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Q.   i know he liked me a lot since the last year, it was so obvious, but at one point i started ignoring him. a few months ago he tried several times to greet me, but i didn't hear him and sometimes i didn't answer on purpose. last week when i was with...

A.   10 April 2009: Guys can be very cryptic and unclear sometimes; intentionally or unintentionally. It sounds like this guy is perhaps a little confused about whether he likes you or not or is a little shy about actually talking to you. So he might still like you but ... (read in full...)

Do you think that my boyfriend being another race would affect us...

Q.   Hey, I am just here and confused and I really need help from you my cupid friends. :) Well my question is - I am Hispanic (Dominican republic) but my boyfriend is white. Do you think that effects our relationship because we're baptist and do y...

A.   10 April 2009: As one of the previous answers pointed out, the only 'race' on this planet is the human race. There are different cultures and backgrounds but in the end, everyone is the same. Some people don't like this, unfortunately, and don't see it in this ... (read in full...)

Straight? Bi?

Q.   Well im really questioning my sexuality right now. I KNOW i like boys but im not sure if i like girls also. Sometimes i have weird day dreams where I'll be fucking a girl and I'm fine with it. And as weird as it sounds I've even imagined doing in...

A.   10 April 2009: At the stage in your life that you're at now, a lot of people get 'confused' about their sexuality. It's perfectly normal to have fantasies and those kind of thoughts about people of the same gender, something to do with psychology. I don't th... (read in full...)

Straight, & watching lesbian porn??

Q.   Kay so heres the deal guys. I'm straight.. but when it comes to watching porn.. I like lesbian porn more than straight porn! Now, what's up with that?? Just curious, thanks :)...

A.   9 April 2009: There's an irony in this. There was an article in the newspaper only a couple of days ago talking about this sort of thing. Apparently, most women are stimulated through both straight & lesbian porn, no matter what their sexual orientation is. It ... (read in full...)

I'm really angry, my ex and my best friend are going out 2 days after we broke up!!

Q.   i brokeup with my boyfriend lastthursdy after goin out for 4 weeks but yesterday i found out that only 2 days after splittingup him and mybest friend were goin out, i got really angry. what should i do ?...

A.   9 April 2009: I have almost the exact same problem as you! I know how angry you feel and how you want to get revenge really badly on both of them. The most annoying thing that will come up will be their constant expressions of their love etc. in your view, th... (read in full...)

How do I deal with the fallout of this friendship?

Q.   I'm at uni and a popular girl with lots of friends. I've fallen out with a guy friend of mine and we fell out badly so that he decided to end the friendship due to a misunderstanding. He was mad as hell. He decided to believe lies spread by 2 bitc...

A.   9 April 2009: I haven't successfully handles the ending of a relationship, however I have had problems with this sort of thing on Facebook before. My strategy for Facebook is completely giving it up for a week or a few days, and let everything blow over. Ho... (read in full...)

Ok.. so he probably doesn't fancy me

Q.   ok, i've kind of given up hope, i really fancy him but i doubt he fancies me, i need to get over him right? It will be difficult but how do i do this. I've been thinking of doing the whole writing a letter and burning it thing but will it work or ...

A.   15 December 2007: I used to have your exact same problem and the way I did it (or tried at least) was writing anonymous letters to them and then doing something that made it kinda obvious that it was you who wrote it (or you can leave that last bit out). And yes, no ... (read in full...)

My parents forbid me to see my bf but I still do.

Q.   I am 15 years old my halfway boyfriend is 17, we aren't supposed to be together,my parents forbidden us to see each other. We have been together for like almost two years, when the started to not let us see each other was about 7months ago, i h...

A.   7 December 2007: I understand how you feel and what you've gone through. I'm not sure what problem your parents have with your boyfriend but whatever it is, love is the strongest chain and is rarely broken by other people. In this case, these 'other people' are your ... (read in full...)

Can anyone make sense of this and help me?

Q.   this is complicated but i NEED to find this out. so me and this girl like each other. and I was going to ask her out but I waited a few weeks. after the awhile she seemed to loose interest...so I became worried and confused. then this week her best...

A.   7 December 2007: She said her friend was wrong: what's there to be confused about??? I say try asking her out anyway. About her friend telling you she doesn't like you, sometimes people tell you things to either confuse you or just because they're sad and need a ... (read in full...)

Do people usually stay with their first loves??

Q.   Hi, Im 15 and have no confidence I do around my friends but not when I meet new people. I always feel like people are commenting on the way I look or that people think im ugly =/. I was wondering if anyone has any ideas on how I can improve my ...

A.   4 December 2007: I've been going out for about six months now, and she's been my 'first love' if you want to call it that. People say a lot of things and most of them have no substance whatsoever and simply say them to get attention or just for gossip. This is ... (read in full...)

I want to dump my girlfriend for a girl who lives in Texas who likes me, should I go for it and fly to see her?

Q.   Hey I am that guy who asked for help and U gave it to me about the girl from Texas. Well just two days ago she was talking to me on da fone and she told me she liked me a lot!!! Now I am happy but I have a problem first I am going out with this gir...

A.   4 December 2007: Strange...interesting story BUT if you're really the age that you say you are on your profile, don't fly to Texas. Running away is not a good thing especially since you live so far away. Texas is as far away from Portugal as Portugal is from ... (read in full...)

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