Am I making myself sick fearing pregnancy? Should I have started spotting by now?
Q. Okay, to start off i'm 16 and EXTREMELY paranoid. i tend to over-think, over analyze, and worry way too much. I recently became sexually active with my boyfriend and the other night while we were having sex (December 27th, 2008) the condom popped. ...
A. 1 January 2009: The morning after pill is basically a huge bundle of hormones that goes through your body destroying your natural processes and stopping anything down there from working normally.
This means that it is entirely normal for your periods to be affec... (read in full...)
He says I ruined his New Year and now I feel so guilty and don't know how to make it up.
Q. I've been seeing this guy for 2 months and after a month of being together he asked me to spend New Year with him. The plan was to get ready together, go to his best friend's gathering (there were about 6 of his best friends there) then go to a ...
A. 1 January 2009: Oh dear. You really messed up there.
You need to promise that you will never drink so much again. It's not healthy and as you have discovered, it's just not a good idea.
Why not take him out on a majorly fun night out next weekend. Go to a... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend's girlfriend and don't know what to do.
Q. I am in love with my best friends girlfriend and don't know what to do. They have been dating for 4 months. I want to confront her but it may get round and affect my friendship with my best friend what should I do?...
A. 1 January 2009: I know you want to tell her you love her etc, but think about it. It'd make you feel better for about 5 seconds before the crap started and you lost both of them.
Keep it to yourself and try to spend a little less time around her.
See your mate... (read in full...)
My fiance wants a civil partnership and I don't!
Q. I'm 25 and my fiance's 26. We've been engaged for a year now, and everything in our life is pretty much good - we're well-liked, in good jobs and earning a decent amount to live on. We've had arguments like any couple have, and they've resolved...
A. 1 January 2009: Ask him why he doesn't want a wedding.
Get him to talk about it. Is it the expense? Is it a religious thing?
Civil partnerships were invented so that two people could bind themselves and their assets together legally.
If that is all he wan... (read in full...)
Exercising the hard way!
Q. What would happen if I only eat one mango every day and nothing else and exercised 3 hours on my treadmill at 6.5 km per hour? I want to lose weight and I've tried doing it the healthy way but it never works!x...
A. 1 January 2009: You'll faint and smash your face open on your treadmill.
The healthy way does work, you're just not doing it right.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if he likes me beyond sex
Q. I have been seeing my next door neighbour for nearly six months now. He stays at mine most nights, and we sometimes have sex however her never kisses me and he really isn't intimate at all outside of the bedroom. Its almost like he doesn't find me ...
A. 31 December 2008: So he's getting free sex, on tap, with no questions asked and no relationship or anything else that he has to deal with?
He's onto a winner there!!
Of course he wants to be your friend. He's going to be just nice enough that you'll let him h... (read in full...)
My guy had incident 3 years ago now worried he's infertile but won't go to the doc!
Q. I have a 24 year old Boyfriend who is forever worried that he is infertile because he was assaulted and hit in the testicles 3 years back. He somehow believes his balls got "crushed" during the whole thing, Apparently one guy took his balls in his ...
A. 31 December 2008: There is a small chance that damage has been done. But there is also just as much chance that he is fine and will have no problem having kids.
Use condoms at all times just in case.
As long as you are protected then it won't really be a prob... (read in full...)
We had sex - did the sperm stay in there?
Q. After me and my girlfrfind had sex we ate dinner we laughed we pretended like nothing had happened because my mom was there. She told me she felt something squirting out of her vegina...so is it possible that the sperm that was in her might of came ...
A. 31 December 2008: Vaginas don't EAT the sperm, you put it in there, it's got to come out. It's not pleasant and it smells.
Yet more reason for you to use condoms.
Since you don't understand sex you really shouldn't be having it. It's a huge risk.
Good Lu... (read in full...)
Have a baby with my guy or wait for someone better?
Q. Just a quickie Im 36 and in a relationship that I'm very unsure of. My boyfriend of 2 yrs can be sulky and childish and is never wrong. He wants us to have a child and I really want to start a family more than anything. He wont ever change an...
A. 30 December 2008: If he's sulky and childish now, can you imagine him after you haven't slept for a couple of days and the baby is crying AGAIN at 4am?
I know you can hear the biological clock ticking but that is no reason to bind yourself to this guy for life thr... (read in full...)
Shes chasing me but she has a boyfriend and I feel guilty!
Q. Well im in a bit of a predicament you see, It all started about 2 weeks ago at a friends party where i started speaking to a friends friend and we swapped phone numbers and began texting (well she texts me everyday) but i found out she has a ...
A. 30 December 2008: Right you have to get a little bit stronger and deal with this rather than just letting her molest / get a quick ego boost from you.
