Why do guys act so childish, disrespectful?
Q. Ok this may seem messed up, but my whole life consists on that. I caught a girl checking out my guy. He gets so mad like red in the face throwing things and so on if a guy looks at me. But yet i let the b!tch know what i thought of her, and he told ...
A. 28 December 2008: Sounds like you are going out with a loser.
Dump him and find a real guy who is not a psycho.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
In love with a moonie
Q. I am madly in love with a member of a cult. She admits to loving me but she fears god... I need help. It hurts to see her do this to herself... i just found this out and I'm on the verge of tears........ ...
A. 28 December 2008: You don't give many details so it's hard to help.
Does she want to leave the Moonies? Or is that her religious choice?
Talk to her and find out what she wants in life. Then if she wants help to get out then do research online to see what help... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sleeps with other women when he gets drunk!
Q. Hi, I need some advice, so anyone who could be of any help - i'd really appreciate it! I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year - on and off. But we grew up together. anyways, during our off times, he goes to parties - gets drunk - and ...
A. 28 December 2008: So you are staying with a guy who treats you like crap, cheats on you and risks giving you disease and has absolutely no respect for you?
And you are doing this because your other friends don't have enough time for you and you've just lost you... (read in full...)
When is the safest time of the month?
Q. It will be my girlfriend's first time (not mine) and we don't want to use a condom to make it special. When would be the safest time of the month for us to do this (and I ejaculate inside her). I know no time is 100% safe but I know that it's much ...
A. 28 December 2008: You want to make it "special"??
Sorry but that is crap. There is no way she is going to be able to relax and enjoy it knowing that this 3 minutes could ruin her life forever.
Get over yourself and use a condom.
If you are really desperate... (read in full...)
Nasty texts! How can I find out who is sending them?
Q. recently, a few of my friends have been recieving anonymous text messages from somebody which have not been very nice. we know the person sending this knows us, as references are made to personal things, but the person seems to be using an anonymous ...
A. 28 December 2008: Well if it's someone you know then just talk openly how some psycho is stalking you all and probably just fancies you.
Laugh about it and talk about how you're just laughing at the texts because anyone who does that is just so sad that it's fun... (read in full...)
He is a Flirt: how to make him stop?!
Q. I am concerned with my boyfriends flirting. I have never questioned him until now (6 months into the relationship). I recieved a forward from HIS myspace to a girl. And was one line that made me happy and several that just had me heart broken. ...
A. 28 December 2008: Was he like this when you tarted dating him?
If he was then it may just be what he is like and you can't change him.
I think you can tell him that you are not happy he's telling other girls that he still has feelings for them.
Tell hi... (read in full...)
Was my conversation with this married friend wrong? It felt weird!?
Q. I called my long distance friend yesterday for christmas, we talked about what we did and well we are friends but he's married to someone I don't know if knows about me communicating with him. It's that sometimes he makes me feel like he wants to ...
A. 27 December 2008: If it feels wrong then it usually is.
We girls tend to have a sense for what kind of atmosphere there is and you were picking up a "more than friends" vibe.
This might have just been a one off moment so for now I wouldn't do anything differe... (read in full...)
I don't want my family to be torn apart, any suggestions?
Q. Im a 16 year old girl and i live with my two brothers, my mom, and my stepdad. My parents got divorced when i was younger, i dont really mind it except for the fact that my dad has never been there for me. My mom got remmaried when i was 7. I ...
A. 27 December 2008: Your mum needs medical help if she is not only suicidal but openly telling her young daughter about it.
Get her to see a doctor.
She needs more help than we can give her here.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Was my dream just in my head or a premonition of things to come?
Q. I had a dream two nights ago and since then, it's bothered me all Christmas Day; it still does. I was in a dream where my crush, myself, and a couple of friends were all at this University I was not familiar with, like we had all transferred ther...
A. 27 December 2008: It was a dream. The boy who came onto her during the photo probably just represented the fact that she is going to be taken away from you by life / uni / someone else.
