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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Me and my girlfriend's sex life has gotten strange lately.We used to have sex like twice a day for the past few weeks and then accidentally while we were having sexing my finger rubbed past her anus while I was grabbing her butt, and she freaked out and said that it's a major turn off and we didn't finish that night. I apologized and she said don't worry about it and nothing changed between us, but since then (3 days ago), we havent had sex yet and I think I screwed up our sex life, what should I do?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (23 November 2008):
 This should be no problem - let reasonable time pass and be more careful next time. Apologize if necessary, but continue to maintain it was accidental if true. Some of both genders are a bit sensitive about our rectal areas in youth, but many also become more receptive about some activities down there as time passes.
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female
reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 November 2008):
Go and kiss her and tell her you love her. Keep your hands on her waist and back and not near her bum.
Then make a move on her later but keep your hands on her top half as soon as the foreplay finishes.
Make her feel safe with you and that you are not after anything anal.
I personally feel that talking about this is going to be very awkward so actions may be better than words.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008): Talk to her and reassure her it was an accident and you'd never try and get her doing anything she didn't like.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008): 3 days isn't worth worrying about it. Just talk to her about your concerns and take it from there. I think you're over reacting, good luck dude!
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