Lesbian cheats on girlfriend with boy
Q. I have a really big problem and I am so upset by it I think I'm going to therapy. On Sunday I got at 5:52 a.m. a call from my girlfriend. She was sobbing and screaming and saying something that I couldn't understand. I thought she was saying s...
A. 23 April 2009: If she has admitted that then it is a different matter. You weren't quite clear on your original post.
It sounded incredibly dodgy, but if she says that she consented to sex then fair enough.
Well the fact is that you have been cheated on ... (read in full...)
It's great when we talk, but he doesn't have much time for me
Q. okay I've been going out with my boyfrend for about 2 years . I am 17 and he is nearly 20 , this whole year all he does is work and ONLY lately like the past few weeks he's hardly been talking to me , im always the one to call him , I always have to ...
A. 23 April 2009: Well you say you can't leave him but why not just stop chasing him for a while.
You don't have to speak to him or text him every day. Just leave him for a few days and see what happens.
If he is stressed out with work (and lets face it, he may ... (read in full...)
Why do LDR not work?
Q. I was with this amazing guy for a while and then he decided b/c he couldn't see me all that we couldn't be together. We were so happy until then. He lived about an hr. away and I had even planned to see him when he broke up with me. Why do long ...
A. 23 April 2009: They can do but they involve a lot of independence, a hell of a lot of trust, and lots of pain and upset.
It's his choice whether he wants to go through that because it's not nice most of the time.
I'm sorry he didn't think the relationship... (read in full...)
Husband wears women's clothes
Q. Hi i wish not to say who i am at this stage i have this major problem i have been with my husband for nearly to years now and i am embrassed to say but he likes wearing womens clothing not in public i don't like what he is doing and i don't know how ...
A. 23 April 2009: I think he obviously has issues with his sexuality and he'll need to work through them some how.
But the fact remains that he married you and has a child with you so he has to put that first.
Take him to couples counselling to talk about this.... (read in full...)
Ex g/f still wants phone sex
Q. my seventeen year old ex girlfriend says that though we have broken up we can still have phone sex chats and masturbate and she said it will be only for personal pleasure ... is it ok to do it ? ...
A. 23 April 2009: Well that depends on you.
If you are going to be fine doing that and be able to get over her and do it till you find someone else then it's fine.
If it's going to stop you getting over her or it's going to lead you on then don't do it.
... (read in full...)
I'm depressed about the end of the world in 2012, and my boyfriend thinks it's his fault
Q. Hi, I really need help with my problem.. My boyfriend told me about 5 months ago about the Nibiru/12/21/2012 end of the world theory where the whole world will be made over again. He told me about it without the intention of scaring me ...
A. 23 April 2009: The thing is he DID make you feel depressed and worried so telling him that its all fine would be a lie.
Tell him you don't believe it any more and it's all good and you can just forgive and forget about it.
When he sees that you've forgotten... (read in full...)
I'm depressed about the end of the world in 2012, and my boyfriend thinks it's his fault
Q. Hi, I really need help with my problem.. My boyfriend told me about 5 months ago about the Nibiru/12/21/2012 end of the world theory where the whole world will be made over again. He told me about it without the intention of scaring me ...
A. 23 April 2009: Some basic research on this has shown me that it's pretty much been proven that this is not going to happen.
Even just putting it into Google brings up a lot of mental websites and a lot more saying that there is no way that we would not have spo... (read in full...)
I told my teacher I have a crush on him, what's gonna happen?
Q. I really have a huge crush on my teacher... I've had it for a while and it was bothering me a lot. I really wanted to tell him. So last night I wrote a letter about how much I admire him and that I couldn't keep it in anymore... and I was stupid and ...
A. 23 April 2009: Your teacher will give the note to his boss.
He has to do this as if you made a false accusation and the note was found he would look REALLY bad. If he reports you as having a crush on him and then you falsely accuse him of something then they wil... (read in full...)
How can I fight off all this male attention?
