My boyfriend can't stay hard anymore!
Q. My boyfriend and I have a lot of sex. Every night if we could. We were both eachothers firsts, so of course we're gonna have a ton of sex. For the past 2 or 3 months, he's been having a hard time getting and maintaining an erection, or eve...
A. 5 August 2010: Well sometimes he can finish himself off after nothing comes from sex, more than often nothing comes though. But to my knowledge he hasn't masturbated on his own in a while since we're usually having sex lol.... (read in full...)
My period is a bit late -- is it just stress?
Q. My period is 2 days late and I have not had any symptoms that it will come (I usually feel some cramps a week before it starts). I've been having protected sex with my boyfriend and there have been no accidents with the condom. I am not on the ...
A. 15 May 2010: You're fine. Your body is probably just under stress, or sometimes having sex just messes up your cycle, or you're just irregular this month.
You should look into talking the pill if you want to be extra safe.... (read in full...)
All the symptoms and still no period! Help!!!
Q. hello ladies, your advice is very much needed, i had unprotected sex with my fiance on the 28th of march (9 days after my period started) i have a cycle of 26 to 28 days, so i got scared and took the morning after pill which caused me to have ...
A. 15 May 2010: You don't need to worry. If you have the symptoms you should be fine. The stress your body went under after taking the morning after pill is probably whats causing your late period.... (read in full...)
Why did he have to make himself cum? Am I doing something wrong?
Q. hello i have a important question well it is 2 me lol Ive been kindof seeing this guy on and off for about 6 months we are not in a relationship but oftern sleep together so kinda guess if fuck buddies really Anyway hears my problam, after...
A. 2 May 2010: It's not your fault, it could be plenty of reasons on his side.
If you want to fix it, you should a) suggest that he doesn't masturbate for a day or two before you have sex b) have sex while he's sober and not high and c) if you're using condoms,... (read in full...)
My mom is ignorant and annoying...
Q. Ok, to make a long story short. My mom considers herself "open", but she's also biased and prejudiced and whatever doesnt seem right in her eyes, she opposes. I have a boyfriend, which my parents don't know goes beyond anything than a friendshi...
A. 28 March 2010: Ugh my mother sounds a lot like yours. She isn't prejudice or anything, but she's extremely closeminded and childish about my relationship with my boyfriend. She'll constantly talk down to me and try to hook me up with other guys, so I can feel your ... (read in full...)
Porn problems...
Q. Just to warn you guys, yes this is another girl who is insecure over porn question. I, like most women, am with a guy who happens to watch porn. Yes, it does make me a bit insecure. I am thinking though if I could understand it a bit better...
A. 28 March 2010: Guys usually only watch porn if they're bored, or as a way to masturbate. I was uncomfortable about my boyfriend watching porn until I heard him making fun of his roomate for taking the time to remember a pornstars name. It's nothing to him but a ... (read in full...)
Biggest flirt EVER, or do those flirts mean ANYTHING?
Q. (I have posted this before, but with wayyyy less info-please don't delete this and pleaaaase answer this!) Basically, there is this guy in my school, lets call him B. He is 2 years older than me-I'm 14 and he's 16. I made friends with him w...
A. 12 March 2010: I hate to say it, but boys at that age only want one thing: sex. He probably likes the flirting and the touching and doesn't think much of it, and since you like it too, he isn't stopping. Your guy might be different though, you never know. I th... (read in full...)
First relationship is a bit confusing and compicated!
Q. Well, I'm in my first 'proper' relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for around 5 months now and we are both virgins. My boyfriend is a few years older than me and i was suprised when he told me he was a virgin and i have mixed feeling ab...
A. 11 March 2010: Take your time! There's no need to rush into sex if either of you aren't 100% ready for it.
He sounds very nervous, most guys are their first time with a woman, which is probably why he has a hard time staying hard. You're both inexpier... (read in full...)
How on earth can I get over him watching porn?
Q. Ok, so I have insecurity problems and feel embarassed and angry at myself because I feel I'm not "normal". I am one of those girls that feels really jealous, insecure, threatened, etc., about porn. I know it's my problem. But I just haven't been ...
A. 22 January 2010: Eventhough you said not to say it, it's so true! If he really wanted a pornstar for a girlfriend, he would and could find one, even if you live in a small town. He would find a way if that's what he really wanted.
I get insecure over my boyfrien... (read in full...)
He spends 2-3 night a week with his friends instead of me. Is that normal?
Q. Hi I have a question: is it normal for your guy to spend 2 or 3 times a week with his friends after work and not with you? My guy see's me 2 times a week on his days off and sometimes 3 times a week if he has time during a break at one of his jobs. ...
