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writes:Dear Cupid - I'm in this wonderful relationship with my boyfriend (I'm a virgin, he's not, but it's not a problem for either of us). Although we're not having sex yet we often do things like dry humping, fingering me etc.And I just heard about this 'blue balls' thing!? Does that mean that whenever we 'do stuff', he HAS to come or it will be painful for him later? :SHow do we get around this (without the obvious)?Thanks
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reader, ryandude18 +, writes (21 November 2008):
 Well damn this "blue balls" thing sounds crappy, i hope it doesnt happen to me.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (21 November 2008):
 "Blue balls" or "stone aches" really only happened to me once, long ago, and that was enough. I make certain to never let it occur again. The ladies basically have it right - if a guy is aroused almost to the point of ejaculation, but for some reason does not finish, it can be almost as painful as being kicked in the scrotum. I don't know if it happens to all guys, or if as painful, but as I said, once was enough for me.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (21 November 2008):
 Amen, Fade!!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 November 2008):
Yeah, qcumbr is right - it basically happens because his balls swell up with sperm ready for it to be shooting out and then when it doesn't go anywhere it makes them ache.
You might want to introduce hand jobs to your boyfriend... or just give him a little bit of time to himself in the shower to give himself a bit of relief.
It won't do him any harm but it's not nice.
It's exactly the same as when women give up breast feeding and their breasts get all swollen with milk.
Good Luck!! xx
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