Do I wait for her till she's done with her friends?
Q. Do I wait for her? Dear Cupid I met this girl (Let’s call her Kim) last year at college and we dated for some months. The first month it was just fine until I broke up with her, cuz I felt there was nothing growing between us, but after another mo...
A. 23 November 2008: Wow, what a weak minded girl that she won't even have a boyfriend because her friends won't let her.
You can hang on for her if you want and she'll may come back and be all loving until she decides to be a career woman because her friends tell her... (read in full...)
Is it worth that I chase after her for a date?
Q. I've recently started school again where I left off so I can graduate (I had to drop out for a bit for personal reasons). I've met a beautiful girl who flirts with me a lot, but I feel like she's more into my muscles then myself somtimes. She's the ...
A. 23 November 2008: Ask her out - if she says yes then she is interested.
If she makes an excuse then you know she is just flirting and you shouldn't take her seriously.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing trying again with him?
Q. i know this is very long, but im desperate for advice, so please please please read this and tell me what you think. im at a really awkward stage in my life right now. my boyfriend and i had been together for almost two years when we broke up.we we...
A. 23 November 2008: You do seem to be HUGELY emotional about the whole thing.
I know he hurt you when he split up with you but then he came back and you agreed to take him back.
After that you should have just forgiven and forgotten but it seems you are still de... (read in full...)
Nerves and doubt in my relationship are eating me alive.
Q. Ok, so me and my boyfriend that I lost my virginity to have been together off and on for 2 years. We recently broke up for 7 months and just got back together. About 3 months before we got back together he had gotten a girl pregnant. He claims he ...
A. 23 November 2008: He could just be trying to reassure you by telling white lies.
However, the problem remains that he could be the father of a child.
Get him to talk to this girl and agree to a DNA test when the baby is born.
I know you love him but are you... (read in full...)
Do you think I can fix this and get back with her later on?
Q. mi girlfriend(ex) of 4 months broke up with me she did it was cuz she couldnt talk to me and that i didnt understant her. she said that she had that problem b4 and she didnt want to end up hating me and thats she broke up with me. also cuz she ...
A. 23 November 2008: You can try just being there for her and proving that you are man enough to handle her problems.
But to be honest it sounds like she is going through some stuff at the moment and needs to be alone for a while.
Be her friend but don't hang aroun... (read in full...)
He's the best thing that has happened to me in a long time but he's married, what should I do?
Q. hi, i've been seeing a married man, we've known each other for 16 years, but we started talking again 6 months ago and hit it off straight away, we fancied each other all those years ago but never acted on it, until now. We've spoken about how thin...
A. 23 November 2008: I know it's nice to be in love and very honourable for him to want to stick with his kids but just have a read of this woman's situation:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-cut-contact-with-me-and-our-son.html
You will never have him, you wi... (read in full...)
I want to tell her that I like her but I can't find the words! How to tell her?
Q. Basically I have fallen completely head over heels in love with this one girl I've known for a number of months, we have been through a lot already. She has hinted quite a few times and it takes me like two hours before something happens or someone ...
A. 23 November 2008: You just have to grab her hand and tell her.
Take a big breath and blurt it out.
Don't build it up and invite her for a specific lunch so you can go down on one knee.
Just hang out, enjoy each other's company and blurt it out.
It's ju... (read in full...)
He cut contact with me and our son because his wife has discovered our affair! What do you think?
Q. Over a year ago i got in contact with someone from my past. His marriage was very unhappy and he was there for his children as they meant everything to him.He stopped loving his wife and his marriage had been on the rocks for a couple of years ...
A. 23 November 2008: Looks like you have lost him.
I would plan your life as a single mum.
Get support from your friends and family and get a lawyer to contact him about child support. Even if he's chosen to stick with his wife, he still has to help pay for you... (read in full...)
Is it illegal to get fellatio from an underage girl?
