Is there anything I should do?
Q. I'm a singer in a hotel and my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship. It's really hard for me not to be with him, but i need to work for my sister's.. Anyway, i had a bit of a problem with my boyfriend. I just noticed that this past ...
A. 4 April 2010:
The prblem might be small and he will get over it, or it might be large but you wont know until you talk to him about it.
So my advice is to ask him how he feels about your relationship
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How do I get her to love me again?
Q. Ok where should i start !!! My girlfriend and i have been together for almost 5 years. She moved in with me after we dated for 1 year. In the last 5 years we have been threw it all... I have cheated on her both emotionally and physical, and even tho ...
A. 4 April 2010: It a simple matter of undoing all you have done.
Take care of her, make her feel important and special. It will take along time to turn this around but I think you wont regret it... (read in full...)
Can I use water to flush myself out after having unprotected sex?
Q. can i use water to flush myself out after having unprotected sex?...
A. 4 April 2010: Ive seen a few girls use a strange technique of pushing all the cum out. I dont think its 100% though.
If they swim upstream then you are a momy... (read in full...)
How should I respond to what he said?
Q. What does it mean when a guy, who i have been going for couple months tell me that "with me, you are so innocent" after making out with me? ( i did not touch his ****) Second, he said he is so frustrated everytime i left him there after our making...
A. 2 April 2010: A couple of months is a long time to keep him waiting.
Id be getting a little antsy too. However I alway have believe that sex takes care of itself so there is no point forcing it.
I am curous though, why have you been waiting so long? Do you ... (read in full...)
Do my dreams mean I'm gay?
Q. So I've never been in a relationship before. So i really don't know what I am. I'm 15 and I've always had weird feelings.Always felt different. But I have a close friend named Joe. Now since like the new year I've been having weird dreams. Not ...
A. 2 April 2010: Dreams can mean almost anything.
You could be simply wishing that you had a girl who you could have as much fun with as you do your friend.
I wouldnt worry about it, some people are "late bloomers" like me, i started dating at age 19.
You m... (read in full...)
What's the best way to contact an ex?
Q. i want to contact my ex after 6 months of no contact. whats the best way to do it?...
A. 2 April 2010: My advice is dont
Instead meet someone new... (read in full...)
I know he'll really hurt me but I don't want to be just friends!
Q. Can't get over someone i know is no good for me. He's a lying cheating scumbag but we are really good friends and i have fallen completely for him. i can't break the friendship off, that's not fair to him but i can't control my feelings anymore. i ...
A. 2 April 2010: ahhh you want the bad boy huh
Hes exciting isnt he, and you just know you will have loads of fun with him.
There are two questions you should ask yourself:
1. Why do you want to ruin your life by being used up and spat out?
2. Cant you... (read in full...)
Are there any faithful men out there?
Q. Hey everyone! I was wondering ....Is there such a thing as a faithful man? Even after so many years? No offence guys just got myself out of a bad and long relationship and I am worried/scared : / What are your experiences? Thank you ...
A. 2 April 2010: Are there faithful men? Yes you are taking to one.
I have ben cheated on a few times and I know how awful the feeling is. However I put it down to the person, not the gender.
There are plenty of honest people, i pesonally believe that che... (read in full...)
She lives on the other side of the country and has a boyfriend, how could things get any worse?
Q. Last year, I went to an overnight camp on the other side of the country and met the most amazing girl I had ever laid eyes on. It was love at first sight. By about the time that i was about to leave camp, we knew we were into each other but we didnt ...
A. 2 April 2010: ok then
Well, you need to keep chatting everyday, and send her a gift.. a teddy bear that has you name would be good.
You need also to emphasise that you like doing the things she likes. So that she wants to chat with you over anyone else.
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She lives on the other side of the country and has a boyfriend, how could things get any worse?
Q. Last year, I went to an overnight camp on the other side of the country and met the most amazing girl I had ever laid eyes on. It was love at first sight. By about the time that i was about to leave camp, we knew we were into each other but we didnt ...
A. 1 April 2010: You are about to learn several of lifes lessions.
So do you want the bad news or the worse news?
You are in love with her, but she isnt , you are a good friend to her...nothing more.
So now you have to decide if that is enough because you wo... (read in full...)
Could there be any consequences with my job for marrying one of my students father?
Q. I'm a first grade teacher who found myself attracted to the father of one of my students. He has shared custody of his son and is quite involved in his son's life. However, he maintains almosts zero communication with his ex. I maintained a ...
A. 1 April 2010: Yes by all means marry, if hes the one then hes the one...end of story.
However developing a relationship with his ex is pointless, if she wants him then she will never accept you.
More important is his Son. Dont try to force this relationshi... (read in full...)
I feel like I married a pimp!
Q. Before my husband and i were married we were out one evening drinking and i picked up a woman mostly to please my husband. We ended going back to her hotel and even as drunk as I was I was very uncomfortable when I saw him touching her and I ran ...
A. 1 April 2010: I cant help but wonder what answer do you want?
I think rather than answer you I must ask a question: why are you staying in a situation where you are so unhappy? Are you waiting until you really hate him?
Dont you see, he doesnt value you... (read in full...)
He never invites me out, and then expects me to pick him up drunk at 6 am!
Q. Why does my husband do this?? He goes out with the guys about once a month. Most of them are the guys he works with. He never invites me and I know that there are other women there because when he calls me I can hear the laughing in the backgrou...
