My boyfriend is starting to get annoying and scary...
Q. My boyfriend is starting to get annoying and scary. he follows me around everywhere and he keeps on saying hes possessed or something like that and that he belongs to the devil and stuff and he is being serious. I tried to break up with him the he ...
A. 4 December 2008: You got very lucky.... (read in full...)
Should I forget I ever met this girl and never speak to her again? Please help.
Q. Hi I have some major problems going on at the moment that i need opinions on. I've been going out with a girl for 2 years, its been quite a serious relationship and i do love her. At the moment she is out of the country and has been for 15 days, and...
A. 17 November 2008: Well it sounds like your feelings for your girlfriend were purely superficial.
I think you need to call her and end it. It's not fair for her to stay faithful when she has been forgotten by you so easily.
Then you'll be free to go off and do wh... (read in full...)
How do I put some spice into my kissing?
Q. Hello everyone! I want your help on this. Tomorrow I'm gonna meet my bf. I haven't seen him for 2 weeks becuase of me going to uni. We're gonna be alone so I'm sure we're going to kiss and I wanna make it something special. I was wondering if you ...
A. 15 November 2008: Well how you kiss is very much a part of you, it's like handwriting.
To be honest I wouldn't like it if my hubbie came home and had changed his whole style of kissing.
Run your hands through his hair and make lots of eye contact before a... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is starting to get annoying and scary...
Q. My boyfriend is starting to get annoying and scary. he follows me around everywhere and he keeps on saying hes possessed or something like that and that he belongs to the devil and stuff and he is being serious. I tried to break up with him the he ...
A. 15 November 2008: It might make his angry but it also may be the thing that makes him seek help.
As I said, you are only one girl. You are not a psychologist and you can't diagnose him.
Why not tell his parents about your worries before you split up with hi... (read in full...)
Have I broken my hymen by wearing a tampon?
Q. Hey This is probably a question for mainly girls however its just something i have been wondering about. When i was on holiday this year i had to wear tampons, for the first time. So by wearing them does this mean i have broken my hymen ???...
A. 15 November 2008: Doing anything can damage your hymen, riding bikes, going on a horse, doing high kicks in dancing and yes, using tampons.
It doesn't mean you aren't a virgin though so please don;t worry about that and no boy will be able to tell the differen... (read in full...)
Do you think "disappearing" would help me to move on and get my life back?
Q. Hello, everyone - I really need some help with moving on so here goes. I like this guy a lot and have for about one year. I think he likes me cause he flirts with me a lot but he has a girlfriend and she's giving him sex so I don't stand a chance. ...
A. 15 November 2008: I think it would be best.
Just drop out of sight. Leave a note if gives you closure but don't do it if you expect anything from it.
Plus you need to get out and about and meet some new people rather than thinking about him all day.
Good Luc... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is starting to get annoying and scary...
Q. My boyfriend is starting to get annoying and scary. he follows me around everywhere and he keeps on saying hes possessed or something like that and that he belongs to the devil and stuff and he is being serious. I tried to break up with him the he ...
A. 15 November 2008: Being a Christian doesn't have anything to do with it sweetie. You are a teenage girl and the only way you can help him is by getting an adult to help him.
You are putting yourself in danger and for what??
It seems you are trapped and he i... (read in full...)
It looked like the condom split, and now I'm panicking!
Q. Hi Everyone! Right, i'm just looking for peace of mind really.... me and my BF of 4 years had sex this morning, with a condom... but when he pulled out it really looked as if it had split as there was a lot of excess liquid on it.. ordinarily ...
A. 15 November 2008: You can go to any duty chemist and buy the morning after pill if you want to be extra safe.
Find out which one is the late night weekend chemist in your town and head down there.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Me and my best friend's housemate had a drunken fumble and now...?
Q. I went to my friend's house party and we all ended up taking copious amounts of drugs and alcohol. The usual cliché story, I ended up in bed with the housemate of my friend. And one thing led to another and we fumbled about and kissed and heavy ...
