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Kissing Cousins!

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Article - (22 August 2010) 4 Comments - (Newest, 14 September 2010)
A age 26-29, writes:

Kissing Cousins. I have read many questions on this site about cousins that are "in love". For some of these couples I really do believe that they love each other. But cousins are still your family. And cousins that are couples who are 1st cousins are way too close to being immediate family. Of course in some states it is illegal to marry your cousin. Like Minnesota. Other states it is illegal to marry your 1st cousin but some of these states allow 2nd cousin marriage. The only state that allows 1st cousin marriage if both of the partners undergo genectic counseling is Maine. The risk of 1st cousins having babies together are the same risks if a woman over 40 were to have a baby. They child could be born with birth defects. This is why cousins are not usually allowed to have children. States that allow cousin marriage are states such as California, Alaska, Alabama,Colorodo,Florida,Georgia, ect. So next time you fall in love with your cousin remember to be with that person you might have to go out of your way to get married and to have children.

Of course for this article I did some researching and here these are the websites that I got some of the information

http://www.11points.com/Dating-Sex/11_State_Laws_About_Marrying_Your_Cousins,_From_Strictest_to_Loosest

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A female reader, loopy United States +, writes (14 September 2010):

loopy agony auntI have a kissing cousin. we HOOKED up before teens . then again, As High School teaching-Exploring partners.went our seperate ways married had kids. He lost his wife to "C" she was 30. he was 24. My husband offered him a room over the garage. Now I am once again pleasured by him almost daily.I'll be washing dishes after getting hubby of to work. my Couz will put hands on my shoulders and I nearly have my first orgasm standing alone. but he procceds and we usually end up with me sitting on him in a kitchen chair.Or I go out to the Koi pond and get on my hands and knes to pull Swamp grass. We finish that with grass on his back. I make sure everytie I am WITH Coz . I am WITH hubby the same day. We never use protection. or pill. I am not in LOVE with my coz I just love to orgasm and he knows how to make it happen several times each adventure. Hubby might get it right once a month on a threeXweekly event.So what am I thinking? I(nvite cuz to bed with us/NO. try to teach Hubby how to make me orgasm/Aint worked in 5 years. Keep my mouth shut and legs open /YES.I checked my period calender today and I am 236 sexual encounters in 178 days. 400 +- orgasms in that time only about 50 are mine with my own hand. I am one happy perverted bitch with a permenant grin on my Clit.

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A male reader, Myau New Zealand +, writes (25 August 2010):

Myau agony auntWell some people say 3rd cousins are family and some dont.

I guess that is a "to each their own" situation.

I personally dont recognise 2nd cousins as family as I really cant see how we would be genetically connected. They have teh genes from my uncle by marridge and i have the genes from my aunt. SO nither them or me are really the sme at all.

Have to admit though that on mums side i have 25 cousins and on dads 37, so i doubt id have time to add anyone else lol

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (24 August 2010):

Miamine agony auntIn Britain and Europe it is legal to marry your first cousin. In some Asian countries it's actually encouraged. Sure, there is a risk that your child will be disabled, about the same risk that a woman who is older and has a child will have.

There is a risk always in any pregnancy that your child will have a disability. But disability is not guaranteed, you also are at risk if you smoke, drink or take drugs when pregnant.

America is one of the few countries with laws against "kissing cousins".

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A female reader, curleywhirlyhurly Ireland +, writes (23 August 2010):

dnt go out with family you babies will turn out funny through fact my cousins married and the baby developed wrong plus it isnt fair on the baby !!!

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