You can't take dreams too seriously.
If you like her then ask her out. If ... (read in full...)
Confused about his actions
Q. There's this guy i really like and he is always acting weird when my sisters friend is around and its just really annoying when he hardly talks to me when this guy is around he says he loves me and he wants to be with me but still its just lik eerrr ...
A. 27 December 2008: Is this your big sister's friend?
If this boy is older then your boy will probably be trying to act cool and macho around him.
Yes that is sad but that is what boys your age do.
When he does it just move away and let them hang out for a whil... (read in full...)
I want a relationship with him!
Q. What do i do.? There is this boy that i really like and i love no matter what he has done, he used to really like me and we went away together with the school and it brought us closer together and i was sooo happy just been able to spend time with ...
A. 27 December 2008: Well you don't tell us what your actual problem was with him so it's hard to say.
Forgive him and go out with him if he deserves it, stay angry and move on if he doesn't.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he contact me?
Q. What have i done wrong, my ex bf and i talk on the phone everyday, i saw him yesterday and he said ill speak to u later which we did last ntie, anyway this morning i texted him asking for him 2 prank me when he could this was at 10.30 and ive still ...
A. 27 December 2008: Oh my god, he hasn't spoken to you for what? 6 hours?
Are you 10?
He's being a parent, at Christmas.
You (his EX girlfriend) are not his top priority.
Go and spend time with your friends and stop obsessing over your ex.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He hasn't contacted me in 2 days
Q. Maybe I'm trippen but me and my boyfriend have been datinq for three months and talked on the fone EVERY SINGLE DAY. we may not talk all day but he always calls me at niqht maybe 9 or 10. but he hasn't called me in two days. I mean- idk if I'm ...
A. 27 December 2008: Have you checked the local hospitals?
It's Christmas, there is a good chance he is busy and you haven't exactly called him.
Chill out and stop being so clingy.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is he hiding his true identity or is he a jerk?
Q. can a guy who does computers be bad boy this is example of the behavior: Cute,tall,sporty,competitve,cheeky,forward,spiteful, overconfident,full of the themselves , always ogling girls, lots of girlfriends, boosting about his newest conquest ...
A. 26 December 2008: You say he's spiteful and he brags about what he's done with other girls.... then you ask if we think he's a nice guy?
What exactly is your question?
It seems to be "There is a not very nice man. Please agree with me that he is not very nice." ... (read in full...)
No sex! My boyfriend says "All you ever do is think about sex!" when I try to bring it up
Q. I have been with my bf a year and 4 months we used to have sex very often but now theres nothing what so ever we love each other to bits and he is very good to me but he does not have sex with me. If i say something to him he just says "All you ...
A. 26 December 2008: He's making you out to be a pervert to get out of it.
You have to keep pushing him. If he says "all you think about is sex" then point out that you haven't had it in X weeks and that unless he talks to you about it then you are going to assume h... (read in full...)
Ex is confusing the hell out of me, what do I do?
Q. So a few months ago my first real love broke up with me. I was so heart broken. We try to be mature about it and be friends. Well that doesn't work. I guess we are so sexually attracted to each other that every time we try to hang out, we end up ...
A. 26 December 2008: So he's using you as a bit on the side while still keeping his girlfriend around.
He has absolutely no respect for you and every time you fool around with him he thinks of you in a slightly worse way.
Cut contact. Stop hanging out.
Tell him... (read in full...)
My husband is abusive, drinking..should I divorce?
Q. I was in an 8 year relationship that ended up abruptly because I wanted a future with him and he was unsure of what he wanted and didn't find it fair to me so he ended our relationship. I was heart broken, shocked and devastated because I ...
A. 26 December 2008: If you knew him and knew that he had a better side and there had been happy times then I would tell you to stick it out and physically take him for counselling.
But to be honest I think this is who he is and it's just a shame that you actually... (read in full...)