Q. my neighbor is 16 yrs old and im 21, and shes really into me and wants to have sex but i told her that i wouldnt cuz of i didnt wanna go to jail... so she said that she would give me a blowjob but idk if thats consider illegal???...
A. 23 November 2008: I'm not sure what the laws are in your state, but to be honest, why would you want to accept this offer?
You don't say you are into her, or want a relationship.
She is only offering you oral in the hope you will be her boyfriend.
Tu... (read in full...)
Improve Image Or Relationship?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for eight months. We love eachother very much and have just finished school, and no, we haven't had sex, and we don't plan to for a very long time. This is my first relationship but this is her third because ...
A. 23 November 2008: You are only young, I doubt and agency would try and force you into something like that and in my experience it is rare to never that you see kissing in TV adverts anyway.
You really don't need to worry about improving your image in TV at this sta... (read in full...)
I don't want to disappoint my late Mother, but my father is out of control.
Q. Hey guys I need some advice on what to do! My mum died back in early 2007 and although we weren't really close, I still really miss her. Anyway, after she died my dad moved back in who had left when I was about six and at first me and my sisters ...
A. 23 November 2008: Is there anyone else who could look after you. All you need is someone over the age of 18.
If your big sister wasn't at uni then she could do it - what about your grandparents? Would they consider coming to stay with you?
If you could find s... (read in full...)
How can I tell the GF he has another woman without her knowing that it's me?
Q. O.K I'M the other woman and I want the other woman (the girlfriend) to find out about us. This way it will put the man in the spot to make a decision. I don't want her to see something that will hurt her, I just want her to be informed, the man ...
A. 22 November 2008: So you tell her, get slapped in the face and covered in your drink...
Then she kicks him out and sets fire to his car.
His comfortable life is thrown into chaos and who is he going to blame? You.
He is not going to say "oh darling, my mind... (read in full...)
What should I get my boyfriend of six months, for Christmas?
Q. What do i get my bf of 6 months for christmas? thanks!...
A. 22 November 2008: A ferrari.... or a box of chocolates.... (read in full...)
My husband is obese and isn't willing to diet or exercise, what should I do?
Q. My husband is obese and isn't willing to diet or exercise, what should I do? He is not willing to seek outside help, doctors said our sexless marriage is because of his weight, as being obese reduces a man's libido, also he suffers from sleep ap...
A. 22 November 2008: Go out and get some brochures from the funeral place and talk to him about coffins and what he'd like his funeral to be like.
Then talk about cutting back on luxuries and setting up a saving account in your name so you have access to cash once he ... (read in full...)
Sex sex sex... yet he still jerks off and sends nude pictures???
Q. Something is wrong with this picture, we have sex every night and some mornings, on weekends sometimes 2-3 times a day, yet he jacks off to porn daily and he has just sent a girl he doesn't know nude pics and videos of him jerking it. ...
A. 22 November 2008: Ok so if you are having lots of sex and he looks at porn as well then I could kind of just accept he was a nymphomaniac with a HUGELY high sex drive.
But sending videos to other girls is most definitely NOT on.
That is cheating in my view and w... (read in full...)
I was an idiot, but I have changed. Now I want her back !
Q. Ok, I'm 25 and had lots of girlfriends in the past.. I started dating this girl "Nicole" April of 2007 and we got engaged August of 07 and moved in together.. I love her with all my heart but made dumb mistakes with finances and being irresponsible ...
A. 22 November 2008: I think you need to give her space but show her that you are being responsible and really have changed.
You moved so fast in your relationship that she may be in danger of falling out of love as fast as she fell in.
You have to show her that yo... (read in full...)
I ended it with the guy I'm seeing because he has a gf. Now he won't leave me alone, what shall I do??
Q. i've been seeing a guy who has a gf for about 4months now and i just don't feel too good about it. i decided to break it off with him (this is my 2nd attempt only difference i tried to be more forceful) by telling him that i really care about him as ...
