Could I be pregnant and how do I find my nearest family planning clinic?
Q. i am 13 year old and the other night i was messing around with this lad cutting a long story short i sucked him off and he never spermed in my mouth but he wiped it away a short while after he fingered me and then he tried to have sex with me but i ...
A. 15 May 2009: Excellent. You should go to the family planning clinic though and get on the injection or pill or something and they will also give you condoms which you should put on him as soon as he goes anywhere near you when you are naked.
Good Luck!! x... (read in full...)
Could I get pregnant after only 1 depo shot?
Q. I just took my first depo in January and I'm do today for my next. If I had sex yesterday is there a chance I could be pregnant?...
A. 30 April 2009: No don't wait, go along and tell them what happened and they will know.
There will be guidelines for this and they are trained to know all the details.
Go!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Sometimes I regret for not accepting her friendship
Q. i broke up with my girlfriend a month ago due to some genuine reason because i didnt love her...i broke all contacts with her as per the advices given by people on DC ...i resisted her to the core and completely pushed her away from my life by ...
A. 29 April 2009: Ah, there is nothing like no knowing what you had till it's gone.
You are missing your routines, you are missing the intimacy and most of all you are missing the deep friendship.
But you say even now that you DO NOT LOVE HER.
So yes, send... (read in full...)
I've kicked out my husband but he won't leave!
Q. Almost a month ago I asked my husband to leave, and he won't go. At first he was looking at apartments, then he said he could stay at work, but he never left. I told him to at least go into the garage and he did nothing. He sleeps in the living ...
A. 29 April 2009: Well tell him that you asked him to leave and come to counselling if he wanted to save the marriage and he didn't...
So you are filing for divorce.
Tell him he has till next Friday to find somewhere to live and then when he is at work on Frida... (read in full...)
I've kicked out my husband but he won't leave!
Q. Almost a month ago I asked my husband to leave, and he won't go. At first he was looking at apartments, then he said he could stay at work, but he never left. I told him to at least go into the garage and he did nothing. He sleeps in the living ...
A. 29 April 2009: Well hang on, first off, you can't kick him out of his own house.
If it's his house then you have to leave.
But you don't seem to be sure whether you want to end the marriage or not... I mean you set up counselling... that's not something a ... (read in full...)
Unemployed boyfriend is being too picky about what job he would take!
Q. my guy has been unemployed for about seven months now. he has been looking for a job but not on a consistant basis. he is still living with family. when we are together i pay for most of our entertainment. i don't feel obligated to do it but i ...
A. 29 April 2009: You can gently hint that you want someone who can afford to do stuff with you.
Tell him that you are looking at holidays and you really fancy getting away. "Now obviously you can't go because I know you are living off savings while waiting ... (read in full...)
How do you ask a guy where your relationship stands?
Q. How do you ask a guy where your relationship stands after 2 years?...
A. 29 April 2009: "So where do we stand? It's been 2 years and I still have no idea if this is going anywhere.
I'm 30-35 now and I've realised I can't mess about any more as I want marriage / kids / career / house / llamma farm / insert dream here ... someday.... (read in full...)
I've been done wrong so often I'm thinking about same-sex dating.
Q. Every person I've been with has did me wrong so I'm thinking about dateing my own sex should i do that or just stick it out??? All my boyfriends I've had has cheated on me and used me 4 sex and money so I'm tired of it help me ...
A. 29 April 2009: It says you are 13 to 15.
So if your boyfriends have been using you for sex it's because you have a reputation of having underage sex.
Boys can only use you if YOU LET THEM.
You were not raped, you were not robbed. You were just daft e... (read in full...)
Does this guy like the girl?
Q. if a guy flirted with a girl non verbally. But she does not give in, after some weeks. they become friends. But he does not talk to her... only looks at her. So the girl ignores him. After a weeks he comes back all nonverbal. but she ign...
A. 29 April 2009: Hi again, did you not get many answers last time you posted?
Ok, here is what happened.
He liked you, you sneered at him.
He tries again, you LAUGH at him.
He accepts that you must not like him because you are horrible to him.
