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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Im a lesbian, and i have pleasured many women in the past and made them all come..but recently i have a new girlfriend, and she has never managed to come with guys before because she fancied women, but now she is with me.. i still cannot make her come. Anybody got any tips?Thanks
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 April 2009):
Great, good luck with it all!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all so much for your responses. we are now working on just relaxing and not pressurising or thinking about coming. will update you all
thanks alot
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for your responses.. i have just shown her this, and it is right, it is mind over matter. i think i will just give her time to relax and stop pressurising her to come. thank you all.x
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (21 April 2009):
 Sounds like your girlfriend is nervous, probably cos you are more experienced than her. Just give it time and dont put pressure on her to orgasm, rather enjoy each other and as she gets more confident in her relationship with you, things will come right!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 April 2009):
I think going to therapy is a bit extreme.
She's probably just nervous as this is her first time with a woman. Give her time and take things slowly so she can relax with you.
It'll happen don't worry.
I do agree with the person below saying she should have a go at making herself cum and finding out what she likes.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, planepocket  +, writes (21 April 2009):
If you search for sexual tips online you will find many,but it sounds to me like your girlfriend is young and insecure about sex and her body.She needs to experiment alone and learn how to please herself first and maybe she should see a therapist to overcome any problems she might have.As she matures sex will become easier.
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