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writes: What are some basic but definite ways to turn a guy on during foreplay? My boyfriend and I are both virgins, and we're going slow. But we recently started messing around, and I really wanna turn him on! We're both inexperienced (and he knows that), I don't want him to be able to tell that I'm inexperienced in what I'm doing. I definitely want things to be hot and steamy!Any ideas?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): I agree with earlier posters that it won't take much to turn on a male virgin. Guys are very visually oriented, so I'd recommend leaving the lights on (or using candles, or something like that). Also, every guy is different, so just try a few different things and see what he likes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): Please do not use a condom for foreplay and penetration. condoms are designed to go on just before sex for internal use, giving a hand job or head with the condom on then penetration can cause it to tear
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (21 April 2009):
 Sweetie, just the whole idea of being touched and desired is probably enough for your boyfriend to cum! As you are both new at this, you should explore each other slowly but communicate as to what is nice and what is not! And if things get out of hand [pardon the pun] please use a condom!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 April 2009):
Sweetheart you don't need to make him think you've been giving hand jobs for years.
If he is a virgin and he knows he may be about to have something sexual done to him then he'll be so turned on anyway that looking at him funny will probably give him an orgasm.
He'll have a gorgeous girl in front of him with no top on and wanting to touch him. If you do anything more then it's only going to last 5 seconds when you actually do have sex as he'll be too excited.
Make sure that you put a condom on him AS SOON AS YOU START FOREPLAY. We get so many questions on here from people your age saying "we were both naked and his cum went on my vagina - could I be pregnant?" and then answer is always yes.
Always use condoms unless you have your jeans on.
Good Luck!! xx
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