What goes through your head 1st when you're approached by thai guy in Thailand ?
Q. Well I always go hanging in many places[Kao san street for example ] in Thailand. I see a lot of cute girls and they're mostly tourists. But I'm always afraid that when I go to them and start the conversation, it is possible that they will think I ...
A. 7 May 2009: Did you do that in a bar or a cafe? Were you with friends? Did you offer to buy her a drink?
Or did it look like you were just on your own looking for a girl to sell something to?
Just asking a stream of questions is not enough. Start ta... (read in full...)
What goes through your head 1st when you're approached by thai guy in Thailand ?
Q. Well I always go hanging in many places[Kao san street for example ] in Thailand. I see a lot of cute girls and they're mostly tourists. But I'm always afraid that when I go to them and start the conversation, it is possible that they will think I ...
A. 7 May 2009: Well how did you approach them?... (read in full...)
I'm regretting leaving my controlling abusive husband. Please help!
Q. no longer with my ex husband. been with him 11 years, 4 of which married. we divorced and we stayed together one more year. I left due to serious control issues. the was also abuse in the marriage. i new i should leave due to him telling me what to ...
A. 4 May 2009: I think Otherstarfish has NAILED it here.
But just to add that if you sit around thinking about what you had then you won't move on.
Get out with your girlfriends and flirt.
Don't jump into a new relationship but just get out and flirt a... (read in full...)
What goes through your head 1st when you're approached by thai guy in Thailand ?
Q. Well I always go hanging in many places[Kao san street for example ] in Thailand. I see a lot of cute girls and they're mostly tourists. But I'm always afraid that when I go to them and start the conversation, it is possible that they will think I ...
A. 4 May 2009: Well if you approach someone one on a street of sellers then they are going to think you are selling.
Find a cafe to sit in and approach them there. Sit with your friends and smile so they know you are out having a good time and not working.... (read in full...)
He swept me off my feet, then revealed a temper that was scary, should I even consider being with him, he said it was over?
Q. Two months ago I met a man and we have spent almost every day together. He swept me off my feet and was so amazing to me. He wanted me to move away with him within four weeks but i told him we were moving too fast. One month after this we went ...
A. 4 May 2009: It's easy to pretend to be perfect, but after a few weeks the true you will always come out.
He's shown you what he's really like.
I bet most of his previous girls will have given him chances and he'll be sat there waiting for you to come and ... (read in full...)
I am having a worsening pain in my vagina, what could it be and what should I do?
Q. ive been havin pain an sting like feeling in my vag area i kinda of always had on an off pain every now an then but it wasnt til today an yesterday i think its geting worse not only that but its swollen and it still hasnt went down since yesterday ...
A. 4 May 2009: This is something your doctor needs to look at hun.
It could be anything from an infection to cancer.
Get it sorted.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He's still checking his online profile
Q. I have been dating a guy for 6 weeks and he is still checking his online dating profile. I even caught him looking online several days ago but didn't say anything. We have not had an exclusive conversation and so far he spends a lot of time with me, ...
A. 4 May 2009: What do you mean you are not technically exclusive.
We are not in America.
He's either going out with you or not.
He's not psychic so you need to kick his arse and tell him that you will not be cheated on and if he wants to continue seeing... (read in full...)
Height rating
Q. how do you people rate a person of height 6 5"? i am 6 4" and i feel good to be this tall but girls are too short to stand up with a boy of this height. what do girls say here?And Do rate my height....
A. 4 May 2009: I think it's great as I am 5'9'' and would be able to wear heels and STILL have to go on tip toes to kiss you.
It just means you are going to date a lot of tall leggy girls. Oh the horror!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He left and no goodbyes
Q. What does it mean when a guy you been dating for 2 years and couple of weeks left without saying goodbye? Should i let him go or find out?...
A. 4 May 2009: In most cases where they give no reason it's because they think giving you the real reason would hurt you more.
And 90% of those times it means there is someone else.
Talk to him and say you need to know the truth, no matter how bad, or you ... (read in full...)
