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Is my ex having sex with other men?

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Question - (10 August 2011) 10 Answers - (Newest, 12 August 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

is my ex having sex with other men? she still shaves her pubic region everyday i found this out cause we ended up having sex one nite out of the blue so why would she still go through the hassle if shes not having sex with others?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2011):

Sexually Transmitted Infections really do exist, people. Lying about your sex life to a partner is not always a harmless thing to do.

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A male reader, Jjang19 Canada +, writes (11 August 2011):

If she is, it's none of your buisness....

she's your EX, meaning you dont control what she does, and shes free to sleep with whoever she wants

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2011):

Just because she shaves her public hair, doesn't mean she's having sex with other men. Maybe she just does it to feel better about herself?

She may have even planned the occasion (having sex with you) before meeting you. You have to remember though, as she is your ex after all, whether or not she is sleeping with other men is no longer your business.

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A female reader, hopeFUL_romantic_13  +, writes (10 August 2011):

TasteofIndia and everyone else pretty much said it all.

It's comfortable for a woman to shave. Not to mention there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to take care of yourself and looking tidy for YOU (not anyone else).

She is your ex and that mean NO LONGER your girlfriend. It's her business, not yours. There's nothing worse then a jealous ex-boyfriend (other than a homocidal one). She has a right to find someone who will love her and make her happy.

Stop sleeping with her "out of the blue"! If you have no intentions of trying to win her back, stay away from her. Away.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (10 August 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony aunt1. it's none of your business

2. perhaps she shaves for herself NOT FOR ANY MAN

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A male reader, Kyle007 United States +, writes (10 August 2011):

Just ask her. I disagree that its none of your business, IT IS because if she is using you to cheat on another man you need to know that, even if it was just a one-night stand. I am surprised none of the other posters thought of that scenario, but I am sure you have. Its not a matter of your jealousy, but a matter of her integrity. So if she has been sleeping with other men, you need to know if she ended it before getting it on with you. This is very important.

And you really should have found this out before doing her, sorry.

Other than that, you two need to make a firm decision of what type of relationship you have. If you aren't going to be romantically involved, I would recommend staying away.

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A female reader, babygirllovej Canada +, writes (10 August 2011):

babygirllovej agony auntNot to be rude or anything but it is not any of your business. You are not in a relationship with her so even if she is sleeping with other men it does not concern you.

Perhaps you are not over her? Try taking some steps to get over her if this is in the case.

Take care.

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A female reader, Elydiese United Kingdom +, writes (10 August 2011):

its nothing to do with you so keep out of it

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (10 August 2011):

TasteofIndia agony auntBecause it may be more comfortable for her.

Or maybe she is - if she's your ex, that means it's really none of your business anymore. Unless you're not using protection in which case, you should have asked BEFORE putting yourself at risk! If you really want to know, you should just ask her.

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (10 August 2011):

angelDlite agony auntto keep it tidy. doesn't necessarily mean she is having sex with others, although she might be. why not ask her?

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