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writes:hi everyone..i sort of started with this girl. Well not formally saying we like each other we we both know how we feel about each other.But last few weeks she was so cold and i started to worry and two nites ago she said stupid hugger, what does that exactly mean??I'm 25, she's 17, i do get worried that she'll be hooked up by some other guys out there when she goes to parties..Is this not working...am i too old for her?she's the one who initiated ...and pushing me to express my feelings.. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 April 2009):
Well it could be that she wants a boyfriend and not a casual fling so ask her if she wants a relationship.
Other than that, you just have to talk to her, give her a chance, and if she still acts this way then accept it's just not right and walk away.
As for stupid hugger... ask HER what it means.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, reign154  +, writes (21 April 2009):
Hey. Finally i'm the first person to comment :)/ Well she is 17 so there are going to be guys that will interest her both her age and older. I'm 18 right now and i don't even know what i want in a guy yet. I think right now she just wants to have fun and have a good time with you. I'm not saying she does not want a relationship with you, but i think its really about the maturity level. Age has nothing to do with it because if you really like each other as you say you do then the age shouldn't matter. You said that no one has never said you like each other formally. Well that's a problem. She probably just wants you to come out and tell her. She could think that you just like her as a friend or not as strongly as the connection she gets from you. Some people just have to hear it. you should see if she wants to go out with you and take it from there. But remember don't pressure her to much and just have fun. Life is already stressful enough so just be wild. :)
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