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writes:I need some help, I am in the early 20s and have never had a boyfriend.This guy I work with has asked me out and I want to say yes because I like him, but I am scared because I have never been on a date, and as I am older than most I would like some tips, everyone says just relax and be yourself but what do guys expect on the frst date.Oh and how do you kiss someone?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 November 2008):
Go out, have fun, he's not going to mind you being a bit shy.
Be yourself and if he kisses you then brilliant. If not then give him a hug goodbye and hold his eye contact a little bit to give him a hint.
What ever you do, DO NOT go back to his on a first date and do not have sex.
Kissing is as far as you need to go... all the rest has to come once you are ready.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008): You could just tell him you've never been on a date before. For all you know he might not have either. Just take an interest in him and getting to know him as a friend and enjoy yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008): What do you do if he invites you back. I mean would it put him off if you said no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008): I was in your position not too long ago although I am a guy...I understand your nervousness and anxiety. Be yourself. Just like me, you are probably over-thinking this and you'll be much better once you are on the date.As for kissing, I would let him initiate it and if you don't feel it's appropriate, stop. I can't really help you with technique, but in my opinion, you know how to do, you just don't know that you know how...in other words, you and him will figure out how each other likes to be kissed and you shouldn't worry about how to do it because it comes naturally.Good Luck...Have a Blast!
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (21 November 2008):
 I agree, be yourself. No doubt you will go out for a drink and chat about music, films etc and find out what you have in common.
Chances are, he'll initiate the kissing. But be careful in case he expects more or invites you back.
Fiona.
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