Is he silently pushing me away??????????
Q. My bf of 4yrs was offended by me talking about our future. I want to marry him, and I told him. Ever since then we went 8 days with no contact or talking. Then I finally cracked and called him. He is very distant on the phone with me. I did ask ...
A. 26 December 2008: There is a case that he is just being masculine and not talking about his feelings and being scared of commitment etc etc etc.
But you have to reach a point where you tell him to get some balls and talk about things or he is going to lose you.
... (read in full...)
Ex boyfriends, handjobs info
Q. Hey I am a fifteen year old girl and I really need help. So my ex can't seem to let go of me. He has a girlfriend but when he gets bored with her he tries to hook up with me. He tells me how much he misses me, but he stays with his girlfriend. I ...
A. 26 December 2008: Oh he must really think a lot of you that he comes to you for cheap sexual stuff.
I'd take it as a huge insult that he thinks you are a slut, and tell him to go and die under a rock.
As for the hand job thing you just have to keep breathing a... (read in full...)
Swingin' bachelor dating a single Mom - I'm not a family man, can this work?
Q. So, I've found the almost perfect woman and we've been dating a year now. She's the best g/f I've ever had. I always had a rule against dating single moms, but when I met her, I chose to break that rule and now I'm in love w/ her, but I can not ...
A. 26 December 2008: I'm sorry mate but she and the kids come as a package.
If you want a relationship with her then you have to have a relationship with the kids as well.
If you can't handle that then it is sad but you just have to tell her that you can't be the... (read in full...)
Am I married to the most selfish man alive?
Q. Is it just me or is the man I'm married to really selfish? We've been married for almost 2 years and together for 3 years. Last year for Christmas I spent $2000 on him. He bought me $100 worth of junk that to this day I don't use. For his ...
A. 26 December 2008: You can't make yourself out to be a martyr because you chose to spend far more money on him.
No one is forcing you to keep going to all this effort when he doesn't.
Yes the fact he doesn't put effort in is bad. It's not really an excuse to say... (read in full...)
What could be the possible date of conception?
Q. hi everyone i just want to ask, i think my partner is cheating on me, i need to know this.. my partner is due to give birth on 16th dec, can u tell me the date of conception, roughly?...
A. 26 December 2008: I wouldn't torture yourself by trying to guestimate which few days conception took place on. As far as I can tell it is not an exact science, and don't forget that you conceive up to 3 days after you have sex.
Just tell her you suspect her and ... (read in full...)
Did he pop my cherry? Or am I still a virgin... please reply!!
Q. okay so last night (christmas) i went over my bestfriends house...(its a boy) and we were kissing.....so it led to touching then it led to clothes coming off...next thing i know he's on top of me....i'm still a virgin (i think) so when he puts it in ...
A. 26 December 2008: If he put his penis in your vagina then you are no longer a virgin.
From the sounds of it, you two were having sex. Even if you didn't get very far with it, you had sex.
You are no longer technically a virgin. I hope you used a condom.
Sorry... (read in full...)
Was the other guy a rebound guy for her?
Q. Don't really know what to do here. A girl and I had been getting close for 2 months but were never official. She had slept with the same guy 5 different times during the 2 months and finally got caught. She came to me crying saying that she ...
A. 26 December 2008: Well if she was single when she slept with the other guy then it's not really a problem.
If you are saying that she cheated on you then I personally would not forgive her, but some people can.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get someone new that fast?
Q. can some good looking/cute looking guys get any girl they want as a girlfriend? I know one guy he broke up with his 1st girlfriend and found a 2nd new girlfriend a month later! His friend is a bad boy i used like but rejected because I wasn't ...
A. 26 December 2008: If he's single and going out and meeting people and talking to them then he could meet someone within an hour of breaking up.
Whether he is ready to date or over his feelings for the ex is an entirely different question.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Does her reaction mean I can talk to her later?