Tell her that you want to be with her and you want her to either split up with her boyfriend or to stop messing ... (read in full...)
I think I messed up my relationship!
Q. I constantly had a fight with my boyfriend recently and I was so mad at him yesterday that I texted him that we should end the relationship if things don't go accordingly. I didn't mean to do so seriously; I was just mad at him at that time and bl...
A. 30 December 2008: Well you told him that you shouldn't talk by text and only in person and now you are worried because he's not texting you?
Ring him and arrange to meet tomorrow and talk about it.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My Dad's behavior is way over the top!
Q. My dad's been embarrassing me, and not in the "Dad dancing at a wedding kind of way". At a close friend of mine's engagement party (she's 25, he's 28), he stripped to his Y-fronts and began dancing to the music manically. Everyone looked on in hor...
A. 30 December 2008: I think you should just make a point that he is not invited to any more events. Your mum can come along but he is not allowed.
He might get the message that he has to behave if it's made clear that he's not welcome after doing things like that.
... (read in full...)
When I'm drunk I get violent
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we live together and we're very happy, but when i go out and get drunk i am violent towards him. I dont know why, im not at all like that when soba and there is nothing wrong with us. He has stuck by me and ...
A. 30 December 2008: I know a guy who gets in fights when he's drunk so he doesn't drink.
It's just as easy to have fun while sober.
Give it a try not drinking. You'll be amazed how easy it is?
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Girls!! Why do you like the "landing strip" so much?
Q. Soooooooooooooooo question to all girl, i wasnt wearing a shirt and my girlfriend saw the hair going from my belly button to i guess the lower part of my stomach i guess some people call it a landing strip or many other names. My girlfriend like ...
A. 30 December 2008: Why do you like boobs so much?
They are just there doing nothing but getting in the way, but you go mental over them.
It's the same thing.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Taking pill, maybe I'm becoming anemic now?
Q. Hi!I'm completely new to this website, but I was wondering if someone could help set my mind at ease. I've recently started taking the pill, and I have been sure to take it everyday at the same time, and as instructed started to take it on the first ...
A. 30 December 2008: Going on the pill will cause havoc with your periods. Some, your body will just not like.
I've heard the progesterone ones (the ones you take every day without a break) can cause perma-periods.
Give it a couple of months to settle down and ... (read in full...)
14 and worried about getting pregnant!
Q. hey im 14 and i have a 17 year old boyfriend and i want to have sex with him he says he is ready when i am as long as its not years and years he said , now im fine with that im just worried of getting pregnant its so scary on tv i dont want it im ...
A. 30 December 2008: We've all be through this already hun.
If you don't want to get pregnant then your safest bet is not to have sex. There is plenty of other stuff you can do with your boyfriend.
If you do decide to take that step then make sure you ALWAYS use c... (read in full...)
Teen stuck at home, how to cope till college?
Q. I think I feel stuck or something. I'm 17 years old and I'm a junior in high school. Everything seems to be getting so old... My friends, how my days go, school, being a junior... I'm just sick of it all. I stay home all the time because the kind...
A. 30 December 2008: Use all that energy. College is your best bet of escape to a new life so work out which college you want to go to and do everything you can to get there.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How do I save our marriage?
Q. I don't know what to do from this point. My husband doesn't have any affection toward me, and he won't touch me. He has ED. For non- medical reason. I don't know what is the reason for his ED. He says he loves me. Should I believe him? He says he ...
A. 30 December 2008: Tell him you want to talk about it once and then you promise to never bring it up again.
Then when you talk about it discuss your options. Do you want to stay in this marriage? Would he be ok with you taking a lover? Would he try viagra?
Have... (read in full...)
Will my ex husband's behavior damage my son?
Q. Hello I hope you can help me with my problem. I am divorced and live with my 3 daughters and son who is the youngest. Last week at school there was a slight accident with my son. The headmistress had advised the other female teachers to take...
A. 30 December 2008: Wow this is a Daily Mail article waiting to happen!
I think your son is going to learn some big lessons from this but I don't think he'll be damaged by them.
Keep him up to date on when his dad's trials are, and use it to show your kids that b... (read in full...)
Should I stay with a money leech?
Q. my question is why does my boyfriend keep asking me for money? he says he needs help paying rent. hes got a job i think? not unless hes been kicked out of work and not bothered to tell me? sometimes its £100 or £300. i told him all this money ...
A. 30 December 2008: I doubt he's ever going to give you the cash back and he's going to keep asking so next time he does it just dump him.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How can I tell if an off-limits woman is in denial, or blatantly does not fancy me?
Q. Good afternoon! I was just wondering how to tell the difference between a woman trying hard not to show that she fancies a chap (since she may already be in a relationship/bequeathed to someone else for example), and a woman who blatantly just does ...
