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writes: Do girls like when guys think about them while they masterbate? There is this one girl I have really fallen for. We met online and we havent met in person yet, but she is just so amazing and she always turns me on. She is not really sexual as much as me, but I always fantasize about being with her and when I masterbate I think of her and look at her pics. I want to ask her if she is alright with it, or if it turns her on, but I dont want to sound perverted or anything. I know everyone masterbates and its perfectly fine, but I just feel werid sometimes, masterbating to her and I havent even met her yet. I dont just see he in a sexual way, I really care for her and just want to open up my sexual side to her without her freaking out.
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reader, poeticarcher  +, writes (19 September 2009):
I think you have to be careful around the subject in case she doesn't feel comfortable with it. I have a friend and we chat about intimate stuff and we've never met but might do in the future. I know he gets turned on and masterbates and that turns me on too. Just make sure you approach it respectfully and understand if she has reservations.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): Well im a girl and i like freaky stuff but honestly i would not tell her unless she had a nude pic you have been looking at it might freak her out or idk she might like there is nothing wrong with masterbatin i do and really liked when my bf told me he thinks of me while doing it
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009): I think she will be flattered if your conversations online are also sexual. I don't know.
As for me, I will be flattered. I asked this once with my bf who went to his home country for a vacation and I asked him how he manages his sexual needs and he said he masturbates while imagining having sex with me. LOL
Even when he does that infront of me, he closes his eyes and calls my name!! LOL but for me its really flattering and makes me horny too.
But that's just according to me. I don't know with your girl. If she's sexual then I guess most likely she will be flattered.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009): If my boyfriend said this, I would like it... if it's someone I don't know, I would find it creepy and worry, is he stalking me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009): She'd be flattered depending on how you phrase this. Well, this is my answer but I am 40.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009): I don't really think there's a way to say “I masturbate over you” without coming across at least a little perverted. How would you even fit that in a sentence? Unless the pics for were nude pics, I wouldn't tell her.This might be one little detail you want to keep to yourself because, as you mentioned, she is not as sexual as you so why take the risk of losing her?
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reader, mediocreland  +, writes (4 September 2009):
I had a ex online boyfriend tell me that once and I was really flattered and turned on.
I think you should just say you think about her and leave out details like looking at her picture and whatnot until you get a proper reaciton out of her. Hopefully she'll take it in a good way and you guys can expand on that.
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