New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

My guy had incident 3 years ago now worried he's infertile but won't go to the doc!

Tagged as: Sex, Teenage<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (31 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 31 December 2008)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a 24 year old Boyfriend who is forever worried that he is infertile because he was assaulted and hit in the testicles 3 years back. He somehow believes his balls got "crushed" during the whole thing, Apparently one guy took his balls in his hand and squeezed very hard.

The functioning of his penis and testicles is very normal to me, he has no problems what so ever with erections and ejaculation and all that.

Is it possible that he could be infertile? what are the chances of his balls being "crushed" and being infertile, can the balls really get crushed? Is he just worried and how hard must you hit someone there for them to actually be infertile?

Btw he doesn't want to go check, so thats out of the question.

Thanx xx

View related questions: crush, ejaculation, erection

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008):

Balls are meant to have a lickin' and keep on tickin'... :)very unusual for such an incident to result in infertility, unless as the previous commenter said, he was still experiencing pain.

I think, importantly, he might be suffering from an emotional reaction and anxiety related to the terrible assault itself, and projected that angst on a fear of infertility, without even realizing it. Sounds like a traumatic experience. Poor guy.

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008):

I think it's most unlikely that any permanent damage has been done unless he's still in pain from it.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2008):

There is a small chance that damage has been done. But there is also just as much chance that he is fine and will have no problem having kids.

Use condoms at all times just in case.

As long as you are protected then it won't really be a problem till you want to conceive. If you decide to try for a baby and nothing happens then you can make him head to the doctor then.

Good Luck!! xx

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "My guy had incident 3 years ago now worried he's infertile but won't go to the doc!"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312775999991572!