He goes ... (read in full...)
Recently self conscious about my labia
Q. I'm a female in my late 30s who has recently noticed that my labia looks different from others in adult movies or pictures. My lips hang down a bit. I'm not tight like those I've seen in pictures. Before someone asks if it's from excessive use ...
A. 29 April 2009: Sweetheart, have you noticed that those other women in these movies etc also have ridiculously perfect boobs? and very blonde hair? and very pink lipstick?
They are in porn because their genital area looks like that. They are picked because ... (read in full...)
Could I get pregnant after only 1 depo shot?
Q. I just took my first depo in January and I'm do today for my next. If I had sex yesterday is there a chance I could be pregnant?...
A. 29 April 2009: Well the sperm takes 3 days to get to the egg so if you get your shot today then you should be ok.
If in doubt get the morning after pill.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Should I visit my g/f's kid's dad in prison with her?
Q. my girlfriend has two kids . her baby dad is in prison. his mother is going to visit him soon but she wants my girfriend and her kids to come . i don't mind the kids going to visit their dad.but my girlfriend wants to go also. she's said if I ...
A. 29 April 2009: He may be in prison but surely you can see why he might want to at least meet and be on civil terms with the man who is effectively raising his children.
You could very well be the man who his kids learn to call daddy.
He wants to check you are... (read in full...)
How can I come out to my parents?
Q. i first realised i was gay when i was 17. i had a brother who was gay as well who lived in london but died of aids in 1995. which made it difficult for me to come out to my parents, subsequently i have never come out to them as they blamed ...
A. 28 April 2009: Everyone seems to think this is pretty simple.
But I can see that this is going to be really horrible to do.
Have a think about whether it's best to speak to one parent or both.
I think it will also be a big judgement call on whethe... (read in full...)
What are the signs that a man is enjoying fellatio?
Q. what are the signs that a guy is enjoying oral sex? vocal? shaking thigh?...
A. 28 April 2009: If he's breathing and has a heart beat then he's most likely enjoying it.
Tell him to tell you when he likes it.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I really like a girl, how do I get her attention without being too forward?
Q. i really like a girl, how do i get her attention without being too forward...
A. 28 April 2009: Give her a compliment.
Tell her you really like the way she's done her hair if there if something different about it.
Pick something and tell her it looks good.
Other stuff like opening doors or letting her go first is always good too.
G... (read in full...)
Fed up of my cheating boyfriend
Q. Me and my current boyfriend have been through a lot. We've been together for a year and a half and during that time hes cheated on me 3 times, but I never let him go because I'm head over heels in love with him. Lately he's been showing less and ...
A. 28 April 2009: Well of course your boyfriend is going to treat you like crap!
Why should he put effort in to keep you when you'll sit and take it no matter what he does?
He knows he can cheat on you, ignore you, and do anything you like and you'll be there ... (read in full...)
Should I talk to my girlfriend about my World of Warcraft friends?
Q. I have a question. My girlfriend and I have lived together for a while now and we have a great relationship. Since we have been living together, I haven't really played World of Warcraft like a I used to. I just started playing again and some of ...
A. 28 April 2009: You don't need to bring it up like it's a problem. I am sure she has male friends too.
Just keep telling her you love her.
Plus, why not try and INCLUDE your girlfriend in your social life. I'm not saying you have to get her playing too, but... (read in full...)
We had sex he stopped calling and now he's calling 2X a day?
Q. Ok I have a question, I don't understant men. Hi i'm 25 and have just got back into the dating game. I recently got divorced a little over a year now and have never dated anyone except for my ex husband. we got married when I was 18 and he was 27 s...
A. 28 April 2009: Hun, you have learned the hard that way that all men's brains are secretly very Victorian when it comes to "What morals a young lady should have."
If you had sex with him on the first date then he is going to assume that you are happy having s... (read in full...)
Smear test hurt. Will it hurt when having sex?
Q. hi i had a smear test not so long ago and it really hurt i nearly cried. does this mean it will really hurt when i have sex? also the nurse told me that my hymen is broken i've not yet had sex obviously other activities have caused this but ...