Q. I am getting so fed up with the male attention i just can't seem to shunt. After breaking up with my longterm boyfriend i accidently jumped straight back into another relationship. As soon as i began feeling overwhelmed i told him i didn't want ...
A. 23 April 2009: You stop being namby pamby and tell them both that you are NEVER going to be with them.
Tell them it's not their fault but you just don't want a boyfriend.
Do not keep seeing them. Do not stay friends with them.
Go to your uni interview an... (read in full...)
Is she just winding me up?
Q. Evening all. I was hoping to get some advice. we are a very close knit team at work and often go out for meals and clubbing etc...now lately 1 girl (who im closest to)over the past few month has organized nights out without inviting me...i have...
A. 22 April 2009: Dude - ask her why she doesn't bother inviting you out!
This is most likely a misunderstanding so sort it out like an adult.
Go on your spa day and when you two are alone then just ask her if she has a problem with you as you notice she leave... (read in full...)
He wont give up the other women in his life!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend, for 2 years but some time back i found photos of his girls from his workplace i deleted them but he insisted and put them again.And he seem to be having many girls around him.iam planning to leave him since he doesnt ...
A. 22 April 2009: If they are just friends then he should try and be sensitive to the fact that you are jealous. But you should accept that he has female friends.
If they are more than friends then leave him.
Good Luck!! xx
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Lesbian cheats on girlfriend with boy
Q. I have a really big problem and I am so upset by it I think I'm going to therapy. On Sunday I got at 5:52 a.m. a call from my girlfriend. She was sobbing and screaming and saying something that I couldn't understand. I thought she was saying s...
A. 22 April 2009: Ummm.... if she is drunk and passed out and he had sex with her then it's still rape.
Do you really think she would have done this if she's a lesbian?
This is why you should never get that drunk.
It will never stand up in court as she proba... (read in full...)
Do I need to see my GP or nurse?
Q. I've had periods for 4 years and I've always had them regularly every month and I stay on my period for 5 days. I recently gone on the mini pill because I don't want to get preganent but since going on the pill I've been coming on my period every ...
A. 22 April 2009: Urrrgh I had this problem.
The nurse told me to give it a few months and it did get better and for most people it gets better completely.
I went back after 2 months and told her I wasn't happy and she put me on a different pill.
Good Lu... (read in full...)
Who is Jasmine???
Q. There is this person writing to me on myspace.. annonymous.. and I don't know who it is.. they have no pictures of them only of supposed family and they have said their name is Jasmine. I don't know anyone named Jasmine. Soo does anyone know how ...
A. 22 April 2009: 99% of people who add you randomly on myspace are just doing it to spam you with advertising.
If she won't respond to a polite "Hi who are you?" then she's probably a robot virus that's trying to steal your details. Delete her.
Good Luck!! x... (read in full...)
How can I dominate him without spanking him?
Q. hi there I'm 25 my bf is 29 and wants me to dominate him in the bedroom please help me. he doesn't want to be spanked but I'm unsure what to do please ideas? I want to shock him....
A. 22 April 2009: Tie him up, blind fold him and tell him he's been a bad boy.
Then tell him to do anything you fancy or do anything you want to him.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Why won't she get rid of the love letters from their affair?
Q. A couple of months ago my wife had a very serious and deceitful love affair. So serious that they were planning on getting married. He even lived at my house for a couple months I told him he could since he had no where to stay. Of course this was ...
A. 22 April 2009: Yes, if she wants to rebuild the trust then she should be cutting contact and getting rid of everything from him.
Ask her WHY they are still there and why she wants to stay with you if she was so happy with him that she needs to keep reminder... (read in full...)
Is my brother sleeping with our deceased brothers wife?? Dark secrets in the relationship?
Q. I have two brothers. One brother took his own life approximately six months ago and since then my other brother has formed a very close relationship with my decesaed brothers wife. So close that he spends everyweekend with her and sleeps at her ...