A. 30 December 2008: Eddie's got the right idea here I think.
If she just likes you as a mate, or she does fancy you a bit but is with someone else the result is the same. Nothing is going to happen.
Be her friend. If anything does happen then you can always try t... (read in full...)
Does the pill actually allow you to have a period or does it have a fake period?
Q. I haven't had my period yet but I'm due in a couple of days and I was wondering. I'm on the pill and I was wondering does the pill actually allow you to have a period or does it have a fake period. I've heard rumours that it isn't your real period ...
A. 30 December 2008: If you are on the pill then you'll have all kinds of crazy symptoms for the first few months till your body gets used to it.
Hormones are pretty powerful things and you are swallowing a lot of them every day.
As for the real period vs fake p... (read in full...)
I'm not ready to talk sex yet!
Q. I am 23 and have just started University. On my course and around University campus, I have met a few guys who seem friendly. We became friends and I decided to hang out with them but they seem to only want to be in contact with me because they ...
A. 30 December 2008: You are in contact with a large number of guys at uni and so a large number who are attracted to you are going to come up and chat to you and try and be your friend because they want to be with you sexually.
However if you give it some time the... (read in full...)
We can't live without eachother!
Q. hello, i have been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now and we are very deeply in love, if we could be together all the time there would be no frustration no fights nothing (there hardly is anyway). i am 19 and she is almost 17 it is legal ...
A. 30 December 2008: If even the mere act of not being in the same room causes you to argue then your relationship is very weak.
If you aren't strong enough to spend time apart then you won't be strong enough to survive any real problems.
Use this time to grow up ... (read in full...)
He is not interested in me anymore, why is this??
Q. My boyfriend has no interest in sex anymore. It's been within the past year. He always had trouble keeping his hands off me, and now theres is nothing. We have sex about once every 1-2 months. I remember me telling him to cool it down cause i was ...
A. 30 December 2008: This sounds like my first boyfriend. He just seemed to go off me and only wanted sex when he wanted sex, never because he wanted me.
He used to tell me I shouldn't try to be sexy as that wasn't who I was.
If he doesn't see you as sexy any more... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my difficult friend?
Q. Okay, so I have this problem with a friend. He's perfectly nice when sober if a bit oblivious to the way he behaves. But he's a hard drinker and when he drinks he acts in a strange way. we're both gay and when we go to gay clubs, he is only really ...
A. 30 December 2008: To be a good friend to someone you have to be brutally honest sometimes.
I have a friend who used to be HORRIBLE to everyone when drunk, start fights with his male friends and come on to his female friends. In the end a few of us told us that we ... (read in full...)
His parents don't like us dating...
Q. I am in love with this boy that I been knowing since high school. it took me some time to finally notice him because I was in a relationship with someone else. now that I'm available I really feeling him and I know he loves me too. we've been in a ...
A. 30 December 2008: Why don't they like you dating? You are 18.
Ask them why they don't want you to have a boyfriend, and introduce this boy to them.
You say you were in a relationship already... so why is this different? Why were you happy to go against your par... (read in full...)
He is not interested in me anymore, why is this??
Q. My boyfriend has no interest in sex anymore. It's been within the past year. He always had trouble keeping his hands off me, and now theres is nothing. We have sex about once every 1-2 months. I remember me telling him to cool it down cause i was ...
A. 30 December 2008: This happens in lots of relationships so don't feels it's something personal that you are doing wrong.
What does he do when you make a move on him in sexy clothing? When you give him an unexpected snog how does he react?
Does he just seem to ... (read in full...)
Can someone give me an idea how to tell my parents I'm moving out?
Q. So im 17 and a senior in high school. im plannin on moving out when i turn 18 in the middle of the summer. im not sure if my parents are against this...i know they dont want me to but idk if theyll go to the extremes about it. Can someone give me an ...
A. 30 December 2008: Well tell them that you have a good job and you are moving closer to that.
If you don't have that then get it sorted.
Most people move out when they have something to move out to...
As long as it's logical for you to move out then they shoul... (read in full...)
If a guy is taken and plays seven minutes in heaven with another girl, is he cheating?
Q. If a guy is taken and plays seven minutes in heaven with another girl, is he cheating?...
A. 30 December 2008: From my vast knowledge of teen movies from America I am guessing that he got locked in a cupboard with some girl.
It's only cheating if he did something with the girl.
If they stood there and discussed classical music then it doesn't count as... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm not much of a woman....
Q. I am 42 yrs old and with a man that i dont seem to be able to turn on unless he is drinking .Then it is not good because as soon as he cums its all over the foreplay is gone and the holding is gone and I am very depressed because of the cituation ...