A. 28 April 2009: Smear tests are not nice.
I had mine recently and it wasn't nice and since I am married... well lets just say I'm not a virgin.
But that and having sex is COMPLETELY different.
You'll be with someone you love in a nice room with candles a... (read in full...)
Should I feel annoyed that my boyfriend did not call to see if I arrived home safely?
Q. Should I feel annoyed that my boyfriend did not call to see if I arrived home safely? He moved to another state because of a job so I drive to visit him every other weekend because i have a more flexible schedule. It's a 4 hour drive there and 4 ...
A. 28 April 2009: He probably thinks you are a competent driver.
Text him and tell him it would have been nice for him to call.
But seriously. This is not a big thing to get annoyed about.
Chill out!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Good Relationship, Bad Teeth.
Q. Ok, here's my problem. I love my girlfriend to death, but I can't stand her teeth. Well, her front teeth. One crosses over the other one like... A LOT. Now I don't want to hurt her feelings, and she has a self esteem problem, but she wants to...
A. 28 April 2009: You know I bet she has just never heard of braces before, and that's why she has probably taken YEARS of bullying and name calling! Gosh! You'll change her life!
It's not going to be that simple sweetheart.
There is probably a big reason why s... (read in full...)
Is her mother's attitude unusual?
Q. I'm a 22 year old male. I am dating an 18 year old girl. I find her mom's attitude towards us a little unusual. She encouages the relationship at every level. She arranges weekends away for us. She sends her daughter to stay at my parents h...
A. 28 April 2009: Well it does seem that she is very happy for her daughter to get a nice boy and get married and provide her with some grandkids AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!!!!
But her daughter does not seem as keen.
You are not in a relationship with her mum so you n... (read in full...)
Career questions.
Q. I'm 18 and i have no idea about what i should be doing with my life. when i was at school the advisor was telling me that baised on her impression of me office work would be the ideal way to go.But i just think that it would drive me crazy and bore ...
A. 28 April 2009: It would be very hard to tell you what to do with your life without meeting you to be honest.
Your best bet is to ask people who know you.
The other thing to do is to get a copy of your local yellow pages and have a flick through. You wil... (read in full...)
Braces???
Q. There seems to be a new system in the UK whereby children needing braces have to achieve a certain degree of severity to be able to have treatment on the NHS. both of my daughters require braces but their teeth aren't as bad as other children so ...
A. 28 April 2009: Why not call round some local dentists and ask. www.yell.com Also you could check flights to Latvia where dentistry prices are capped. A latvian lady I met said it was much cheaper to fly home and go to the dentist than it was to not pay f... (read in full...)
I don't want to get depressed again..pregnant and can't take certain medicines..help!
Q. Hey I sort of have a problem I think. I have been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder. Apparently you can't have a personality disorder without being bipolar, but you can be bipolar without a personality disorder. ...
A. 28 April 2009: Glad to hear.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Does she want me to be a lesbian?
Q. hi, ive just moved in with my girlfreind into a flat, and all my clothes were in the suitcases as we just got there and i went to the shop and got talking to one of my mates and when i got back she was staring in my suitcase and there was thongs in ...
A. 28 April 2009: How does she "make you" do all this.
Your eyeliner must be pretty smudged if you are struggling and saying "no no I am a man and I hate this!"
If you don't like it then don't do it.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant and how do I find my nearest family planning clinic?
Q. i am 13 year old and the other night i was messing around with this lad cutting a long story short i sucked him off and he never spermed in my mouth but he wiped it away a short while after he fingered me and then he tried to have sex with me but i ...
A. 28 April 2009: Just put the name of your town in there and "family planning" it should be fairly easy to find.
They normally have drop in sessions on a Saturday morning at our one so you just turn up and talk to the nurse.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Not much action at 22 with my b/f of 4 years
Q. i've been with my boyfriend for just over 4 years! Im 22 he is 26 he is a great bloke and is loving and caring, but we hardly have sex, maybe once every two weeks, he never makes me feel sexually attractive, he doesnt make me feel like i turn him ...