A. 4 December 2009: It's normal for a guy to hang out with his friends, espeically since your relationship is fairly new and in the making. He's calling you while he's with them, so obviously he's thinking of you.
I think it's a good quality in a guy if he doesn't ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't trust me with his internet passwords
Q. Okay, if this is weird or I'm being irrational, please let me know. My boyfriend and I have been dating each other for four years and have been living together for roughly 3 1/2 years. (Yes, we took things a little fast, but it worked out.) We ...
A. 4 December 2009: Like some previous posters have said, he deserves a little personal space. Just because he changed the passwords doesn't mean he's cheating or something.
It's kind of like how I don't like my boyfriend looking through my phone because usually ... (read in full...)
Will my feelings for my boyfriend change after an FFM threesome?
Q. So I was WONDERING, if my boyfriend and I end up having a threesome, with another woman, whats the likely it'll bring us closer? Or I wont feel the same about him?...
A. 28 November 2009: Threesomes NEVER do any good if you do it with someone you're in a relationship with. It might seem fine at first, but things will really go downhill. Fast.
If you had a threesome with a friend, or someone you don't really know, its somethin... (read in full...)
She said girls don't like confident guys, was she right?
Q. One of my (girl) friends said that 50% of girls don't go for guys with high confidence, like she does. I'm like 'huh?!' Is this true? If yes, is it because guys with high confidence are the ones who are more likely to do be some kind of jer...
A. 28 November 2009: I think she's thinking confidence = huge ego/cocky/arrogant. Just because a guy has a lot of confidence doesn't mean he's going to be a jerk. Confidence just means the guy is going to make the first moves in the relationship, or have the guts to... (read in full...)
His "joke" was NOT funny!
Q. My husband jokingly said, "I love this woman... Jennifer", she is always so satisfied with my work... I totally lost it. I felt it was an insult. And he said, oh no it was just a joke, I was just making a funny joke.. Do you think is this really f...
A. 28 November 2009: It seems like the impotence has made you pretty defensive towards him. Guys are stupid sometimes, and he probably honestly thought he was being funny. I mean, would he really say that to you, his wife, if he wasn't joking? Granted, I wouldn't like ... (read in full...)
How can I stop this self-biting?
Q. I have a problem with self biting. Like I overly bite my lip and the inside of my cheek. I also contastly need to pull at the skin around my nails and my finger's are litterly raw from the fact that i pulled off all the skin. IDK what to do, idk why ...
A. 28 November 2009: I used to pull at the skin on my lips untill I bled. It was just something I absentmindedly did. The only thing that stopped me from doing it was getting braces, it stopped my teeth from being able to bite my lip and get the skin off that way.
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Can I learn to accept being alone?
Q. I am so tired of being alone. i am 20 years old and i have never had a boyfriend or done anything with one. i am not an emotional person but lately when i watch chick flicks or see a couple walking by holding hands, i tear up and feel this deep hole ...
A. 11 October 2009: Your friends have it a bit right. It really does happen when you least expect it. That doesn't mean you should just sit around and wait for something to happen, but you don't have to emotionally exhaust yourself from looking for guys.
LazyG... (read in full...)
It's hopeless! Girls won't give me a chance!
Q. I am going to collage right now, i am 19 and single and have not really ever had a girlfriend. In high school at graduation someone told me that almost all the girls thought i was gay because i didn't ever harass or grope anyone. This just upset and ...
A. 7 October 2009: Ah ha, you sound exactly like my boyfriend. He grew up in a small town, went to a small town college, and is a huge nerd. He's 22, I'm 19, and I'm his first girlfriend. Hate to say it, but the thing that helped him was moving out of that small town ... (read in full...)
It's hopeless! Girls won't give me a chance!
Q. I am going to collage right now, i am 19 and single and have not really ever had a girlfriend. In high school at graduation someone told me that almost all the girls thought i was gay because i didn't ever harass or grope anyone. This just upset and ...
A. 7 October 2009: No girl will be interested in you if you seem desperate. Ever. Girls also wont be interested in you if you whine about not being noticed for being sensitive. It sounds like you're actively searching for a girl just because you're in college and ... (read in full...)
His 'jokes' keep striking a nerve - what do I say?
Q. Last night, my boyfriend and I were talking on the phone. I said hold on, and when I came back, I made my voice deeper to sound like a guy on purpose. We laughed it off, and he said, "Oh yea, like I'll fall for that." I kept going along, "Yes, can't ...
A. 7 October 2009: Guys are notorious for doing things like that. If you joke with him sarcasticaly like that, he's going to joke right back at you. He probably meant absolutely nothing about the comment, and just wanted something funny to say back at you.
My bo... (read in full...)
Can I leave my mom now, one month before I'm 18? She assaulted me!