Q. Hey Guys, I had posted a question on this forum earlier on the confusion i was having with the signs i was getting from this girl i have never met and known and have only seen from a distance for the last few months.On that situation i got a strong...
A. 26 December 2008: Well she probably was interested and then you went up to her and you mumbled and it got awkward and she said she was busy to break the silence and get rid of you.
Next time you talk to her, have something to say.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I am 38, she is 19 and my daughter's football coach! Is this age gap too big?
Q. Hi, I am 38 years old male, I have 2 girls, 11 and 8. I have 80% custody of my girls. About 8 months ago, my older daughter's soccer coach , hurt herself while playing soccer, she is 19 years old. I am a physical therapy doctor. She didn't have ...
A. 26 December 2008: Well you could go out with her but you would be asking a lot. I mean you would basically be asking her to take on a family.
You would want a lot more of a stable grounded relationship while she would want to go out and have fun.
You would be ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my friend's LDR with a girl he's just met on a dating site!
Q. One of my best friends, has joined a dating website, hes meet this girl throught it they been going out for about 2 weeks she was the one who clicked on him, and they exchanged numbers, by that evening she had asked him out and he said yes, she ...
A. 26 December 2008: From the sounds of it this will not work out but really it's just as likely that the Irish girl will get hurt as your friend.
He's just as likely to cheat on her with his ex as she is with him.
Just keep telling him to keep it a little casual ... (read in full...)
I like the man in the relationship to take control. How do I get him to kiss ME?
Q. I've been going out with a guy that I really like for three months. This is extremely pathetic, but he still hasn't kissed me yet... well, just a quick peck on the cheek... I'm worried. People have told me to make the first move. That will probably ...
A. 26 December 2008: I think you've got some pretty good advice so far.
You just have to get really close to him and look at him in that way... you know the way I mean and if he still doesn't make a move on you then I think you can be rightly a little annoyed.... (read in full...)
What can I do about feeling like the wicked stepmom?
Q. I have been married for almost 8 years. After we had been married for about 2 years, I found out I was pregnant. Late into my pregnancy, my husband found out he had a 4 year old son through a short-term relationship. The child had a lot of ...
A. 25 December 2008: You say he is on medication. Is this for a specific condition like autism? Or are they just trying to dope him up to make him better behaved.
It sounds like he does not know cause and effect because he's never experienced it. He's not getting ... (read in full...)
Happy Holidays
Q. Happy Holidays and Merry/Happy Christmas for all of you out there who asking for or willing to give help. Thank you for all of your advice!...
A. 25 December 2008: This is not a question.
This goes in the forum.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Do guys care for their appearance when they go clubbing?
Q. Do guys care for their appearance when they go clubbing? Like hairsyling, aftershave, coglone, deodorant, mositures, do they care how look clubbing or do they make any effort at all because I don't see why girls have to make all the effort and guys ...
A. 25 December 2008: Some guys spend hours and some spend none.
If you don't like putting in so much effort then stop it. I can spend 3 hours getting ready or I can spend 10 minutes and still have a great time.
It's about how you feel rather than if your nails an... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend's behaviour normal?
Q. I’ve never really been in a relationship before so this is all new to me. Well I was wondering if my boyfriends’ behavior is normal. We barely talk on the phone because I’m not really a phone person, I’d rather chat online or in person. Well when...
A. 25 December 2008: Yep, sounds pretty normal to me.
Guys are pretty shy about getting all fuzzy in front of their mates.
In person he can put his hand on your bum or they know he is getting kisses and more. When online it just makes him look silly.
Leave ... (read in full...)
How can I convince him to give me my files back without putting myself at risk emotionally?
Q. My ex of 5 months has all my computer files on his external hard drive. My computer was about to crash so we put it on there for safe keeping months before we broke up. Well I kept asking him to find a way of giving them to me beforehand and like a ...