A. 28 April 2009: You are only 22 and you've been with him since you were 18 so I can understand that you think he's amazing, but hun there are other great blokes out there.
Sex is very important and the fact that you have even told him you are going to cheat on... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's best guy friend trouble
Q. Hi, I'm new at this sort of thing and I'm not used to talking about my relationship issues but I have been having a lot of trouble lately and I need advice. My primary issue in my relationship is trustworthiness. I know I am an easy going guy a...
A. 28 April 2009: There are some clear rules for this kind of situation. I'm married and have male friends, but the second I find out one of them has a crush on me then I let him down gently, tell my husband what happened, and then don't see him again unless he ... (read in full...)
Not much action at 22 with my b/f of 4 years
Q. i've been with my boyfriend for just over 4 years! Im 22 he is 26 he is a great bloke and is loving and caring, but we hardly have sex, maybe once every two weeks, he never makes me feel sexually attractive, he doesnt make me feel like i turn him ...
A. 28 April 2009: Well there is NO magic way you can change your boyfriend.
You've talked about it, you've split up over it (why did you get back with him?) and you have to accept that this is just the way he is. You may as well be complaining that his eyes are... (read in full...)
Was I too nice?
Q. I met a wonderful girl on the internet, and after only sending eachother a couple of e-mails, she gave me her mobile number. We started texting eachother frequently and we got on great, then when we spoke on the phone and things got even better. We ...
A. 28 April 2009: Oh dear. Poor you.
It sounds to me like she was very happy to have you as her text friend and someone to call and talk to and build you up in her mind as this perfect knight in shining armour.
You became her escape from real life her little ... (read in full...)
What do you think of my now separated husband? Am I right not to take him back?
Q. I'm in this situation and i'm not sure how to handle in. Here goes, my husband and i recently seperated after being married for 10 yrs.he continues to blame me for everything that lead to the seperation.I believe that i'm a good women i did ...
A. 28 April 2009: Yep you are far better off without him.
Of course he's going to want you back as you are his maid and childminder.
But if he didn't treat you well (he didn't) and then he CHEATED then that is far MORE than you need to haul him through the divo... (read in full...)
We only had sex 5 times that week and then he put porn on when I was sleeping!
Q. Hello all, I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. I see him every two months or so. I just got back from visiting him. I spent 7 days with him. We hardly made love. Maybe 5 times. Four days before I was about to leave, I was asl...
A. 28 April 2009: It sounds like he doesn't see porn as a big thing... more as another sexy thing for you to share.
If you don't see it that way then you have to TELL HIM! He's not psychic.
Plus, 5 times in one week is really not that bad. If you spent ALL yo... (read in full...)
I've told him no more female friends
Q. I have been with my partner for almost 15 years, we were both quite young when we men 18/20. I was his first sexual partner. All couples have ups and downs, we have managed to get through most problems. Of course the usual things bother me althou...
A. 28 April 2009: Female friends are fine and you should be able to trust a boyfriend with them.
However, I wouldn't trust YOUR boyfriend as far as I could throw him. He's constantly staring at other women, pushing the limits, doing things behind your back and ANY ... (read in full...)
My bf is very jealous of my guy pal! What can I do?
Q. I am 21 and my boy friend is 23. We have been dating for 18 months and we have a great relationship except for one thing. He is so jealous of my best friend Matt. Matt and I have been best friends since we were 16. My boyfriend has been ...
A. 28 April 2009: I agree with Baby duck.
Yes you should respect your boyfriend's feelings..... right up until the point where he gets violent.
In that moment he proved to you that he is a complete waste of your time.
Tell him you do not want to date a contr... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he loves me, but doesn't know what love means. Huh??
Q. My boyfriend said he loves me, but doesn't know what love means. He also then said to me, "I want you to know you are the only girl I have ever had love for." These two lines hurt. How can he not know what it means; we've been together for almost ...
A. 28 April 2009: At first I thought this was going to be a "stop analysing him" answer... But I think you are right to worry about this.