A. 15 November 2008: Just be honest, you don't have to make it into a poem.
Just text her and tell her that you enjoyed them too but you don't want to be "the other man." Tell her that you want to see her again when you get back from your holiday but only if she is s... (read in full...)
For the ladies: a few questions on the subject of attraction...
Q. Just a quick question or two from little old me. Which notion is 'sexier': a relationship which has evolved over the years from friendship or one which has evolved through, shall we say, 'traditional attraction' e.g. eyes meeting across a crowded ...
A. 15 November 2008: You are aware that we ladies are human and not a breed. We all like different things so my views are going to be nothing like the girl you want to know about. If you think that you "know what a woman wants" then you are probably clueless.
I hav... (read in full...)
Can I trust my boyfriend after I found his phone bill?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for about 10months now,and has been going so well, until i found his phone bill. there was one number that kept on popping up,he was ringing and texting this person everyday and at one point he had texted 50 times in one d...
A. 15 November 2008: I think you need to be hard on him about this.
The fact he's doing it in secret away from you is very suspicious. And then he lied to you.
I think you need to ask him to cut contact with her, and be open about you when she contacts him.
... (read in full...)
Why won't my girlfriend spend time with me?
Q. my gf won't spend time with me, were schoolmates and its just in school that we are together mainly lunch time but its only for a short time and we can't be sweet to each other cause she doesn't want it and its not allowed, we've been together for 3 ...
A. 15 November 2008: It sounds like she doesn't want to be your girlfriend at all.
You can either put up with being ignored like this or you can tell her that you don't think she's interested and you want to go back to being friends.
If she makes more effort then... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is starting to get annoying and scary...
Q. My boyfriend is starting to get annoying and scary. he follows me around everywhere and he keeps on saying hes possessed or something like that and that he belongs to the devil and stuff and he is being serious. I tried to break up with him the he ...
A. 15 November 2008: He sounds like he might actually be developing mental problems. Give him back the earings and break up with him. Make sure you have a friend with you (or within a few yards) when you do it in case he goes crazy.
If he gets any worse I think yo... (read in full...)
Should I wait until house prices bottom out before I buy ot my partner?
Q. I am considering buying my partner out but dont want to yet until the house prices hit rock bottom in a year maybe. she is not paying her half of the mortgage and cannot or will not pay. Do you think i should wait or buy her out now thx Zac...
A. 15 November 2008: You might save a few grand if you wait another 6 months but since you will pay a lot of mortgage payments between now and then, and she will pay nothing, you will probably only break even.
Buy her out now and then you can both move on.
Good Lu... (read in full...)
Should I forget I ever met this girl and never speak to her again? Please help.
Q. Hi I have some major problems going on at the moment that i need opinions on. I've been going out with a girl for 2 years, its been quite a serious relationship and i do love her. At the moment she is out of the country and has been for 15 days, and...
A. 15 November 2008: Oh dear, she's away 2 weeks and you didn't even care about her enough to stay faithful for that long.
So you have to tell the girl from school that you used her for sex and now can't speak to her again. She'll hate you and you'll lose friends ... (read in full...)
Should I just forget about this guy? Or should I try and maintain contact?
Q. Hey...I feel so down at the moment, and it is all down to this one guy. He is in my class, and so far we've been getting along very nicely. I really do think that he likes me. However, he is dropping the subject because: 1. He hates it (everyone in m...
A. 15 November 2008: Ask him for his number / to see him outside of school.
Then you can see him again.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Why would he even want to mess around with me if he already had a girlfriend? How can I show him I'm better than her?
Q. My brother is friends with this guy who happens to be black. When I saw him around I would ways try to make conversation with him but he never talked too much. A few months ago he got a job at my work and started flirting with me. We started ...
A. 15 November 2008: Ok so you didn't want us to tell you that he's obviously playing you for sex and will treat you badly. You've accepted this and are happy to be treated like crap, cheated on, and lied to.
Well in that case I'd just go up to him at work when he'... (read in full...)
Why did he ask for a kiss if he's interested in someone else?