A. 25 December 2008: I know it sounds dramatic, that's the point, it will make him kick his arse into action rather than going "yeah yeah yeah, she doesn't need them now, I'll get round to it one day and faff about online trying to find some way of doing it for months ... (read in full...)
Do I have a foot parasite?
Q. Could this be a sign that I have a parasite in my body? Last night while I was taking a shower, I felt a pain on the side of my right feet. After I got out of the shower and started walking the pain was still there. When I started to sit down or get ...
A. 25 December 2008: this is very difficult to answer, firstly if you are very worried, go to your family doctor. If you can't get there or are too embarrassed, please tell me about the symptoms: is there any change in colour in your foot, any unusual markings etc? what ... (read in full...)
Can you get AIDS from kissing?
Q. i kissed my ex girlfriend for the first time . i am kinda very deeply stressed after that. i know i am being a phycho asking this but will this cause me AIDS ? i trust her completely but still she is a stranger for me afteral and i cant be sure of ...
A. 25 December 2008: You do not have aids. You cannot get it from kissing.
Go and put STD or sex education into google and get some sex education if you do not understand the basics.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is it right to date a divorced man?
Q. i am a very christian woman, i am secretly in love with a divorced man who is my friend, he told me he loves me but then my thoughs are telling me that its not right to date a divorced man,thuswhy i have to tell him that it is not possible, but then ...
A. 25 December 2008: It depends what kind of Christian you are.
If you are the kind who gets really upset about all the rules in the old testament being broken the it could be a problem.
If you are the kind who follows Jesus who said to forgive mistakes, chill ... (read in full...)
I want to be with him but I'm not sure I want to marry him... yet!
Q. hey guys reallly need help now... im 20 years old and my boyfriend is 23 which is really not to bad however we have been together offically 6 months but i think hes getting a bit to ahead of himself... he introduced me to his parents and i spent ...
A. 25 December 2008: Well just keep telling him about how much you love him but how you really want to be at LEAST 25 before you get engaged.
Talk about how you want a HUGE engagement ring and not one of the crappy specks of glass that people your age buy for eachothe... (read in full...)
How can I convince him to give me my files back without putting myself at risk emotionally?
Q. My ex of 5 months has all my computer files on his external hard drive. My computer was about to crash so we put it on there for safe keeping months before we broke up. Well I kept asking him to find a way of giving them to me beforehand and like a ...
A. 25 December 2008: Then email him and tell him to post it to you or you will take him to small claims court. Tell him you'll post it back as soon as you have taken all your files off.
I think you are making a big deal of this and I know how ex's can affect you but ... (read in full...)
Who do I choose? I'm married but I have feelings for a coworker.
Q. I have been with my husband for 12 years and married for 3 of them. Recently, someone at work has fallen for me in a big way and I feel the same. I know it's wrong but we have kissed. We have always been good friends and he is the sweetest guy, he ...
A. 25 December 2008: Well as you say, you don;t have kids which makes things a lot simpler.
It's very tempting to get close to someone who has a crush on you, just because those feelings of being wanted and desired are like a drug.
But don't confuse that ego... (read in full...)
What to do to make him last longer in bed?
Q. My boyfriend doesn't last very long when we have sex, a few minutes max! and it's over so quick i don't get anything from it. We are still in the early stages of the relationship and i was wondering if there was anything i could do to make him last ...
A. 25 December 2008: Wear thicker condoms, get ones with numbing agents or use 2 at a time.
Other than that make sure you get foreplay that leaves you satisfied so sex is just a bonus.
I find that the first time you have sex with a guy is always pretty quick but... (read in full...)
How can I convince him to give me my files back without putting myself at risk emotionally?
Q. My ex of 5 months has all my computer files on his external hard drive. My computer was about to crash so we put it on there for safe keeping months before we broke up. Well I kept asking him to find a way of giving them to me beforehand and like a ...
A. 24 December 2008: Get a friend to go round to his place and borrow the external hard drive.
They can bring it round to yours and you can copy your files across to your new computer.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
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