Love makes you crazy. It's like lust... you can't imagine the feeling but you know when your stomach does a flip because ... (read in full...)
More than a friend but less than a boyfriend?
Q. Hello friends. OK this one is weird. I fell for my best friend about 6 months ago, and told him so 2 months ago. He's an incredibly shy inexperienced guy with some problems with depression, but I feel I know him well and these things make him h...
A. 28 April 2009: I've had boyfriend that I was afraid to talk to because I had to walk on eggshells all the time because they were so delicate.
Let me tell you, it builds and builds. You get so used to being miserable with them that you put up with a LOT of bad b... (read in full...)
Broken love
Q. Me and my girlfriend were happy, she suffers with deep depression and i help her through a day at a time, some days worse than others but rare. This Friday we were happy and eating at a restaurant and had a wonderful time. We had a right laugh, ...
A. 27 April 2009: Put them on your local gumtree and ebay and use the cash to cheer yourself up. x... (read in full...)
My husband is not putting enough effort into job seeking.
Q. my partner lost his job about 5 months ago but he still isnt applying for enough jobs. he seems to think that 1-2 applications a week (if that) is enough and hes being so fussy with what jobs he applies for. How can i get it through to him that what ...
A. 27 April 2009: You just have to draw a line. Tell him that you want to talk and get this sorted once and for all and then you will stop nagging him. When he agrees to talk about it then just tell him. You can only afford for him to be your house-husband un... (read in full...)
I don't want to get depressed again..pregnant and can't take certain medicines..help!
Q. Hey I sort of have a problem I think. I have been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder. Apparently you can't have a personality disorder without being bipolar, but you can be bipolar without a personality disorder. ...
A. 27 April 2009: Well day light bulbs are only a few quid and candles are very cheap so give them a go.
This this is part of you, and you are in control. Not the other way round.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I don't want to get depressed again..pregnant and can't take certain medicines..help!
Q. Hey I sort of have a problem I think. I have been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder. Apparently you can't have a personality disorder without being bipolar, but you can be bipolar without a personality disorder. ...
A. 27 April 2009: The big problem with the medicines to stop bi-polar is that instead of highs and lows you get a straight boring ride through life.
It allows you to function and fix the out side things that are causing depression and then go back to being you rath... (read in full...)
Shunned by flat mates! How to make things better?
Q. Hi, I've been at university since September, where I moved into a student hall. I live with 5 other people, and are usually in the company of our neighbors. Over the course of the past several months, I feel like the connection I had with everyon...
A. 27 April 2009: There must be one person who you feel you can approach.
Next time you come out of your room and someone is alone then say hi. If they are sat down then ask them if you can join them.
Then you just have to ask if you've done something to ann... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant and how do I find my nearest family planning clinic?
Q. i am 13 year old and the other night i was messing around with this lad cutting a long story short i sucked him off and he never spermed in my mouth but he wiped it away a short while after he fingered me and then he tried to have sex with me but i ...
A. 27 April 2009: Hit google and find the nearest family planning clinic in your area.
You say "the other night" if it was within 72 hours you can get the morning after pill.
If it was within 7 days ago then you can go and get the coil fitted and that will st... (read in full...)
Broken love
Q. Me and my girlfriend were happy, she suffers with deep depression and i help her through a day at a time, some days worse than others but rare. This Friday we were happy and eating at a restaurant and had a wonderful time. We had a right laugh, ...
A. 27 April 2009: It could be that she is trying to protect you.
She is depressed and therefore she can only think about herself and how bad she is.
She is physically unable to understand that it's her that you want right now as her brain cannot accept that ... (read in full...)
Broken love
Q. Me and my girlfriend were happy, she suffers with deep depression and i help her through a day at a time, some days worse than others but rare. This Friday we were happy and eating at a restaurant and had a wonderful time. We had a right laugh, ...
A. 27 April 2009: Sorry this has happened to you hun.
I think the best advice I can give is to just move on.
Depression is a very selfish illness. I mean she has been content to let you care for her rather than actually getting help.
A boyfriend should no... (read in full...)
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