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writes:Hello. I need some advice. I'm a teenager, and I SWEAR I have the HUGEST crush on my teacher. Its like a crush from elementary school, that's what kind of crush I have. I looove his personality. He tells us a lot of stuff... But I think its a bad thing to like your teacher. I need help. By the way, I've always had things for older people. Any advice???
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2011): Thank you all for the answers, I am going to follow your advice. Yeah, its silly I feel that way! But this dude is like, 28 lol and he's sooo hot. But I need to start to learn to like guys my age. And the question about my dad? He passed on years ago. I have a stepdad but I never call him Dad.
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reader, hopeFUL_romantic_13  +, writes (19 October 2011):
I still have feelings for a former teacher of mine. Don't make the same mistake I did. Even if it is just to get it out in the open and try to move on,keep this to yourself. If you want to talk, you can private message me.
Also, I think should should go onto ecperienceproject.com (if you have not already). It's a great website where you share your experiences and connect with people who relate to you. I found it by accident. I clicked on a story by a student about their crush on a teacher, and it took me to that website. I joined to talk to people about my situation. I became obsessed with that website. It helped me me a lot of good friends.
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reader, kukie  +, writes (19 October 2011):
i can remember many years ago when i was about 16, i had this huge crush on a man that was old enough to be my dad...lol,.Without him even knowing, he really made my day whenever he stepped into the shop where i worked on weekends.... don't worry!!..it will pass, just don't go now and ""show" your teacher that you have a crush on him...keep it to yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2011): Hey! I've only had crushes on older people and it's true they can be really old so people think it's weird that you like them (not too old though). And I see your situation. In my opinion, I think you just like his "niceness" and admire his inteligence. It's just admiration. If he is married, there is almost 0% chance anyway, and you have to wait to be at least 18 to date an adult or it is illegal and I'm sure your parents wont approve! Not to be harsh I think it's just a phase.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2011): How's your relationhip with your dad?
And its ok to have a tiny crush on a teacher, but you are rightnto not get hung up on it and to try and let it go. We can't control our feelings, but there is one thing...its not easy, but it can work. Mentally force yourself to stop liking that teacher. It works easiest when you make yourself like someone else. Just think about all of the new person's great qualities and think "i like him" over and over when he walks by. Gradually you will learn to actually like him. Its not easy and it won't be an overnight thing. And it helps if you fully come to terms to the feelings you have towards your teacher, and think about why you don't want to like him. Good luck!
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reader, tb0721  +, writes (19 October 2011):
 Stay far away from that situation. It could ultimately cause much damage for him personally and in his career if anyone ever suspected something happening. You are much too young to be in a relationship with someone in that age group. Although you may be infatuated with him you need to find a way to get over any sort of feelings you have for him. He is your teacher and supposed to be nice, fun, etc but in a professional sense and it could never become more without damage being caused to both of you. If you find it hard to get over the feelings maybe you should try switching classes to another teacher.
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