Was I being disloyal to my boyfriend
Q. My bf and I were invited over to his brother's house for a bbq. His bro likes my potato salad so much, he asked me to make a lot of it so he could have some leftovers. Ok, no problem, I did. When we were over there, towards the end of the ...
A. 4 May 2009: I think you should be ashamed of yourself. Your boyfriend is clearly under the age of 12 and that is just wrong for a woman your age....
Oh wait he's not a child? Then why is he behaving like one?
It was POTATO SALAD! It wasn't even like it was... (read in full...)
How do I give my teacher a thank you card with out making his collegues jealous?
Q. So, I want to give a thank you card and a small gift to my teacher. He has been very helpful during my years at the school that I will soon graduate from. I often have to visit his office for stuff so I thought I might deliver the gift there. ...
A. 3 May 2009: Sweetheart, I hate to burst your bubble but I don't think the other teachers will be bothered. If it's the end of terms they'll already be too drunk to notice you are there.
They have hundreds of students so they are not going to be THAT disappoi... (read in full...)
Country girl finding it impossible to find love
Q. i have very basic question. how do i get a boyfriend how do i get a guy to fancy me.even though i am fat,short,plain looking,30+ age and feel over the hill and no guy be interested in me because older and no longer in my 20s .who shy and find it ...
A. 3 May 2009: What more advice do you need.
Do you have any intention of taking the advice you have already been given?
Why can't you move house if you are miserable where you are?
What is keeping you there?
Reeta is right. It's only you who is hold... (read in full...)
I need help is it wrong or should I say something??
Q. Recently I’m 20 and I have been having feelings both emotional and sexual towards my mum's cousin's husband's brother’s son. We have always said we r cousins even though we are not related through blood. We have been close for about seven years. i ...
A. 3 May 2009: I think you should go for it!
Your family may have brought you up as cousins but you are not. It's not like you shared a nursery together.
Flirt and see if he flirts back. If he does then suggest you go out for a drink together. Then f... (read in full...)
I don't want to tell my boyfriend that my baby is not his. Help!
Q. Im 15 and im 10weeks pregnant, i do have a boyfriend who i have been with for about a year but in febuary we had a break and i got a bit drunk and slept with another boy. And i know for a fact the baby is his. i got back with my boyfriend about a ...
A. 3 May 2009: Glad we could help.
I know this is going to be hard to think hard. Get everything straight in your head then take a deep breath and just get it all over with.
It will all be ok in the long run.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He's too old and my Mom says 'don't date him'...how do I get over him?
Q. i had a crush but he is too old for me (5 years older) so we thought (he loved me too) it was a good idea not to date until i was much older. my mum said it would be a good idea not to see him at all. i can understand why and im not angry at her at ...
A. 3 May 2009: No problem, glad I could help!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I need some help labelling my sexuality
Q. I'm having difficulty in labelling my sexuality for others to understand. Whilst it doesn't matter to me, I can't find a category I can define myself by and was hoping that others with more knowledge or an unbiased view could help. I'm male, I've...
A. 3 May 2009: You don't need a label.
It's not a tick box exercise. This is why gay people use a rainbow, because sexuality is different for everyone.
Hardly anyone is 100% gay straight or bi.
So go with percentages.
You're 80% for women and 20% ... (read in full...)
Country girl finding it impossible to find love
Q. i have very basic question. how do i get a boyfriend how do i get a guy to fancy me.even though i am fat,short,plain looking,30+ age and feel over the hill and no guy be interested in me because older and no longer in my 20s .who shy and find it ...
A. 3 May 2009: Ok, so your problems are:
1. Geography
2. Self Esteem
3. Looks
4. You are using the internet
Age is not an issue as (shockingly) some men are over 30 too.
Unless you are willing to move house then you can't do much about geography but you ... (read in full...)
I don't want to tell my boyfriend that my baby is not his. Help!
Q. Im 15 and im 10weeks pregnant, i do have a boyfriend who i have been with for about a year but in febuary we had a break and i got a bit drunk and slept with another boy. And i know for a fact the baby is his. i got back with my boyfriend about a ...
A. 3 May 2009: Oh sweetie. I know this was a mistake and you didn't mean for it to happen. I'm not going to lie to you, your life is going to be pretty miserable.