A. 21 November 2008: Wow he sounds like a nutter to me.
If he wanted to be with you that much then he would break up with his girlfriend.
But instead he's trying to guilt you into letting him stay with her "Do you want me to tell her?" is such emotional blackm... (read in full...)
Could he love me but still have feelings for her?
Q. My boyfriend of two years said he loved me and how much I meant to him, yet he had been seeing his ex on a regularly basis behind my back and when probed, admitted that he still had feelings for her, though no line in terms of physical intimacy had ...
A. 21 November 2008: In my view, he is never going to commit to you fully, there is always going to be something lacking.
Meet someone who feels that spark, and that deep respect and has eyes for only you, I don't think this is that guy.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
An anyone tell me what it means when a guy has "blue balls"?
Q. Dear Cupid - I'm in this wonderful relationship with my boyfriend (I'm a virgin, he's not, but it's not a problem for either of us). Although we're not having sex yet we often do things like dry humping, fingering me etc. And I just heard abo...
A. 21 November 2008: Yeah, qcumbr is right - it basically happens because his balls swell up with sperm ready for it to be shooting out and then when it doesn't go anywhere it makes them ache.
You might want to introduce hand jobs to your boyfriend... or just give him... (read in full...)
How do you tell your partner about physical qualities that bother you and are sometimes a big turn-off?
Q. How do you tell your partner about physical qualities that bother you and are sometimes a big turn-off? I have a very good friend, that is single for at least the last 12 years. He is 50, in excellent shape, very handsome man, takes really goo...
A. 21 November 2008: Well unless he is prepared to pay for the thousands of pounds worth of laser treatment I think he's going to have to put up with it, or find someone else.
There is no way to nicely say "I find this bit of you disgusting. Get rid of it."
I think... (read in full...)
I'm 20 but look much younger and it's causing me problems....
Q. Hi everyone I'm 20 years old but look so much younger and I really hate it. I always get ID'd and once I wasn't allowed into an 18+ gig because the bouncer didn't believe me! I wondered if anyone had any tips to help me look older? The only thing I ...
A. 21 November 2008: Oh sweetie, I know how you feel, my friend still gets ID'd and she is 25!
She is just small.
All you can do is take out your passport and driving license and be glad that when everyone of your other friends is upset because they look 30, yo... (read in full...)
Do I have any chance of rekindling my relationship?
Q. Do I have any chance of rekindling my relationship? My ex girlfriend of 10 years found another girl's earrings at my place. She had moved out two weeks prior after I told her I needed a temporary break. She came over to do some laundry and found th...
A. 21 November 2008: Oh well as long as you didn't plan on getting caught...
You asked for a break, chucked her out, and went out for sex with other girls.
It doesn't matter if you planned on having a bit of fun and then going back to your dutiful girlfriend.
S... (read in full...)
How can I ever trust him again that he would lie to me about his divorce?
Q. I met my husband Dec 2007. He told me that he had been previously married and had been divorced 4 years. We were married July 2008. Before us getting married I felt that he was hiding something from me and had asked him if he was numerous times ...
A. 21 November 2008: If you seriously think he is cheating and he is refusing to even apologise and just getting angry then this might not be a marriage that you want to stay in.
However, if this one lie has destroyed your trust, you could be in danger of accusing... (read in full...)
I bought eye concealer instead of foundation, can I still use it as a foundation?
Q. Hi all, This is a beauty question. I have just spent a fortune on a max factor concealer and went home and put some on my face only to realise it's eye concealer!!! Does it matter if I use it on my face i.e chin, jaw line area as I'm unabl...
A. 21 November 2008: I'd go back and ask at a Max Factor stall in one of the department stores.
I don't see why eye concealer can't be used on none Eye areas.
If it's only to cover up minor blemishes then you aren't going to be putting it on with a trowel anyway.
... (read in full...)
What does her reaction mean? Was I out of order?
