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writes:So I've had feelings for this girl for quite a while. Recently, she's told me that she has strong feelings for me as well, but doesn't know what they are. After she told how she felt, I told her the way I felt about her. I talked a couple of times afterward, but now she says that she is confused.Is there something I can do? I seriously don't know where to go from here. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 November 2008):
Be there as a friend for a few weeks and keep being romantic and flirting.
If she still can't make her mind up after a couple of weeks then stop seeing her for a while so you can start to get over her.
She might realise what she has once it's gone so you can't hang around forever or she'll just see you as a friend.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Asked Angel +, writes (21 November 2008):
 Sorry but i don't think there is much you can do. You have told her how you feel and been honest. I think you should give her time and be there for her. Please don't push her. Given time she may recoginise that her feelings for you are such that she want's to be in a relationship.I think given time it will all work out.Good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008): Continue to see her as a friend and make it clear you are not going to try and push anything. Tell her she doesn't have to have it all worked out.
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reader, tbone79 +, writes (21 November 2008):
The best thing to do is to be patient. If this is meant to be it will happen in the right time. The worse thing you can do is to pressure her into a relationship, but dont let her play with your emotions either. If this happens let her know that she is sending mixed signals and you dont want to be hurt.
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