A. 30 December 2008: Sweetheart, if your man can't get in the mood with out drink and then he has no interest in pleasing you, just himself then that is not your fault in any way.
Your only mistake is that you've just picked yourself a selfish guy who's bad in bed. ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm the one leading the realtionship all the time...
Q. How can i get my boyfriend to be more assertive? we just started dating, but i feel like im the one leading the relationship, which im not against but i just dont want to be ALL the time. what can i do about this?...
A. 30 December 2008: Unfortunately, some guys are just looking for a mother substitute. Someone who can tell them what to do and look after them. They look cute at you because that is what has always worked before.
Tell him to man up as you don't want to be his moth... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my difficult friend?
Q. Okay, so I have this problem with a friend. He's perfectly nice when sober if a bit oblivious to the way he behaves. But he's a hard drinker and when he drinks he acts in a strange way. we're both gay and when we go to gay clubs, he is only really ...
A. 30 December 2008: I think you have to just tell him straight that you don't like him when he is drunk.
Then when he starts behaving like this then just leave early. Or take more friends with you so you can hang out with them and ignore him.
Once he realises that... (read in full...)
Can a relationship survive if the girl can't spend the night?
Q. Help! I'm 27 years old living under my parents roof. I was raised strictly.. parents always say 'Let a man show you respect.' They would just flip if I were to call them and say.. 'I'm sleeping over so and so's house.' The guys that I've dated ...
A. 29 December 2008: It does put a bit of a dampener on things.
You can never have a bottle of wine together and relax because someone has to drive you home or call a taxi.
What's stopping you moving out?
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Am I stupid to keep giving him money I don't have?
Q. Hi, I am a 47 year old man who has just met a 25 year old man on a sex web site. The problem is I have just admitted to him that I am gay and no one else knows apart from him. He is also gay and a very understanding man. He is a student in another ...
A. 29 December 2008: Hey, you can pay me to talk to you about your sexuality.
How much are you giving him, I'll do it for 25% less.
The internet is a competitive market. If you are going to get taken advantage of and give your cash to someone who's probably laughin... (read in full...)
Whenever we're socialising my girlfriend always takes photos of other guys' legs and it's started worrying me!
Q. I'm Steve, 23 years old from South Yorkshire and my girlfriend is 22 and lives in nearby Nottinghamshire. Whenever we're socialising she always takes photos of other guys' legs and it's started worrying me - not in a jealous way, but rather about...
A. 29 December 2008: If this was a man taking pictures of women's legs then the police would have been called by now.
I agree with you that this is a serious problem, and you need to get it across that it's not acceptable behaviour. Especially as she is risking ... (read in full...)
Gay guy is touching my privates
Q. i have a male friend i like him a lot,he just touch my body and touch my private parts and sit on my private parts i dont know what to do,is he a gay answer fast please...
A. 28 December 2008: Well if you enjoy it then hug him back.
If you don't like it then tell him to stop.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Forbidden relationship with teacher
Q. i am in relationship with my teacher.... it's been a week and im still nervous and scared to be caught.. i dont want her to lose her job.. but on the other hand im soo happy. no way im letting her go.. she's the most beautiful thing on earth. t...
A. 28 December 2008: If she gets caught then she'll lose her whole career so just stick to texting and phone calls at home if you can't give her up.
Surely it wont be long till you will be out of school and then you'll be free.
I know it's hard but just keep your d... (read in full...)
My wife left with our 5 kids in December and I'm cracking up without her...
Q. I've been married 8 years and my wife left me in December saying she can't cope any more. I want her back with our 5 children, she's only 27 years old and I love her and our children very much. It's been a very lonely xmas, she has put herself and ...
A. 28 December 2008: Through this entire question you have only mentioned how you want her back because YOU are upset.
You haven't told us why a woman would throw herself on the mercy of the social services rather than stay in a house with you through Christma... (read in full...)
Can a warm, kind feminine heart survive in the harsh environment we live in.
Q. Can a warm, kind feminine heart survive in the harsh environment we live in? Have they been hardened to survive. I know what I'm looking for but where is it? Should I look towards another country/culture? Become religious? Join some hippy commune?...
A. 28 December 2008: You like in the UK. The girls in your town have hardly got walk 5 miles for water and witness massacres daily.
The girls you want are everywhere. You just don't see them because you are looking at the ones in clubs in short skirts.
If you ... (read in full...)
Why do guys act so childish, disrespectful?
Q. Ok this may seem messed up, but my whole life consists on that. I caught a girl checking out my guy. He gets so mad like red in the face throwing things and so on if a guy looks at me. But yet i let the b!tch know what i thought of her, and he told ...
A. 28 December 2008: Sounds like you are going out with a loser.
Dump him and find a real guy who is not a psycho.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
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