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writes:I have been going out with this wonderful girl for a couple weeks now. We are in a pretty good relationship.But today after school an aquatance of mine was hanging around with My girl and I and she went to reach to move him away so she could move and he moved and she accidently hit his chest. no biggie. The guy responds by when I turn away by grabbing her boob..........I heard someone exclame something and I turned around and my grl looked startled/pissed off and I saw his hand move........but I didn't start anything with him.......I just pushed him round....and swore at him a bit.Should I confront him at school tomorrow??I'm really steamed about his doing that........ Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): You should have confronted at the time. It's not wise to respond days later for many reasons, not least because it makes you look weak but also is now disconnecetd with first incident. If your girl wants to respond she can report him to school authorities for something like a strike#1 to prevent a repeat. But thats her decision, not yours. Your moment of valour has passed.
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reader, hello1  +, writes (6 February 2008):
 What a jerk! he's disrespecting you as well as your g/f, she could get him for sexual harassment anyway but yes I think you should confront him, I remember school and some kids deserve a kick.
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reader, j3ffo  +, writes (6 February 2008):
 Seriously, I think that's not much of a biggie I mean ya I would be pissed off too if some guy grabbed my girl's chest. But to be honest. Is he your friend? you think he did it just to be funny? becuase your girl pushed his chest by accident.
It's up to you to confront him or not, but I would talk w/ your girl first and see how she thinks about it
If the guy is close friend of yours then I would say definatly confront him but don't start anything.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 February 2008):
 I think you have done enough . Further actions would escalate into a war. If he dare to do again , report him to the authorities for molest.
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reader, jm81690 +, writes (6 February 2008):
 Don't continue confronting him to the point that your girl thinks you're obsessive.
But if I were you, yeah I'd confront him.
You don't go after another guys girlfriend, especially when he's right there.
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reader, speedcat +, writes (6 February 2008):
pushing him and swearing at him is enough...he should get the point! If his behavior continues...then take him aside and tell him you dont appreciate his behavior...try to talk and aviod a fight.... good luck!
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