Q. okay so I turn 18 in ONE month exactly, and I live in Texas. Well my mother knows this is the last month so she's doing everything possible to make it hell. She tells me even when im 18 Ill still do what she says and everything else and im not ...
A. 19 September 2009: Like previous posters said, it would be easier to just wait out the month. I think you should use the time you have left to get a job (if you dont already have one) or something you can support yourself with. Keep yourself busy making solid plans ... (read in full...)
Locked in his room all day looking at porn when I'm in the next room
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together just under a year. the relationship had a pretty rocky start as he was still in love with his ex. a few months ago we broke up, after he'd been to see her, and he told me that he didnt love me. he called me the ...
A. 6 September 2009: I think its more weird that you two are in the same house and aren't together most of the time, forget about the porn. What's up with that? I think this relationship doesn't have a very positive future at all. It was started on breaking trust, ... (read in full...)
Do girls like when guys think about them while they masterbate?
Q. Do girls like when guys think about them while they masterbate? There is this one girl I have really fallen for. We met online and we havent met in person yet, but she is just so amazing and she always turns me on. She is not really sexual as much ...
A. 4 September 2009: I had a ex online boyfriend tell me that once and I was really flattered and turned on.
I think you should just say you think about her and leave out details like looking at her picture and whatnot until you get a proper reaciton out of her. Hop... (read in full...)
Why won't he let me perform oral sex on him?
Q. hi, i am a 21 year old girl, and my boyfriend is 26 we've been dating a lot, and are active with our sexual life. we had practically every type of sexual relations, even foot fetish and everything, but what bothers me, why wont he let me give ...
A. 3 September 2009: I think everyone else is right. He just wants to respect you.
Also, he could be insecure about himself. I know thats why a lot of girls (including myself) don't like receiving oral. Maybe he thinks you'll be offended by the way he tastes or smell... (read in full...)
I like the way he smells when hes dirty
Q. My boyfriend of 6 months is very athletic. He plays sports, goes to the gym and works out everyday. Some days he showers three times and uses body spray after each shower. I don't want him to think I am weird, but I like the way he smells when he ...
A. 3 September 2009: Just keep telling him to lay off the body spray when it's just you two. If he's going out somewhere I would understand the need for the body spray, but if you guys are just hanging out alone? That would get annoying even if you didn't like how he ... (read in full...)
I lied and told him I'm a virgin and now I can't tell him the truth!
Q. hi i need advice from anyone out there. im engaged getting married in a few months he thinks im a virgin i told him that i had a medical procedure and they kind of broke my hymen so i dont think i have a hymen told him its easy for me to insert my ...
A. 28 August 2009: If your hymen is broken then you don't bleed during sex unless you're being unusually rough. If you've told him you'd fingered yourself just fine then he shouldn't expect you to bleed.
If he thinks you're lying, and you still don't want to confe... (read in full...)
Is that normal or am I hot?...
Q. okay I'm 22 6,3 with brown hair and I never had a girlfriend because I'm really shy for some unexplained reason so lately I have been noticing that wherever I go if there's a girl they almost always look at me like if im at a store and I pass a ...
A. 28 August 2009: If they talk to you then you're hot.... (read in full...)
My partner broke up with me because her daughter doesn't approve! Should I stick around to see if things change or let go?
Q. I've been seeing a wonderful woman for almost 7 years. We are in love. Her teenage daughter has broken us up as a couple, and says she doesn't want her mom seeing me anymore. My girlfriend basically told me that has to make sure that her daughte...
A. 20 August 2009: I definately think you should stick around and see what happens. The daughter might just be testing you, or be in that b*tchy teenage phase (I know I cerintaly was when my mom was dating new guys) but if shes older than 16, it shouldn't matter... (read in full...)
I'm scared that when we meet he'll be put off by my weight... what do you think?
Q. I became friends with someone online last year. The first 5 months, there was nothing at all overtly romantic or even flirty in our email communications. We just got along with each other very well. He surprised me by asking me out two months a...
A. 20 August 2009: I think that if he says he wont mind then he means he wont mind. You yourself said that you wouldn't care if he wasn't attractive, how do you know he doesn't think the same?
If you really wanted to test his reaction, why not take a full body sho... (read in full...)
How can I withhold sex until I know the guy better?
Q. hi, can anyone help?... I want to be in a relationship but whenever i try to wait for sex it doesnt work... I havent had that many but I dont know how to withold sex till I know the guy... what do I do?...
A. 19 August 2009: You just tell him he has to wait for sex if he wants to be with you.
I know everyone says this, but any guy who would leave you over waiting for sex isn't worth being with in the first place. ... (read in full...)
I lied to him about my age and now he wants to visit me, what should I do?