A. 1 April 2010: The horrible truth is that men cant really be themselves around women. We have to be something a bit more apropriate, thus we do need a night away to have fun and be a guy.
I think you will find the women you hear arnt with his group.
I can onl... (read in full...)
How can I get my husband comfortable with the idea of me having sex with other men?
Q. My husband and I have been married for ten years. I think that i have a healthy and realistic view of sex. I have told him that if he ever gets bored with our sex life that he is welcome to sleep with other women. He of course told me that he ...
A. 30 March 2010: So you really want to be a swinger?
Ok well you are going to have to get him used to the lifestyle, firstly he slept with your friend so he cant be completely against it.
So invite a girl and guy friend around and try swapping partners. You co... (read in full...)
5 things I DO NOT miss about my ex...
Q. Hey everyone, So it's been just over 2 months since I broke up with my boyfriend and I am finally starting to come to terms with the reasons why we broke up in the first place. I thought that it might be a good idea to start a thread on 5 things t...
A. 30 March 2010: Rather than going on about you past relationship, why not just accept that it wasnt ment to be and go find someone better?... (read in full...)
Should I continue pressuring a friend to have a relationship me even though he doesn't want to?
Q. my friend and i have known each other for almost 8 years. him and me have been having sex or years. i've always pressure him to be in a relationship with me. we haven't spoken in two months because he got tired of me telling him to be with him. he ...
A. 30 March 2010: Ok you refuse to learn your lession.
True love is mutual, that means you love him and he loves you... you dont have that. Thus you have nothing.
You have waisted several years of your life, so enough pls.
Find someone you like and who... (read in full...)
I'm a thinker and he's a doer. How can we find common ground?
Q. so my boyfriend and i are fighting my point of view- i prefer to just talk and hangout with people when we are at peoples houses to hangout instead of always running around and playing games, i feel as if though that when i want him to sit b...
A. 30 March 2010: Opposites attract is the biggest load of s$%^ that was ever said.
You both drive each other nuts dont ya? He's right in living the way he wants and so are you. But your two paths just wont merge together.
So keep putting up with eachother i... (read in full...)
He doesn't have morning or nocturnal erections. Is this health issue?
Q. My friend is having problems! He used to take a long time to come; he said it was because he smoked pot. Now he has quit pot and he doesn't even have nocturnal or morning erections. Can anyone explain what is going on? He is afraid of doctors....
A. 30 March 2010: Well if he wont see a doctor.. you could look at his diet.
Thats usually the reason, get him eating vegetables and grains and less sugar and fat. ... (read in full...)
My mum has threatened to kick me out of the house if I don't do what she wants!
Q. im 16, pretty independent, mature an very respectful. but lately ive been stressed out an realy upset cause of my mum. she is extremely controlling, in fact she grounded me until i am mature! my mum knows my dream is to be a great chef, and she ...
A. 30 March 2010: It would be best to finish school, you never know, Cooking might not be for you. Having options is always the best way as life tends to take rather odd turns.
Besides you can always come back to it later.... (read in full...)
I've never even kissed a girl before. Is this normal?
Q. Help, I have recently became depressed because I have never been kissed before let alone have had a girlfriend. Is this normal? All the other males have girlfriends and it makes me sick and depressed when I can't find one of my own, hell some are ...
A. 30 March 2010: I havoe to tell you something, I was 19 when I met my first girlfriend. Yup 19! No high school sweetheart and you know what, Im happy.
I fugure in my case it was down to 2 reasons: firstly I wasnt ready for all that at the time and secondly... (read in full...)
I found my dream girl, but I can't tell her my feelings. Help!
Q. Dear Friends, it's the first time i really feel i need help !, till now i was in control of my life. i thought i would not fall in love simply because this special girl in my dreams doesn't exist and i decided to lead a single life . however ...
A. 27 March 2010: You dont know is right.
What is stopping you?? really?
Take life as it comes or miss out and wonder what if.
Its your call... (read in full...)
Is it safe to have another abortion when my last was only in December 09?
Q. I recently went through an abortion in December of last year. The baby was my current boyfriend's. Well, I'm extremely worried that I could be pregnant again. I'm not 100% certian. I'll take a test in about a week. But I'm having similar symptoms as ...
A. 25 March 2010: Abortions will damage your womb. You have already damaged it and may not even be able to carry a child now.
Every abortion you have will just damage you further so pls no more unprotected sex ok... (read in full...)
I had sex with my sisters teacher. Would this be a relationship that could be pursued?
Q. Just recently I had some relationship trouble in my life. I have a sister who is quite younger than me who is going to the school I went to. She is in fifth grade and has the same teacher I had. She told him about what had gone on. At her school ...
A. 25 March 2010: This is quite a mess you have gotten into.
Well I doubt a relationship will be a good idea. Your sis wont appreciate it at all.
I am a bit concerned that you went there to talk and ended up sleeping together. Didnt you just want advice? or ... (read in full...)
Why does my husband post perverted uotes on his blog for all to see?
Q. Why does my husband post perverted quotes from movies in his blog? Is he wanting to gain attention from a female friend on his buddy list? Everyone can read it including the people he works with since they are on his friends list. Is this normal? ...
A. 25 March 2010: Blogs aree ordinary peoples 15 minutes of fame. He is having fun and just saying silly things.
I strongly doubt he is trying it on with the girl you mentioned. Maybe you should start adding your comments to the blog or even have a section for you ... (read in full...)
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