I'm afraid to tell my friend that I've fallen for him

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok so where to start, I think I am falling in love with my best friend. We both went through tough break ups last year and as it turned out we fell to each other for comfort. A sort of 'friends with benefits' aranement really. We always agreed we didn't want anything more but now I do so much! We get on well together, have a good laugh and that spark. The truth is I don't know if he does and I am so scared to ask him incase he rejects me and it becomes awkward. We go to Uni together and live together in the same halls. We have the same circle of friends and plus I don't want to ruin anything that we have. He has come to visit me over summer and we got close again last night but I really don't know if it just sex or more he is a very hard person to read. I nearly confessed all drunk last night but bottled it at the last min. Now I feel miserable because he isn't here. At first I was worried it was a rebound but my feelings aren't going away only getting stronger. I know I need to talk to him but I just have no clue about how to go about this without ruining everything.

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