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writes: My boyfriend of two years said he loved me and how much I meant to him, yet he had been seeing his ex on a regularly basis behind my back and when probed, admitted that he still had feelings for her, though no line in terms of physical intimacy had been crossed. I blew up and broke up with him. All trust was lost. Is this relationship over? Is it really possible to be loving one person and still be having feelings for someone else? Is it futile to give this another chance knowing that I would be doubting his every word and action in the future? What would it mean if I were to get back together with him?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 November 2008):
In my view, he is never going to commit to you fully, there is always going to be something lacking.
Meet someone who feels that spark, and that deep respect and has eyes for only you, I don't think this is that guy.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, LittleHelper16 +, writes (21 November 2008):
this is truely up to you but if I were in your postion I don't think I could trust him ever again. It is possible to love one person and have feelings for another but it's not right and not fair to you. If you still want himm in your life then make him choose. you are her and make him prove to you in some way that your more important then everyone.
I hope this helped
I wish you the best of luck :)
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