A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Evening all.I was hoping to get some advice.we are a very close knit team at work and often go out for meals and clubbing etc...now lately 1 girl (who im closest to)over the past few month has organized nights out without inviting me...i haven't spoken to her about it as it didn't really bother me. But now im feeling so pissed off because another colleague of ours recently got 2 spa day vouchers and she asked me to go along as her guest..which i was really happy with now my other friend heard about it and has asked to tag along...(she's paying for herself). Why does she get to tag along when i've been left out of things she's organized? I know im probably sounding selfish but she knows that lately i've been feeling really down and hasn't bothered to suggest going out and now something im involved in she has to be involved too.Is she just winding me up?? How would she have felt if i asked to tag along on her nights out??? Arrgghh!
View related questions:
at work, clubbing Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009): she clealry does not like you mate. Move on. It should not be your entire social life. If you want to give her a message, organise a night out with your non work friends, tell them about her, then invite all your work friends except her, sit back and watch the magic happen. She will get the message without a word being said and you can take the high road.
A
female
reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 April 2009):
Dude - ask her why she doesn't bother inviting you out!
This is most likely a misunderstanding so sort it out like an adult.
Go on your spa day and when you two are alone then just ask her if she has a problem with you as you notice she leaves you out of things.
Good Luck!! xx
...............................
|