But you decided you were grown up enough to get drunk and you decided you were grown up enough t... (read in full...)
He accuses me of cheating..how do I deal with his temper tantrums and foul language?
Q. Me and my fiance are going through a very rough patch. We've been together for 2 years and he recently proposed. We were friends for about 5 years before we started our relationship and I felt I knew him inside out. Many people told me I had ch...
A. 3 May 2009: Ooooooh, if he's going to be a psycho then he should at least have the decency to be honest about it.
People who cheat are often the most paranoid and possesive because they know how easy it to do it so they can't trust.
The bad news is that... (read in full...)
I think he's faking it and I don't know how to approach this with him
Q. Help here please I am in a relationship with a man and we are both in our mid 60.s we have sex on a regular basis but the last couple of times we have ,i think he has been faking it and i'm wondering if i should say something to him about this or ...
A. 3 May 2009: You are right when you say they can be sensitive. This is going to be very tricky.... and yes I would be tempted to leave him to it rather than deal with the issue.
If you do want to talk to him about it then just tell him how sexy he makes yo... (read in full...)
Can someone give me a big push?
Q. This question does not really have anything to do with relationships but I just need some encouragement. I have always wanted to work as a cabin crew member. For years I was constantly rejected. Last year I was offered a job at the age of 43 wi...
A. 3 May 2009: DO IT!!!
Talk to your kids and I am sure they will be supportive.
They may have to tighten their belts but if they are old enough then encourage them to get a saturday job and then they can buy their own treats.
Go for it before you get to... (read in full...)
He's too old and my Mom says 'don't date him'...how do I get over him?
Q. i had a crush but he is too old for me (5 years older) so we thought (he loved me too) it was a good idea not to date until i was much older. my mum said it would be a good idea not to see him at all. i can understand why and im not angry at her at ...
A. 3 May 2009: You have to WANT to get over him.
Make a decision that you are not going to be sad anymore. Tell yourself in the mirror, write it down and stick it to your wall, facebook update about it.
Then put effort into not thinking about him and go out w... (read in full...)
Should I add my ex to facebook?
Q. is it ok to talk to exes in the long run of life ? i broke up with my girlfriend and we have agreed to talk after some months. till then no calls, texts etc... But she was madly in love with me whereas i just liked her more than a friend. idk, w...
A. 3 May 2009: You should only add her when you know she is ready to be your friend again and is over you.
If she's in love with you this could only give her hope that you miss her and therefore may want to get back together.
Plus it's going to be cruel to a... (read in full...)
I'm terrified of giving birth again.
Q. I'm terrified of giving birth again. I know you probably get this alot but i dont know what to do.I had the most awful time the first time round, i was abroad so nobody could understand me and visa versa, they wouldn't give me any pain killers (i ...
A. 3 May 2009: Go and talk to your midwife, tell her what happened and how scared you are. She will be able to talk about all your choices and WHY it is DEFINITELY going to be different this time.
And then cancel any holidays you have booked around the due date... (read in full...)
Dumped by fiancée, should I get the ring back?
Q. After proposing to a woman I have lived with for two years i moved to another city. She joined me a few months later, but then ended the relationship because I cheated on her. (note: she did as well prior to that) She wont give me the 10K diamond. ...
A. 3 May 2009: Yes.
You were in a verbal agreement to marry.
That ring is like the damage deposit.
It comes from back in the day when you would have been supporting her and her family would have been paying for the wedding.
So if you buggered off ... (read in full...)
I understand his frustration but it's making me feel so down that I cannot function properly.
Q. Hello Aunt's and Uncles, I have posted on this wonderful site before and hope I can call on people's advice and opinions again to help me with something that has been bothering me. Well, I will try to make this short. Earlier this year I lost my c...
A. 3 May 2009: I can understand you feeling bad about this ending.
But this wasn't your fault. You did your best and you stuck with this. You knew that he was wrong in pushing for things like moving in, so you can't balme yourself for his mistakes.
You sho... (read in full...)
He says we're nothing to each other so why does he act jealous?