Q. Okay, so, I was on a chat room one day, bored out of my mind, telling people I was 17 when I actually, I had just turned 14. Well, me and this guy (he was 17) got talking and exchanged emails. We got to know eachother and I guess he started liking ...
A. 19 August 2009: End it.
You can choose if you want to tell him the truth, or come up with an excuse, but you have to end it. A relationship will never work if it's built on lies.... (read in full...)
Will women be put off by man who's only had one sexual partner?
Q. Hi, Im wondering do women think its a turn off if aguy who is in his early 30s has had only one sexual partner in the past. It was a long term relationship that didnt work out and I now wonder if women will be put off by it? Thanks....
A. 18 August 2009: You'd be surprised at how many women would feel more comfortable with that, especially if it was in a long term relationship. A lot of women feel insecure when their guy has lots of partners before them.... (read in full...)
Can a boy just seriously stop liking you like that?
Q. okay so there is this boy ive been hooking up with. the whole day we were have a really good convo and he was telling me how much he wanted me and cares about me and that this relationship isnt committed...its not just physical to him and that he ...
A. 1 July 2009: He might of just been hoping for a quick fling before you left for college.
Not to be completely negative, but he probably just wants to get into your pants. If he isn't your boyfriend and he's saying he cares about you like that, it's most lik... (read in full...)
I went online pretending to be another woman and my boyfriend fell for her!!!
Q. I used this fake account and added my boyfriend on it. I started talking to him as her, and he started to flirt with her. He said he would kiss her and most probably have sex with her! I kept asking him about me his girlfriend and he was acting like ...
A. 1 July 2009: I agree with kelly. You should totally print a copy of a conversation and give it to him. Or maybe tell him "she" has new pictures for him, and send him one of you. That'll shock him.
Is there any reason why you make the fake account in the firs... (read in full...)
Hair is getting me down. Why is it so frizzy?
Q. My hair is getting me down. Ok - so my hair has never been my best asset - it is long, uncontrollable - never goes properly straight etc etc. But just recently - I have noticed it is REALLY frizzy and to me is very annoying as it just looks awful! ...
A. 30 June 2009: What really helped me with my hair being frizzy/wavy instead of straight and pretty is buying an expensive salon straightner. I usually just got the cheap $40 ones at the store, but my stepmom has access to a beauty supply warehouse, so I got an ... (read in full...)
Should I try talking to the girl that broke my heart? Or move on?
Q. I found someone that I had tried to forget long ago on a dating/chat website that I roam, When I saw a picture I clicked it thinking hey she is kind of cute, then when it popped up full scale my heart skipped a beat as it clicked and I looked at the ...
A. 25 June 2009: I know it's easier said than done, but it would be best if you just leave things how they are and never look back. You guys broke up for a reason. Regardless of whether either of you still has feelings for eachother, if she hurt you really bad, it ... (read in full...)
Suggestions on how to not look like a moaning, insecure girlfriend? I need them!
Q. i am in a serious relationship and i am very happy with my boyfriend and very much in love. We got engaged about two months ago and all in all we have a fantastic relationship. He is a very social outgoing guy and his job requires a bit of ...
A. 25 June 2009: If you don't want to flat out ask him to stop mentioning it, maybe you should just stop joking along with him. It might be a subtle way for him to realize you don't think it's that funny anymore and he might stop.
Guys are usually slow to notice t... (read in full...)
How can I get closer to my friends without appearing clingy?
Q. This is the 3rd question I have put up about my friends, well kinda, and it might not be the last, but thanks everyone for your support. Okay so I've survived the first 2 days back at school after my friends bitched about me and then left my sleep...
A. 23 June 2009: Definately ignore the other girls during your class with them. Don't be a bitch about it though, that'll just provoke them more. Just be polite, maybe talk if they ask you a question, but don't show them you are interested at all. They will soon get ... (read in full...)
If you're in an LDR and it's working, PLEASE respond!
Q. I need to know if Long distance relationships work. So for all of you in happy LDR's, please respond and tell me that they work and you're happy. Also, how often do you see eachother? the guy i like is 6 hours away from me and we both are broke ...
A. 23 June 2009: They do work! It just takes tons of effort. Make sure you set aside time to talk to him every day via phone, webcam or instant messaging. It will take the both of you to be commited to making it work, so you should double check that he's ready for ... (read in full...)
I need more confidence but I don't want to be like my mouthy friend!
Q. hi aunts and uncles i'd really like to know how to be confident i've never really had the confidence in myself and i've never known how to have it either. everytime i think positive something knocks me back so i fight back and try again. i'v...
A. 23 June 2009: The easiest way for me to be confident is to fake it. I always feel better when I hold my head high and my shoulders back to give off a confident appearence. You don't have to dress like you don't care or anything, body posture says it all.
If yo... (read in full...)
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