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*ommyBoy83
writes:Ok, I'm 25 and had lots of girlfriends in the past.. I started dating this girl "Nicole" April of 2007 and we got engaged August of 07 and moved in together.. I love her with all my heart but made dumb mistakes with finances and being irresponsible and the end result was she left me Oct of 08 just a month ago. She said if I give her time and space and show her I'm more responsible we may possibly get back together, BUT heres the twist... We dont really talk as much or hangout, and when I say I love you, she doesnt say it back anymore... I'm real messed up over this, and I realized what I did wrong and I changed my downfalls for the most part. Any ideas on how I can show her how I feel, because cards and flowers and messages I think kinda annoy her, and I dont want that. PLEASE HELP, I'm really dumb when it comes to stuff like this, I just want my "NICOLE" back!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (22 November 2008):
I think you need to give her space but show her that you are being responsible and really have changed.
You moved so fast in your relationship that she may be in danger of falling out of love as fast as she fell in.
You have to show her that you are taking extra shifts at work, paying off your debts, chopping up your credit cards and getting a savings account so you have a nest egg for the future.
Give her space but keep in touch by email and just let her know what you are up to and how you still think about her.
Good Luck!! xx
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