Q. Hi, I've known this girl for a bit now and we hit it off as good friends straight away. We both really enjoyed each others company and often spent most of our nights out dancing, drinking and enjoying ourselves. She has a long term boyfriend b...
A. 21 November 2008: She likes you being there as her loving lovely puppy. Who will cuddle her and tell her she's beautiful and make her feel wanted.
It doesn't matter if you don't mean to give out these signals, you will do and that feeling of being wanted is like ... (read in full...)
How can I ever trust him again that he would lie to me about his divorce?
Q. I met my husband Dec 2007. He told me that he had been previously married and had been divorced 4 years. We were married July 2008. Before us getting married I felt that he was hiding something from me and had asked him if he was numerous times ...
A. 21 November 2008: He was divorced within the month of meeting you.
But this is a pretty big lie and he had plenty of chances to come clean.
I think you should tell him that he has one chance to tell you the truth about WHY he lied to you and then kept lying.... (read in full...)
We have feelings for each other...
Q. So I've had feelings for this girl for quite a while. Recently, she's told me that she has strong feelings for me as well, but doesn't know what they are. After she told how she felt, I told her the way I felt about her. I talked a couple of time...
A. 21 November 2008: Be there as a friend for a few weeks and keep being romantic and flirting.
If she still can't make her mind up after a couple of weeks then stop seeing her for a while so you can start to get over her.
She might realise what she has once it'... (read in full...)
What is to be expected on a first date?
Q. I need some help, I am in the early 20s and have never had a boyfriend. This guy I work with has asked me out and I want to say yes because I like him, but I am scared because I have never been on a date, and as I am older than most I would lik...
A. 21 November 2008: Go out, have fun, he's not going to mind you being a bit shy.
Be yourself and if he kisses you then brilliant. If not then give him a hug goodbye and hold his eye contact a little bit to give him a hint.
What ever you do, DO NOT go back to h... (read in full...)
I think I've screwed up our sex life!!!
Q. Me and my girlfriend's sex life has gotten strange lately. We used to have sex like twice a day for the past few weeks and then accidentally while we were having sexing my finger rubbed past her anus while I was grabbing her butt, and she freaked ...
A. 21 November 2008: Go and kiss her and tell her you love her. Keep your hands on her waist and back and not near her bum.
Then make a move on her later but keep your hands on her top half as soon as the foreplay finishes.
Make her feel safe with you and that you... (read in full...)
Do first relationships ever work first time for good?
Q. Hi! I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 17 and nearly 18, lol, so I'm ten months older then her, though taller, and many have said considerably more mature :p lol I'm her 3rd boyfriend however she is my first. Her first one broke up with because she woul...
A. 21 November 2008: Unfortunately we cannot tell the future.
It may work and it may not.
There is no reason at the moment why it won't last for ever.
Reasons may crop up though and what will be will be.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
We've broken up because we're different religions and she wants me to change...
Q. hello.._ im win.im a half japanese phil. im from japan.. im not good speaking english sorry if i will miss_ i need help;_; i have a problem right now.. and i dont know what to do... im very very sad... because of my girlfriend.. today we...
A. 21 November 2008: You cannot abandon your life for a girl.
You are so young. She is able to hurt you easily so I think you should get over her and move on.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I'm worried that to her relationships are rather casual because she has been constantly dating!
Q. I have just entered in my first real relationship and am in my mid twenties but found out that my girl has been constantly in relationships with guys since she was 16 the last ending literally just before i met her. I'm crazy about this girl but am ...
A. 21 November 2008: Well take things slow and don't fall in love too easily.
If you wait before sleeping together and everything else you will soon discover if she is in this for the long term or just looking for fun.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is there any chance for us in the future?
Q. I am a girl of 17 and I have a brother in law who is 8 years elder to me, he really likes me and I too like him, is the age difference between us too big. By the time he finishes medicine and settles down as a doctor he would be around 30 and I ...
