently all of my friends have got boyfriends, or have someone who likes them, all except for me. I feel as though I'm the ugly one of my group of friends, they don't make me feel like this, it's just I know that in our group I'm probably the least ...
A. 5 September 2012: Why don't you try loving yourself? Before anybody can love you, you got to love yourself first. Guys wouldn't go for a girl with no self confidence.
Remember that you are a beautiful person, inside and out. Your friends can see that, why can't yo... (read in full...)
What does a guy mean when you tell him you like him and he say's "cool"?
Q. OK so I like this guy and he is one of my friends , I have heard rumours that he might like me, I have tried testing it. I was walking with him and another guy and asked if they thought I was pretty, the guy I liked said yes straight away, the othe...
A. 5 September 2012: From past experience, 'cool' is basically the typical response for a girl telling him that she likes him for teenage guys who are with their friends at the moment. He does not really know how to respond to that, and does not want to mess up in front ... (read in full...)
How can I successfully get to know this exchange student? I am in love with her but she seems not interested.
Q. Hello everyone, Since the beginning of the year, I have developed a crush on an exchange student, who has been transferred to my college to study for 3 years. I do not have any classes with her, and whenever I see her - she is always with her...
A. 20 August 2012: Just do it. Yanna58's right. The worse cast scenario is a rejection. And that hurts much less than if you never did try.... (read in full...)
Not sure if I'm ready to start anything sexual with him yet, what should I do?
Q. Hi, I am 14 and soon to be 15 in one month, and my boyfriend is 14 which he has just turned 14 but we are in the same year at school. We have been going out for a month on friday and it has felt like longer as we were 'seeing each other' a week ...
A. 20 August 2012: DONT DO IT!!! I can't stress that enough. Tell them no. Your much too young. ... (read in full...)
Should I make the first move? I want us to be in a relationship!
Q. Hi everyone, there is this guy that I like and have liked for a long time. We talk and flirt with each other but it never goes beyond that. I really want us to be in a relationship, but I don't think he has ever thought if me in any way other than ...
A. 4 August 2012: If you like him let him know. There are plenty of guys who can't read even the most obvious signs , and there's nothing stopping you from making the first move. Good luck !... (read in full...)
Does she like me or are we just friends?
Q. Okay so this girl is my friend in school. We'll refer to her as M. Well ima guy so anywho, im not very social however im very smart. and i dont think im too bad looking. maybe a 7 or 8 depending on who you are anywho so the whole school had a class ...
A. 1 August 2012: If you like her let her know. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Seems the same guy is trying to steal another girl away from me. How should I handle this?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly three months now, and lately, a guy has started trying to steal her away from me. This same guy has already taken one girl away from me and I know that he's heartless enough to do or say what...
A. 29 July 2012: There's not much else to say, as the rest have pretty much covered it.It seems that she is really into you, and im sure she won't be swayed by some random jerk.Don't worry, you can trust her.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with her, but she wants nothing to do with me
Q. there this girl I loved when I was young and I feel like I still do, you see this girl was the girl who got my attention in a way I couldn't imagine and the way I felt about her before was beyond amazing and when ever I saw her, I always told myself ...
A. 4 January 2012: You just got to let her go man, it's better that way... (read in full...)
I think she likes me, she said my name and I didn't even know she knew my name
Q. Quick question. I sit near this girl in college and I think she likes me . Wen ever I look her way she smiles and we started small talkin recently . Today, without having to even look at her she says "hey *my name*" like she was going out of her way ...
A. 8 November 2011: She wants to know you more, that's for sure. My guess is that she does, but don't take my word for it....check with the others.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
My Gf keeps telling me how her one night stand guy was better than me. How do I handle this and not get so upset?
Q. Months ago my girlfriend and I had broken up. Soon after we did she had drunken sex with a man she didn't know. well and we had gotten back together and she had told me the details and I was crushed that she had did things with him that we were pla...
A. 29 August 2011: Four words: She doesen't deserve you.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
Is it me? Does my attractiveness make people not take me seriously?
Q. For some reason, nobody takes me seriously. For reference, I've heard from my friends that I have a fairly, ahem, attractive face and body. I've been told I'm very pretty and have quite the voluptuous body. And I'm not trying to sound arrogant or ...