Q. ok, well this guy and i have been casual sex buddies for about 7 months now, we talk everyday and meet up as and when we can. He gets jealous if he thinks im seeing other ppl, and even makes up stories about other girls to make me jealous! But when ...
A. 3 May 2009: Oh so you DO want more... oh dear.
Going from sex buddies to a relationship very very very rarely works.
You just have to come clean with him.
Tell him you have feelings for him and you want more than this. If he says yeah then great. If... (read in full...)
Flirting with a guy who isn't single
Q. how dose one flirt with a guy whos not single? and please dont say forget about him because i cannot......
A. 3 May 2009: You don't.
You don't have to forget about him. You just wait till he is single.
Then go crazy.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Having STD testing as a rule?
Q. Since several of my friends fell victim to some nasty STDs, I decided to make it a rule to never sleep with a woman unless she got tested and showed me the results ( and I would in turn of course ). However I feel this simply doesn't fly with...
A. 3 May 2009: Well it's easy.
Just tell her that you are making an appointment to get checked out yourself and would she like to come with you? You can book her in for the same time if she'd like.
Tell her it would be nice to have someone to hold hands with ... (read in full...)
Daughter trying to get us to go to social events that we feel uncomfortable about
Q. I;m having a serious dilemma. Its a long story ,but I will the try short form, so I wouldn't go too deep. So my daughter is trying to make us go to social events thru a very fancy university. Social balls, etc. We feel totally out of place, as we ar...
A. 3 May 2009: Well it depends on how old she is and what the context is.
If she's still fairly young and this is a ball that EVERYONE will be at and EVERYONE is bringing their parents to... then yes, you should make the effort, go in your own tie-dyed ball gow... (read in full...)
I understand his frustration but it's making me feel so down that I cannot function properly.
Q. Hello Aunt's and Uncles, I have posted on this wonderful site before and hope I can call on people's advice and opinions again to help me with something that has been bothering me. Well, I will try to make this short. Earlier this year I lost my c...
A. 2 May 2009: It doesn't sound like you two are really meant to be together.
He wants some one simple and straight forward to be narrow minded with.
You are a bit high maintenance and need someone who is probably as skittish as you when it comes to stickin... (read in full...)
Can men just use people to write to for company?
Q. Guys who have been away from loved ones - either in prison or the forces:- When men write letters to their loved ones (for example girlfriends or female friends) - do they show their true feelings or are they just wanting company from pen friends? ...
A. 2 May 2009: Yep.
My hubbie is in the army and always says that even if he has proper email access... it's ALWAYS best to get letters.
If you suspect you are being played then stop writing!
Either that or just stay as penpals and get a boyfriend.
Good... (read in full...)
He says we're nothing to each other so why does he act jealous?
Q. ok, well this guy and i have been casual sex buddies for about 7 months now, we talk everyday and meet up as and when we can. He gets jealous if he thinks im seeing other ppl, and even makes up stories about other girls to make me jealous! But when ...
A. 2 May 2009: Well his idea of a casual sex buddy relationship is that HE swans about having lots and lots of sex with super models... while you sit around the house in lingerie waiting for him to come round.
He's being jealous because he can't deal with the... (read in full...)
How can I convince him that he should call his parents?
Q. My husband and I have a problem. He isn't in touch with his parents, doesnt even want to call them. This all started when we moved in together, and escalated when he didnt call them to say that we got married (it was a small, impromptu wedding). ...
A. 2 May 2009: You don't say anything about WHY he is so angry with them, except that you think it might be your fault some how.
Don't you think he might have a very good reason not to speak to them?
Unfortunately, not everyone is close to their parents. I... (read in full...)
He provides everything for me, apartment, money and everything I ask him for, I do not work. He thinks I depend on him too much, is this true?
Q. My bofriend thinks i depend on him too much, i don't think so. he provide everything for me, apartment, money and every thing i ask him for, i do not work, when we just started out he said he wants to spoil me, and he is doing just that. i don't ...
A. 30 April 2009: Offer to get a job?
I really don't think he's talking about happiness sweetie.