A. 21 November 2008: You say he is your brother in law... surely that means he is married to your sister?
If that is true then there is no hope for you.
Sorry.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I don't want to see him any more but how do I tell him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for the past 7 months, and they've been great, with a lot of happy times, but i feel its come to the point where i don't want to see him anymore, i don't feel like i want to talk him, text him or see ...
A. 21 November 2008: I think you need to just call him and tell him the truth.
Tell him that your feelings have faded and you think you want to be single.
He'll cry and beg and then hate you for a bit but unfortunately that it what happens when you dump someone, it... (read in full...)
Sex has gone downhill, he says this is because he wants a change - sex with another woman!
Q. I asked for help a couple weeks ago week about having an issue with an unemployed boyfriend. We have been together 7 years. I have been supporting him in every way since. Now he is unemployed again because of the economy. I actually met him when he ...
A. 21 November 2008: Wow, so he's unemployed and living off you and now he's saying you aren't good enough for him in bed.
You've picked a real charmer here.
I really don't know why you are putting up with him - why should he get a sexual treat when you are doi... (read in full...)
I feel excited when people mention my ex's name, but not my boyfriends! Help!
Q. Il apologize in advance if its a long question. Well heres the basics, im 16 and have been with my boyfriend for a little over 9 months. Ive never felt love like this towards anyone before, its kind of like i'd do anything to make sure he didnt ge...
A. 21 November 2008: I'd say this was perfectly natural.
You're stuck with a boyfriend that, although you love, doesn't have that connection with you or that spark you know you can have.
The bad news is that this really shows you that your current relationship wil... (read in full...)
Am losing or lost her! She said she needs space...
Q. Been with this girl for 4 years now and suddenly things are going down the drain. To cut the long story short, she bought a house and wanted to move in, being this is my first realtionship I was scared and freaked out and told her I was not ready ...
A. 21 November 2008: You are being very selfish about this whole thing.
You freak out about it all - that's fine.
She freaks out about it all - and you refuse to talk to her and say you want to give your keys back and dump her.
She needs space so stop making thi... (read in full...)
How do I approach this guy I like when we don't even go to the same school?
Q. iam 13 years old, recently met this guy we have so much in common and i got my friend to ask him what he thinks kf me he wouldnt really talk to her much, but she then asked him if she thinks im attractive, he answered with yes but i really really ...
A. 21 November 2008: Go up, get chatting to him and get him to add you to MSN, or Facebook, or what ever and then get chatting on there.
Once you have got to know him then you can ask him out.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I have all this love, but I feel like no one wants it. What is wrong with me?
Q. I have had a few new guys in my life, and I tried to start a serious relationship with both of them only to crash and burn! I can't help but feel like something is wrong with me. My friends always tell me I'm pretty, I'm a dancer so I stay fit etc. ...
A. 21 November 2008: You're 16 to 17 so I'm guessing that the guys you are dating are the same age.
The answer to your problem is that you are dating boys. They don't want serious love. They want a girlfriend who will let them see boob every now and then.
Stop st... (read in full...)
How do I get her to come to my place?
Q. i took a girl i like on a date. i want her to come to my place. what must i do to achieve this feat.help me....
A. 21 November 2008: When you say come to your place - do you mean for sex?
If so then you may have to take her on more than one date. Get to know her, commit to her, fall in love and then she might want to have sex with you.
If you just want to use her for sex ... (read in full...)
My parents pulled me out of my school and now they want to kick me out of the home! Help!
Q. I need some good advice. My parents took me out of my school, away from my friends and are now threatning to kick me out of home. I haven't spoken to my best friend for 2 months, I feel really depressed. I really miss my best friend and yes even my ...
A. 21 November 2008: You don't give a single reason why they did this.
I really don't think they'd do it just because they woke up one morning and decided it would be fun to ruin your life.
Ask them why they did it in a calm way and then calmly ask what you would h... (read in full...)
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