A. 29 August 2011: It's a sad fact that people just group people into "classes". Just ignore those people who thinks you are a bimbo, they are just not seeing you properly.... (read in full...)
We have two classes together and we are friends but the staring is weird!
Q. So I was just at a friends birthday party, it was guy girl, and it was mostly swimming. I've known this guy for about 3 years now. But at the party I caught him staring at my boobs a bunch! I just tried to ignore it but it was really awkward! Once ...
A. 29 August 2011: It's possible he likes you, or he may just like your body. i Guess you could wait and see. Good luck!... (read in full...)
How do you get over someone you truly loved?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are on and of we love each other, weve been dating for six months but hes said that hes going through alot and we need a break, well anyways im in eighth grade going to ninth im really hurt and my family and friends keep telling ...
A. 18 August 2011: actually, i don't thibk you ever really do... you just have to move on and time will numb the pain eventually. good luck! and i wish you well! ... (read in full...)
These Long Term Crush situations are confusing me. How can I find a girl who really cares for me?
Q. Well, i'm 14 and i've been in love with a girl for ages and this year i declared to her, but after two months (wish we were not in a relationship) she said by facebook she didn't liked me. However, in the middle of those two months, my best ...
A. 7 July 2011: you just have to move on and hope for the best!... (read in full...)
Why is she trying to break us up? We don't even know her. Help!
Q. I've just started dating a girl and a complete stranger to both of us has just started emailing my girlfriend telling her I'm a fake and that I'm not genuine, I'm really confused because I've never spoken to this person before and neither has my ...
A. 8 June 2011: proberbly a jealous/angry ex. just ignore whoever it is.... (read in full...)
Does she like me...should I make a move at the part?
Q. ok so back in february i went to a friends party whos a girl. at her party i met one of her best friends who is single. i thought she was she cute but didn't look into it much. i had to leave earlier than most people and when i left she hugged me ...
A. 26 May 2011: yep! you should just make a move! good luck!!!!!... (read in full...)
Would I get more attention from boys if I let my grades slip down to C and Ds?
Q. Do some boys feel intimidated if a girl gets very high marks at school? It seems to me that the girls who get so much more attention from boys do not get as good grades? Or am I wrong here? Should I try to slacken off a bit at school? One of the ...
A. 21 May 2011: i gotta go with the rest. boys who dun like ur grades aren't worth it.... (read in full...)
Do you think either like me? Right now it's my friend's GF and another girl I met online.
Q. hi everyone i recently posted a question on here about a girl that i liked and my feelings towards her and all of the answers that i received to me that i was in love with her. she is one of my friends' girlfriends and since i have known her she has ...
A. 20 May 2011: Hi, What i think is that you should take your time. find out for sure. THEN you act. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Guy I really like is leaving soon after final exams!! Should I make a move??
Q. Dear cupid. this boy i keep crushing on and can't let go of is finally leaving my life after the exams. the next time i'll see him will be for the i.c.t exam that is in 11 days. i have tried moving on to other people but i can't stop thinking of...
A. 20 May 2011: Yes, you should. opportunities like this are only once in a blue moon. Good luck!... (read in full...)
I wanted to just be friends. Yet I feel really hurt when I see him with this girl. why would I have this reaction?
Q. I have a guy friend and we have known each other since we were very small. Anyway a couple of months ago another friend told me that he liked me. So when he asked me out I said I just wanted to stay friends as I didn't want to ruin a good frie...
A. 20 May 2011: he feels really bad about how you rejected him. Try apologizing, but tell him that you just wanna be friends(gently!)... (read in full...)
I really like this girl but........
Q. alright so there is this girl that i am currently talking too, before she started talking to me first, and everything was alright, the way she talked to me was all good and the way we laugh together. and awkward funny moments where i ask some...
A. 18 May 2011: Dear Mandy'S right. just tell her how you feel.... (read in full...)
Crush on a girl but she doesn't like me.....what should I do now?
Q. My best friend is in a relationship with a girl. The girl i like is friends with that girl. She doesnt like me, she made that clear when one of my friends asked her abt me and i didnt even bother asking her...she does consider me to be a good fri...
A. 18 May 2011: I'm really sorry to hear you got in such a complicated situation.I know it's hard, but i think you should just move on.That's the best thing to do right now. Anyways, you shouldn't set them up, as you don't know for sure what would happen.
