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writes:(I have posted this before, but with wayyyy less info-please don't delete this and pleaaaase answer this!)Basically, there is this guy in my school, lets call him B. He is 2 years older than me-I'm 14 and he's 16.I made friends with him when I was around 13-I'm friends with someone he's friends with, so he came up to me and my other friend (not the one that he knows) and started talking with me and my friend... After that we would sometimes chat.Before the end of that school year (when I was still around 13), he came up to me and asked me to sign his yearbook, so I did... I thought that was quite strange because I barely knew him.Then, after a summer holiday (which was few days after I signed his yearbook), I remember walking in school at the first day of school (I was 14 then) and finding him looking at me... I didn't think much of it so I walked off to find my other friends, but that 'moment' stuck in my mind...I became best friends with my friend that B knows (who is male), so us three always hang out a lot in school (me, my bestie and B).I also become rather good friends with B himself, and I have reasons to think that he might like me...Basically, even though I and my other friends hug (both male and female), I find B's hugs more personal if ya get what I mean-they are not some quick short hugs... Also, me and him sort off flirt over e-mails and generally flirt a bit whenever we see eachother-I don't really think much of the flirts, as I am rather dirty minded so I like to talk 'dirty', but my friends know that it's a joke, and I truly hope that B does, too although, most of the flirting towards him I do mean because I have a crush on him, if you haven't noticed... Also, he jokingly asked me if I want to marry him, and I said yes. Soon he told me that he asked three or four other people to marry him (obviously jokingly), but for my happiness he will only settled to marry one other girl (bloody polygamist XD). So now we jokingly call each other husband and wife...Also, recently, he started kissing me on forehead, head and shoulder after hugging me (which I obviously like)-today after I complained (whilst hugging him) that I can't reach him well (he's slightly taller then me-only a bit) he picked me up and spun me, then let go of me and bruised my shoulder a little bit. So once again, I complained, and he 'kissed it better'-my shoulder. Also, he likes to poke me... And to put his arm around my waist when we walk side by side.... I find all of that absolutely adorabe and of course I like what he does... But...Does he like me? Recently my best friend (the one that B is friends with) told me that B told him that he doesn't really want to marry me, only to f*ck me, which made me sad BIG TIME. B most likely said that as a joke, or whatever, but what my bestie said made me feel like a loser for ever thinking that he does like me... Actualy, when my bestie told that I lost the want to look B in the eye at all... :( What do you think? I haven't got a clue, obviously!.. The fact that he asked some other girl to 'marry' him and what my bestie said made me draw to a conclusion that he is like that towards his other female friends,and most likely sees me as a joke-a toy to play around, but I don't know what to think - I am soo confused. I obviously have a crush on him... You people are my only help, since most of my friends are male I don't have anyone to talk about this... Thank You soooo much!
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reader, mediocreland  +, writes (12 March 2010):
I hate to say it, but boys at that age only want one thing: sex. He probably likes the flirting and the touching and doesn't think much of it, and since you like it too, he isn't stopping.Your guy might be different though, you never know. I think if you really want this all cleared up, you need to step up and talk to him about this. Ask him yourself where he sees your relationship going, don't just hear it from a friend. You don't have to spill your heart out to him or anything just ask "hey, are you just kidding or do you actually like me?"Just be careful, sometimes guys don't understand things the way girls do, so to him, flirting might mean something completely different to him than it does to you.
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