A. 22 April 2009: As a widow having lost her husband in such a horrible way I think it is only natural that she is clinging to anyone who can remind her of him and tell her it was not her fault.
Most suicides leave a note. What there nothing in your brother'... (read in full...)
Only 3 days to prove to him that I love him!
Q. Okay here it goes i will have three days to prove to him that i love him and want to be with him and to make him see that we can be happy together!! Tell me what to do ! please! WE will also be around other people so help me please just give me the ...
A. 22 April 2009: Will a bomb go off if you don't manage it? Has someone got a member of your family locked in a box?
If so call the police!
If not then grow up.
You can't MAKE someone love you. Be yourself and if he loves you then it'll be fine. If he doe... (read in full...)
I'm an emotional abuser! Please help!
Q. Can someone please help me resolve this? I have emotionally abused my bf for 4 months. He went through some hard times and was depressed and I still haven't forgiven him for everything that went on and held the grudges. He apologized. I know he's ...
A. 22 April 2009: Only you can change the way you act. You just have to figure out why you do it and then stop it.
Take a breath and THINK before you say something nasty to him.
The fact you did it when he was down is pretty bad. Tell him how you know what yo... (read in full...)
I think I am bi but I have a boyfriend!
Q. I've been struggling with this for a while, since about 7th grade when I started noticing how pretty girls are but just ignored it. and when I got older I started getting more and more atrracted to girls but I always just denied and thought I was a ...
A. 22 April 2009: Hey hun, I'm bi and I'm married to a wonderful man.
Being bi is hard as you want to be with both sexes.
But how you chose to live your life is up to you.
A lot of bi people (myself included) find a man or a woman, fall in love with them, ... (read in full...)
Does anyone believe in fortune tellers?
Q. My question is quite short, I'm wondering if anyone believes in Fortune Tellers? xx...
A. 22 April 2009: You can only see the future if the future is set.
That means you have to believe we travel a predetermined path.
If it has been set out for us already then you have to ask who made that decision.
I personally would never pay someone to tel... (read in full...)
She'll only respond in text
Q. I've been dating this girl for the past year. everything was great till something happened with her family. for a month i've tried to talk to her but she'll only respond in text. she's depressed about her family life and shut herself off from me. ...
A. 22 April 2009: If you are really concerned then talk to a teacher or your parents.
Pushing away the people who care about you is a classic sign that something really is wrong.
If you care about this girl and think something bad could be happening then p... (read in full...)
I can't make my g/f cum
Q. Im a lesbian, and i have pleasured many women in the past and made them all come..but recently i have a new girlfriend, and she has never managed to come with guys before because she fancied women, but now she is with me.. i still cannot make her ...
A. 22 April 2009: Great, good luck with it all!
x... (read in full...)
What are some basic but definite ways to turn a guy on during foreplay?
Q. What are some basic but definite ways to turn a guy on during foreplay? My boyfriend and I are both virgins, and we're going slow. But we recently started messing around, and I really wanna turn him on! We're both inexperienced (and he knows th...
A. 21 April 2009: Sweetheart you don't need to make him think you've been giving hand jobs for years.
If he is a virgin and he knows he may be about to have something sexual done to him then he'll be so turned on anyway that looking at him funny will probably... (read in full...)
Is my age really that big of a deal? What happened to mental maturity?
Q. hi everyone.. i sort of started with this girl. Well not formally saying we like each other we we both know how we feel about each other. But last few weeks she was so cold and i started to worry and two nites ago she said stupid hugger, wh...
A. 21 April 2009: Well it could be that she wants a boyfriend and not a casual fling so ask her if she wants a relationship.
Other than that, you just have to talk to her, give her a chance, and if she still acts this way then accept it's just not right and walk... (read in full...)
I can't make my g/f cum
Q. Im a lesbian, and i have pleasured many women in the past and made them all come..but recently i have a new girlfriend, and she has never managed to come with guys before because she fancied women, but now she is with me.. i still cannot make her ...