Good ... (read in full...)
How can I show him how truly sorry I am?
Q. Hello, Sorry for this post being so long, i did try to shorten it. So this guy started talking to me a few months ago on facebook, I barely knew him but he seemed alright. After about a week of us talking on fb he asked why 'how does someone as...
A. 13 May 2011: idoneitagain's right. if i were the guy, i would understand that you are truly repentant. BTW, don't worryabout length. the more details you have, the eaiser is it for us to understand.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
I can't trust my crush...
Q. So this story has four main people. My Crush "Al" The Evil Girl "EG" My crush's and my mutual friend "Pete" and me I have like Al for a long time. I was kind of starting to think that he liked me too. EG also likes him and figure...
A. 13 May 2011: How did he say no?just "no" or ....
Sometimes, guys don't like to talk about their feelings, even to friends.I suggestyou should ask him yourself. i know it's kinda difficult, though that's the only way to find out for sure.
Hope this hel... (read in full...)
How can I get my school-boy crush to talk to me?
Q. Heyy :) Right so here's my dilema. There is this boy at school in the year above me and i really like him! When i was waiting for my firends outside of school to walk home with, he came out and started talking to my mate, but all the time he was t...
A. 12 May 2011: i agree with sean,good luck.... (read in full...)
Could he like me too?
Q. I like this boy. Every time I'm around him he stares at me. He doesn't look away when I catch him either, he just smiles a little. We have really good banter, when according to his friends, he's kind of quiet and sensible around most people. He ...
A. 12 May 2011: Yup, i'm pretty sure he does. Go for it. Good luck.... (read in full...)
He's leaving soon. should I ask for his number, or would that sound desperate? Or just move on?
Q. So there's this guy i really like. I think he likes me too. because in class we would always sit together he would even ditch his friends for me in class. and we would always flirt and talk in class and he would grab my hand ask me to give him a ...
A. 10 May 2011: i agree with elffy. initiative is awways good.... (read in full...)
She smiles at me, and turns away when I look at her. Are these signs that she likes me?
Q. I like this girl in my class and I think she likes me too because I notice her glancing at me a few times and when she notices that I'm looking at her, she quickly looks somewhere else. And when I'm presenting my work in my class, I notice her ...
A. 10 May 2011: she likes you. i'm willing to bet on it. good luck and follow up!... (read in full...)
Why is it so difficult to figure him out?
Q. I've liked this guy for while now. We're both in high school, about the same age. He's such a hilarious guy, his sense of humor is amazing, and intelligent. He's a bit of a dork, but I find it adorable, it's probably my favorite thing about him. ...
A. 10 May 2011: well, go for it. it can't hurt to try?... (read in full...)
I like her but she doesn' t like me, so how should I act around her?
Q. i liked/like this girl alot !! for one whole year now and nothing happened bcoz i new she doesnt like me. and eventually after a long year in hope, i got the answer saying that she doesnt like me. This was when my friends asked her abt me. i...
A. 10 May 2011: just be yourself, whtever you think is best, you don't need to pretend.... (read in full...)
Does my crush like me???
Q. Does my crush like me? He looks at me in class, sometimes does silly things when I'm looking, tries to attack me in a friendly way at break, and sometimes says hi to me. He knows I like him, and I have asked him, and I think he is just shy....
A. 6 May 2011: i think so, but i'm not sure..... (read in full...)
He stood up for me when other guys were harassing me. Does he like me?
Q. Hey! Okay, I'm a little stumped as to what's going on in the head of this guy I like. I've been into him since 7th grade, 2 years ago, but he really hasn't talked to me until now. In the past, then and again he would add something to a conversation ...
A. 29 April 2011: maybye, although lots of guys would stand up for friends.... (read in full...)
Does this boy like me or not? Is he just being friendly? What does his behavior mean?
Q. Hey so I want to know if this guy likes me. This might get kind of long, but I really have to know. So I will call the guy "Bob" I will call another girl who also has a crush on Bob "Sandra" Part 1: Okay so I always thought that Bob was hot...
A. 21 April 2011: i think he does....dunno bout sandra though.he may feel resigned to his fate so is trying to distance himself from you.... (read in full...)
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