Q. What's going on in my life at the moment is really confusing. Me and my ex have been split for around four weeks now, we still are friends and have everyday contact over the phone. Anyway last nite - like most Fridays, I saw him down the pub, hard...
A. 15 November 2008: Because he was drunk and he wanted
a) a kiss
and
b) to feel powerful, you stood and let him kiss you so he knows he still has power over you.
He's an idiot, if he asks for a kiss again then say NO and walk away.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Do you think I still have a chance with him? Or have I messed up big time?
Q. dear, whoever wishes to help me im a 18 year old guy and i have been speaking to a 22 year old guy for 3 weeks now, we get on really well. we arranged to meet up yesterday and we did, he was really great a bit shy but great. we watched tel...
A. 15 November 2008: Well the fact that you both cuddled up in bed, kissing and had a great night, and that was not a pleasant experience for you but instead felt really awkward makes me wonder if you were better off just staying friends.
Or it could be a side eff... (read in full...)
We've been texting each other and he seemed keen, then suddenly lost interest, what could it be?
Q. it's this guy that i'm into.we have been talking for a while.we are considering starting a relationship i think.he seemed like he was so into me just like maybe a week ago.but then my phone had gotten turned off i hadn't talked to him in five days.i ...
A. 15 November 2008: Sounds like he wasn't interested in taking it further than texting.
He had his chance to meet you and he didn't bother. Move on.
If he did want you then he'll come looking for you.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My ex wants me back, but I doubt his true intentions! Is it because he can't find someone else?
Q. So i dated this guy i really liked for a month then he broke up with me,because he liked this girl he worked with and thought he had a chance with her. thought i found this out after, he actually lied about the reason he was breaking up with me. ...
A. 15 November 2008: In my opinion it could go either way.
He could have realised he's made a mistake and want you back, or he may just want an easy lay.
Why not ask him about your break up and tell him how hurt you were. If he is genuinely sorry and says he is p... (read in full...)
I'm getting married and yet thinking about my ex a lot!
Q. im 18, and im getting married. dont get me wrong im totally ready for the comitment and i really do love this guy, but recently my ex(first love) came back into my life and now im doing the whole "what if" thing. i know that i want to marry my fian...
A. 15 November 2008: You fiance telling you what to do has made him less attractive to you. It would to me as well.
And you are remembering all the good times with your ex, but also remember all the hurt and how you broke up.
This could all just be a side effect be... (read in full...)
Do bolder colours in bras make breasts seem bigger and why?
Q. Heey, im a 32A cup...and with softer coloured bras my breasts look smaller then what they are. when i have bolder colours on, some reason they look bigger. Why is that?...
A. 15 November 2008: If you have a neutral colour then all you see is the vague shape of your body and mostly you just see the clothes on top.
If you wear a big bold bra then it screams "LOOK AT ME I'M A BRAAAAAAAAAA!" and by doing this it attracts the eye to your bre... (read in full...)
I broke up with my boyfriend, he has moved on, I love and want him back, what do I do?
Q. About a year ago, I broke up with my bf of 5 yrs. I was going through a really hard time, we just had a baby, and i was very confused about if i wanted to be with him. A couple of months after the break up, I started dating this guy. He was great!!! ...
A. 15 November 2008: 4 months is too long for rebound.
I think he has moved on hun, just like you did when you broke up with him. It's not surprising really.
I think you just have to hang on and be civil about him seeing his child and if he breaks up with his new ... (read in full...)
What's up with the whole situation? I need some advice...quick!!!
Q. I have worked closely with a guy at work for about 2 years and have been attracted to him for about 1 and a 1/2 years. he is very flirtatious on the telepone, eluding to having a relationship, however, on several occasions, when i have asked him to ...
A. 15 November 2008: Wow, it sounds like your guy loves having his ego stroked by flirting with you.
So when you hint towards finding a better guy to flirt with then he's jealous.
Ask him about the other guy all you want and if he gets jealous then ask him what his... (read in full...)
I'm really scared that I'm going to somehow mess things up with her, or that she'll cheat.
