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anonymous
writes:I've been dating this girl for the past year. everything was great till something happened with her family. for a month i've tried to talk to her but she'll only respond in text. she's depressed about her family life and shut herself off from me. idk what to do or how to help her
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (22 April 2009):
If you are really concerned then talk to a teacher or your parents.
Pushing away the people who care about you is a classic sign that something really is wrong.
If you care about this girl and think something bad could be happening then please tell someone about it.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe broke up with me last night. says she can't be in a relationship now. i dont know what's going on at her house. things seem to be getting worse. she doesn't respond to anyone most of the time. i'm worried about her but she doesn't want me around anymore.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 April 2009):
Have you asked her if she still wants to be with you? Or if she'd prefer to go back to being friends?
It sounds like she is in a bit of a mess at the moment and could need your help more than ever.
Is the family problem getting sorted? Do you know that she is safe and being looked after?
If she's cutting her self off from the world through choice then it's one thing, and sad as it may be she may just need someone to talk to by text for a while.
If she's suddenly disappeared then it's quite worrying. Is she coming to school? Is she seeing other friends?
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni've tried. she won't meet up or let me come over. i think my relationship with her is ending because she keeps avoiding me. i don't understand what's happening or how to salvage it.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (20 April 2009):
She's obviously a bit messed up at the moment and if texting is easiest for her then just text.
You could always ask if she can come out and meet you and then give her a big hug.
Good Luck!! xx
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