You are sucking the lifeblood out of him and costing him a fortune. He's set you up... now PAY HIM SOME RENT!!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I'm not gay but I like the idea of it!
Q. hi ppl, im straight and have a gf, but i like this show i watch and its kinda guy on guy relationship show aimed at teenage girls. i like it cuz its funny and interesting, but when this 1 scene in the first episode where the 2 guys kiss, i just wish ...
A. 30 April 2009: Sounds like you are not 100% straight, but that doesn't mean you are bi or gay.
It's not that simple.
You have a girlfriend so at the moment you need to stick with her. but have a think with an open mind and see what you come up with.
If y... (read in full...)
I think we are still in love but he is getting married! Help please!
Q. Hi, I have a question that I really need help answering. I have been in love with this man for almost 4 years, we dated for about 2 years and then we broke it off and decided to remain best friends. Trouble is I am still in love with him and I t...
A. 30 April 2009: You need to come out and confront him.
Tell him you still love him and want him back. Tell him you think he loves you too.
Then he needs to chose. Her or you.
If he picks you then great. If he picks her then you HAVE to leave him alone and s... (read in full...)
I'm terrible at reading women!
Q. My problem is, I am terrible at reading females. Unless it is very obvious, I can't always tell if a female is interested in me or not. There is this one female that I am interested in; the first time I asked her out she told me she wasn't single, ...
A. 30 April 2009: You don't have to go after her to find out how she feels.
Next time you see her just wait till a nice quiet moment and then tell her she looks beautiful. Then tell her that you still really like her but you are willing to wait for her for a little... (read in full...)
What would happen if I went on a water-only diet?
Q. hey all. i hear that starving yourself makes u only lose water so what i want to know is what happens if i go on a water-only-diet? wil i lose the kilos? im 90kgs and i wud like to be 50 by the end of may. please help...
A. 30 April 2009: You'll die.
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/top-stories/2008/12/12/water-diet-death-jacqueline-henson-s-sister-pauline-hits-out-at-lighterlife-115875-20963727/
Also your body will think it's being starved and cling onto every calorie is has. ... (read in full...)
My husband's new hobby is taking over his life leaving no time for me!
Q. My husband has started becoming obsessed with eating and drinking to the exclusion of everything else (excluding personal hygiene matters). He's spending time with a new group of friends who like to go round the city and eat at all the restaura...
A. 30 April 2009: I would have said that this new group of friends could be another woman... but if his personal hygene has gone down the pan, then they have to be men. Yuck!
You need to talk to him about this again and ask him HOW is it is good for the relation... (read in full...)
My bf says he doesn't get jealous--almost ever.
Q. Heyo! My bf says he doesn't get jealous--almost ever. Is that possible? I know I get jealous pretty easily, so what he said is pretty much incomprehensible to me. Thanks! -GG...
A. 30 April 2009: My hubbie is also pretty laid back.
He can get a bit annoyed if I get close to a guy he doesn't know, but then as soon as he's met him, he's fine.
It's fine so just enjoy life as a free woman in a great relationship.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Starting to wonder if I fancy women, not men...
Q. I'm starting to wonder if I might be gay. I've never fancied women, or wanted relationships with them. But I've always found them more of a turn on than men - ie if I was watching porn with a boyfriend, it would be lesbian porn that I would cho...
A. 30 April 2009: It could well be that you are bi sexual.
I mean, you don't say whether you are sexually attracted to men. Are you just with your boyfriend because you like him as a friend and "having a boyfriend" is just what people do?
A lot of women find ou... (read in full...)
Could I get pregnant after only 1 depo shot?
Q. I just took my first depo in January and I'm do today for my next. If I had sex yesterday is there a chance I could be pregnant?...
A. 30 April 2009: No don't wait, go along and tell them what happened and they will know.
There will be guidelines for this and they are trained to know all the details.
Go!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Could I get pregnant after only 1 depo shot?
Q. I just took my first depo in January and I'm do today for my next. If I had sex yesterday is there a chance I could be pregnant?...
A. 29 April 2009: Well the sperm takes 3 days to get to the egg so if you get your shot today then you should be ok.
If in doubt get the morning after pill.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
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