Q. Hi, Forgive me if this sounds a little silly, but if you could help me put my mind to rest I'd appreciate it. I have been seeing a girl at my course at university for the past 3 weeks or so. 3 weeks is a very short time, but I feel like my feelings...
A. 15 November 2008: You need to give yourself a clip round the back of your head.
You've been together 3 weeks, you are taking it slowly, and everything is fine. Yes you may mess it up, and there is no absolutely 100% garuntee that she won't cheat. But it won;t be... (read in full...)
Can you become pregnant while on birth control?
Q. Q. So, is it possible to be pregnant while taking birthcontrol? (Story) My boyfriend and I had sex back in mid-Oct. I'm taking birthcontrol, so we didn't think it was nec. to use a condom. I've missed my period, which is unusual. I've been sick v...
A. 15 November 2008: If you missed a day of the pill, or were ill then it might not have worked.
Go and get yourself checked out. It could be a nasty winter bug!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My husband says I should take his last name but I don't want to, how can we resolve this issue?
Q. I've been married for around 2 months now; my husband wants me to add his last name to my last name (i.e. Smith Jones). I had always intended to keep my last name as it is (i.e. just Smith) and I had assumed he wouldn't have any issues with it - ...
A. 15 November 2008: Ah the name change debate.
I have no idea what it is about men and having their wife take their last name.... but it is as important as wearing a ring.
I and girl I know came up with a compromise when we married since we had already establis... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't talk to me because I refuse to have sex, what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend wants to have sex and I dont because hes not willing to wear a condom. If we're alone he'll pull me close, kiss me we usually start to make out and take off our (just a shirt or something) clothes and he'll try to remove my bra (Im ...
A. 15 November 2008: He is being a selfish pig who wants to use you for sex. He actually cares more about it feeling good for him, than the fact that you might have to bring up a baby and have your young body WRECKED by pregnancy.
I think it's clear he has no respect ... (read in full...)
Abuse caused our separation, not interested in a reconcilation, how do I tell him strongly?
Q. My husband of 2 years and I seperated in September. He is now begging me to reconcile with him, says he's been going to counseling and feels he is a better person. I really feel I have no interest in being with him again. He was very abusive ...
A. 15 November 2008: H can change all he wants, it doesn't mean your dynamic within the relationship will have changed and that he won't slip back into old ways.
You don't want him back and he's not in the same country as you so prove to him you don't want him back... (read in full...)
Can you tell me what's going through her mind?
Q. I need advice about a situation I'm in. There's a woman I work with that is very out-going, whom I'm very attracted to. I few days ago I invited her out for a drink after work. We had a wonderful time. The conversation came easy, there was a lot of ...
A. 15 November 2008: She probably did it in a drunken state because she fancied you a bit.
Then went home and told her friends who all rightly said "MARRIED??? KIDS???? HAVE TO WORK TOGETHER?? REPUTATION AT WORK!!! ARE YOU INSANE???"
And then you didn't get in to... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to ask her out? Face to face? Text? MSN?
Q. A quick and shortish question really. I like this girl and we have got together and kissed on two separate occasions now, i think it can go further and could lead somewhere, but there is one thing, i dont know how to ask her out? Any one got any ...
A. 15 November 2008: Don't do it by MSN or text, you are not 12.
Just try and see her at some point and get chatting, and then say something casual like "I've been thinking about you since we kissed, and I was wondering if you'd like to go out and do somethin... (read in full...)
I'm having problems with THE PILL. I'm bleeding erratically.
Q. I really need some help please. ive been taking the pill for about 6 months maybe. on and off. first two months to get used to it and going on holiday etc. but i often forget sometimes. i have an alarm and things that goes off but my routine ...
A. 15 November 2008: The whole reason that this is happening is not because of the pill itself, but because you are taking it wrong.
Your body has been on a rollercoaster ride, some times you load it with enough hormones to stop you ovulating and the next day you don'... (read in full...)
I can no longer stand my girlfriend's dad!
Q. I can no longer stand my girlfriend's dad! He is a great guy but he stresses me out so much and the last 2 days i have had this bad stomach ache because i have been so stressed!..He no longer wants me to put my arm around her and hold her unless she ...