A. 21 April 2009: I think going to therapy is a bit extreme.
She's probably just nervous as this is her first time with a woman. Give her time and take things slowly so she can relax with you.
It'll happen don't worry.
I do agree with the person below saying ... (read in full...)
How should I act so he won't dislike me?
Q. I started my new relationship with a guy who is 11 years older than me 3 days ago. I am 22 and he is 34. I like him but I think I am also paranoid. The days after we got together, he text me to ask me how I was doing. He didn't come to see me during ...
A. 21 April 2009: Just be yourself!!
It's been 3 days and you both have your own lives.
He's probably thrilled that he's found a girl who has her own stuff and doesn't try and text him 19 times a day.
Don't try and ACT, just be you. When you next go out tog... (read in full...)
I'm so tired of chasing him, how can I get him to chase me for once?
Q. I have been dating this guy for the past few months although we never actually established what we officially were. He had to go to the hospital a while back and have some surgery, which was scary, but he has been out for around three weeks now and ...
A. 21 April 2009: Yep, sounds like he likes the sex and not having to put any effort in. Plus you are a free taxi service!
Stop talking to him and move on, if he comes after you and tries to get you back, think long and hard on whether you actually want to bother. ... (read in full...)
What should I do if I bump into my ex again?
Q. in febraury, my (ex)girlfriend broke up with me although sayin everything would be the same except no sex. she wasnt normal (i guess cuz she missed me) and we havnt spoke to each other since then. as time went by, typical things have happened such ...
A. 21 April 2009: Sweetie, you have to accept that now it's over, she can do what she wants with any other guy and you can't go and be horrible to her.
She isn't yours any more. She's gone.
If you see her again then just keep your distance. You don't need to wa... (read in full...)
Could you give me any ideas what I could do to put a stop to this?
Q. hi, i need some sound advice pls. i have been in a relationship for 13 years the first year i ended it twice but the second time i found out i was pregnant so we gave it another go he asked me to marry him and i said yes. for the first 4 years i ...
A. 21 April 2009: The only way you are going to stop him from doing this to you is if you walk out and start again.
You say you want kids and if you stay with him it's not going to happen, and even if it does you'll have to whore yourself out for money to feed the... (read in full...)
Deperessed boyfriend, any advise?
Q. Last year was amazing. I had such a positive outlook and great things happened to me. My relationship was solid but I was aware that my boyfriend's life wasn't going as well but he was proud of me and we were happy together. However in october he ...
A. 21 April 2009: Yep, he has clinical depression.
That means there are a load of chemicals swimming round his head telling him he's crap, that everyone will be better off without him, and that no one understands.
Depression makes EVERYTHING about you. You b... (read in full...)
Do I keep my job and miss out on the volunteering experience or do the volunteering but miss out on £500 a month!
Q. Hi, I need help! I am currently at university studying health care. I want to be a social worker in order for me to this and I need to do a postgraduate degree in social work but to apply for the social work degree I need at least 6 months ...
A. 21 April 2009: Well it all comes down to... do you need the money?
If you need to pay bills etc than keep working and then just wait till summer to do your volunteering when you have more time off.
If you don't need the money but just like it then talk to you... (read in full...)
She'll only respond in text
Q. I've been dating this girl for the past year. everything was great till something happened with her family. for a month i've tried to talk to her but she'll only respond in text. she's depressed about her family life and shut herself off from me. ...
A. 21 April 2009: Have you asked her if she still wants to be with you? Or if she'd prefer to go back to being friends?
It sounds like she is in a bit of a mess at the moment and could need your help more than ever.
Is the family problem getting sorted? Do you k... (read in full...)
Because we live 50 miles apart I only see him weekends but he never seems to want sex!
Q. HELP!! I'm a 31 year old woman driving myself MAD!! I've been with my fella for 8 months now and we live 50 miles apart so see each other most weekends... my sex drive is way high and all I want to do is *well-you know* when we get time together, ...
A. 20 April 2009: Well if you have talked to him about it and he won't even accept that you aren't happy then something may very well be wrong.
It's all very well saying "nothing is wrong" but something is wrong: you aren't happy.
If he has been like this from t... (read in full...)
How can I open up to my mum more?
Q. I'm not a very open person about anything really, I like to keep things to myself and that's the way I've always been. I'm close with my family, but not "close-close" I can't tell my mum anything, and I don't feel right talking about a lot with her; ...
A. 20 April 2009: I've been in exactly your situation... and unfortunately for me, it just never got better.
I never had a mum I could talk to and I went on the pill at 17 without her ever knowing. It was just a matter of taking it at 11 at night (a time I was very... (read in full...)
Because we live 50 miles apart I only see him weekends but he never seems to want sex!
Q. HELP!! I'm a 31 year old woman driving myself MAD!! I've been with my fella for 8 months now and we live 50 miles apart so see each other most weekends... my sex drive is way high and all I want to do is *well-you know* when we get time together, ...
A. 20 April 2009: I think you need to tell him these worries and not us.
Ask him why he doesn't want you any more and explain that it makes you feel like he doesn't love you.
Ask him if he's stressed and why he doesn't seem to want you so much.
50 mile... (read in full...)
She'll only respond in text
Q. I've been dating this girl for the past year. everything was great till something happened with her family. for a month i've tried to talk to her but she'll only respond in text. she's depressed about her family life and shut herself off from me. ...
A. 20 April 2009: She's obviously a bit messed up at the moment and if texting is easiest for her then just text.
You could always ask if she can come out and meet you and then give her a big hug.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
What do I do and am I being taken advantage of?
Q. Hi, I am a female who is currently in a lesbian relationship for over a year. My partner and I reunited after a 7 year departure, excluding any form of communication/contact. Now that she and I are back together… we have mutual understandings, that ...
A. 20 April 2009: How the hell are her living expenses that high????
She cannot be driving that expensive a car and living in that an expensive a place.
Tell her to sell some stuff and find out why her bills are so ridiculously high. It's fine helping out a lo... (read in full...)
Touching breasts during sex
Q. question about women touching their breasts during sexual intercourse. What is the purpose of it? Does it add to her enjoyment? Are there certain times during sex when she may do this? Is it more common during intercourse, foreplay, or bot...
A. 20 April 2009: Yes it feels great when your breasts are touched.
If you man isn't good enough in bed to know that then a girl will do it for herself.
Every woman likes to be touched in different ways and in different places. Find out what she likes and does i... (read in full...)
Bad girl, dating, tatoos and navel rings
Q. I know this cute girl from work. We have flirted some. She is that bad girl type. When she puts things in upper places in the office I have noticed that she has a navel ring. When she bent over I have seen a glimpse of a tattoo on her right breast. ...
A. 20 April 2009: Just because she has a tattoo and a piercing you automatically think she is going to whack her boobs out and have sex on the first date?
Seriously?
No, really? Seriously? That is what you think?
Did you grow up in some kind of religious c... (read in full...)
Side effects from the pill? Pregnancy?
Q. i came off the mini pill (femulen)on th 15th of april and then started bleeding 2 days after, very very light and brown with a line of pink. i am still getting it now so 4 days, but its so light i only need a panty liner. my concern is that i had ...
A. 20 April 2009: If you had sex 4 weeks ago, and you were taking the pill properly at the time then you will not be pregnant.
I'm on femulen and I only have to take it 3 hours late and I get a period, so this is almost certainly just the effects of coming off it. ... (read in full...)
Third time the charm? Should I try to find her again?
Q. Hi all hmm where to start. 24 years ago, aged 23, I fell madly in love with the most beautiful person. We were together for 5 years, got engaged, but were young and we split which at the time was devastating for me. She hurt me and my trust was...
A. 20 April 2009: The worst that could possibly happen is that you find her and she tells you to piss off. She married now and she can't forgive you. She never EVER wants to see or hear from again.
If you prepare yourself for that outcome and trace her expectin... (read in full...)
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