A. 15 November 2008: The fact he wants you to hold her when she's on her period, which is the most emotional and hormonal time of the month for a girl says to me that he doesn't know what he's talking about.
Get out of his house and then you are free cuddle and kiss... (read in full...)
Should I give up or try harder?
Q. It's about a relationship advice... Hello, call me StuPiD.CuPiD. Here's the thing, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years now, I really love him, and he does too... Only that his parents are actually forbidding him from seeing anybody since he...
A. 15 November 2008: Well if he so under the rule of his parents that he is not allowed girlfriends at all then I think this might be a lost cause.
If he is not even prepared to risk annoying them by telling them he has met you then I think your situation is hopeless... (read in full...)
Will we be safe enough with just a condom?
Q. Quick question: Me and my boyfriend are going to have sex, however I am not on the pill or anything, will we be safe enough with just a condom?...
A. 14 November 2008: The condom is 99% effective if you use it properly.
Being on the pill is just like having a safety net beneath your safety net.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Should it 'burn' when we have sex?
Q. i am married and we have sex often (like 2-3 in a week)......but the problem is that, it really burn in there. it did when we just got married (a year ago, but just thought that it will be fine when i get used to it. But the problem seems to be ...
A. 14 November 2008: Go and get yourself checked out, you could have a condition (something like vagimus but I can't remember the correct name) that keeps you too tight down there and doesn't let you self lubricate.
Also you should get STDs ruled out.
In the mean t... (read in full...)
Could someone please tell me what to do about this long-distance relationship?
Q. Hey guys, Need some major advice. In a Long Distance Relationship (UK to Australia) with my girlfriend, and have been for a few months. We only made it official about 3 weeks ago but neither of us have been looking at other people since we last we...
A. 14 November 2008: Well if she can't be without her family then would she consider moving abroad for just a year or 3?
Then you could both move home if you decided you really wanted to spend your lives together.
Long distance is utterly horrible, but it... (read in full...)
How will I find someone to feed my hunger for sex?
Q. hi i am ananya iam 25..not married yet...still virgin..i masterbate myself often is it good for health...i had a boy friend but he didnt satisfied me cos i didnt co operate wit him...wen ever he tries toinsert his penis inside my vagina i used push ...
A. 14 November 2008: I think you are saying that you want a boyfriend.
The only advice I can give you is to get out there and meet some men.
There must be lots of men out there who are willing to love you and keep you satisfied. Always use a condom though!
Also,... (read in full...)
How can I help my son gain confidence and find love?
Q. I am concerned about my 29 year old son. He is a lawyer, very well-educated and a sensitive, interesting person. He has a pleasant face which looks very charming when he smiles. He's witty and funny, thoughtful and generous. He is short (5feet 6) ...
A. 14 November 2008: Well it sounds like you two are very close if he is telling you about his one night stands.
I think you just have to shove him out there in to the world and let him fend for himself. There are plenty of girls out there who would look up to a 5'6... (read in full...)
HOT trainer!
Q. hey guys, well i got a question i go to a GYM near my house and we are all pretty friendly with each other, i got a personal trainer who is the cutest and sweetest guy ive seen in a longgg time. It was our first session and instead of it being an ...
A. 14 November 2008: Just be aware that Gyms tend to hire hot trainers because it means women will keep coming back.
If they hired ugly men who shouted at you and made you do work, you wouldn't go back there.
It's his job to be charming and attractive.
G... (read in full...)
Where are all the decent men who don't lie? Do they exist?
Q. Where are all the decent men who don't lie? Do they exist? If they do where would they be or how do I find them?...
A. 14 November 2008: They have a club that they meet in once a month.
The location is secret though.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Should I give up or try harder?
Q. It's about a relationship advice... Hello, call me StuPiD.CuPiD. Here's the thing, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years now, I really love him, and he does too... Only that his parents are actually forbidding him from seeing anybody since he...
A. 13 November 2008: Why not talk to his parents and find out why they would not consider you as a daughter?
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
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