I told my crush of 6 years how I felt. Now I'm confused about what happened. Help me!
Q. I'm too lost now after what happened recently... I've been crushing on this girl for 6 years now, since I was 13 years old, freshmen in high school. She's the same age as I was, she is the most intelligent, quietest, absolutely beautiful girl I...
A. 24 April 2009: You can't keep her locked up just because other guys are going to look at her.
Accept your girl is beautiful and SHE'S WITH YOU!!!
Enjoy the attention and put your arm around her, they are paying you a compliment after all.
Glad it went we... (read in full...)
Am I a trophy to my boyfriend?
Q. Well you know there are times when you want your boyfriend to like you for what you are and not for who you are.. the same with me I am 20 and my boyfriend is 21 and we were really attracted to each other from day 1 and we still are.. so basicall...
A. 17 April 2009: I had a boyfriend once who admitted that he mostly went for girls that would "look good on the arm" and come and watch him play rugby.
He wasn't my boyfriend for very long.
If you don't feel there is any connection there then it may just be t... (read in full...)
My scars look really ugly and I'm dreading the summer.
Q. I really just wanted a male perspective on scars, but girlies if you have any words of wisdom that would be fab too. I have an ongoing knee instability that has required quite a bit of surgery and has left me with lots of long ugly scars, I really ...
A. 17 April 2009: Sweetie, it's only your knee! Not your face.
No guy worth having is going to care.
Leggings, thick tights, long skirts! Don't restrict yourself! Look at the fashion mags and there are lots and lots of very sexy things that cover the knees.... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for wanting to spend time with my g/f without my husband?
Q. I’m happily married for 27 years with 2 grown up children. My husband and I spent lot of time together, and we go on vacation at least once every year. About three years ago, I went on a little vacation with my girl friend and stayed at my girl ...
A. 17 April 2009: I think if you have been secretive then it's no wonder he's going to be a little nervous.
He sees you as a beautiful woman who will be very desirable to any man you meet.
So carry on seeing your friend but include him. Talk to him about what s... (read in full...)
She broke up with me because of something my mom said!
Q. my girl friend just broke up wit me cus my mom said somthing to her but i love her she is my world nd now i just wnt to die cause i cnt haver her i hate my life now wat should i do ...
A. 17 April 2009: Find out what your mum said, get your mum to apologise if necessary.
Then tell your girlfriend how much you love her and hope for the best.
You won't die without her.
Stop flapping and get active and get her back!!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Why am I only now getting mad at my jailbird husband?
Q. My husband has been in jail for almost a year. I love him and I know he's my soul mate but I'm starting to get confused. I haven't cheated nor thought about it. I'm starting to get mad towards him. Why? What to do?...
A. 17 April 2009: This happens with me when my husband goes away to Iraq.
You're miserable, you're lonely, you're frustrated, there is a HUGE spider in the bath, you need a hug, and why can't you have ANY of this stuff sorted????
Because he is not with you... ... (read in full...)
My partner's children say they never want to meet me
Q. 6 years ago I met my partner in work and he was married for over 15 years with 2 children. Wrong I know! We fell in love and 5 months later he left his family and moved in with me. 5 months later he went back, but left again after 2 weeks. She ...
A. 17 April 2009: It doesn't look too good for you, does it.
To be honest, I can understand why his kids would feel that way and want to stay loyal to their mother.
But he'll never make them happy by being with you, and he'll never make you happy by creepin... (read in full...)
How do we know I'm pregnant? My periods have been irregular due to previous implant
Q. Hi, i just wondered if anybody can help me, ive been on the implant -implanon- for nearly 2 years, but recently had it taken out. Ive not had a period the whole time i was on the implant and i haven't had one since ive had it taken out, but me and ...
A. 17 April 2009: Excellent, you could even take your partner with you as they can talk to him about not wearing tight pants etc.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My marriage is in trouble. What should I do?
Q. I've been with the same woman for over three years. We have a little girl and we have been married for over a year. I'm sick of it. She has literally sucked the life right of me. It has been over a year since I have played golf, been fishing, or b...
A. 17 April 2009: You don't give any information on WHY you have stopped doing these things, why things have changed and why you don't want to have sex with her.
I very much doubt she has a gun to your head saying "SIT ON THE SOFA AND DO NOTHING!!!"
What ha... (read in full...)
How do we know I'm pregnant? My periods have been irregular due to previous implant
Q. Hi, i just wondered if anybody can help me, ive been on the implant -implanon- for nearly 2 years, but recently had it taken out. Ive not had a period the whole time i was on the implant and i haven't had one since ive had it taken out, but me and ...
A. 17 April 2009: Did you speak to the nurse about all this when you got it taken out?
Go back to the family planning clinic and have a chat to them about it as they will have seen it all before and be experts in this kind of thing.
Your body will take a good... (read in full...)
Should I ask him to marry me?
Q. Hiya, I've been thinking about asking my bf of 5 months to marry me... I'm very confused, i am 24 and have been with my new (29 yr old) boyfriend for 5 months. We are very close and very much in love and moved in with each other very shortly ...
A. 17 April 2009: This is going to be the second time you have been engaged within a year.... what does that say to you, your friends and family and him?
When you say you want to propose, do you actually want to get married within 2 years?
If you just want a ... (read in full...)
Did I offend him?
Q. I really really like this boy, and have done for years. He recently confessed he liked me too. We aren't going out with each other just yet but he asked me if i wanted to have sex with him, and i want to but i don't know if i should. I told him i di...
A. 17 April 2009: Sweetheart this is what happened.
He decided he wanted to have sex. He knew you liked him so thought you might have sex with him without him having to put any effort in.
So he says "guess what! I like you too. Will you have sex with me now?"
... (read in full...)
I think my sister is up to no good. Any advice?
Q. hey a quick question im 19 and my sister is 23 and never had a proper boyfriend, she's had internet r/ships but in a yr n a half she only seen him twice.. me and her dont get on! we haven't spoke in 5yrs (even tho we share a house) she used to beat...
A. 17 April 2009: Unfortunately she is 23 and it's her own life.
She can go out and do what she wants.
If you are worried about her then try being a bit nice to her. Talk to her, start building up a friendship again. If she has someone to talk to then you can ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my mom?
Q. i am 15, i leave school in 5 weeks, i do use tampons but i dont know how to tell my mum. helppp ?! what shall i say ? ...
A. 17 April 2009: Just buy some tampons if there are none in the house and leave them in the bathroom.
You don't need to sit her down and inform her that you use them over dinner.
It's just something that you expect a teenage girl to do. It'd be like you trying ... (read in full...)
Want to make the 6 months celebration memorable!
Q. It's mine and my boyfriend's 6 months since we started being an 'official' couple so to speak in a few weeks. I want to make it special and surprise him. However, I'm slightly stuck as to what we can do to make it special. I want to make it me...
A. 17 April 2009: Take him away for a weekend somewhere. It can be the next city along, or Paris or Rome depending on your budget.
That way you get to spoil him while wandering round exploring and being romantic, and hotel sex is ALWAYS better so that lets you get ... (read in full...)
I believe some teachers are, intentionally or not, flirty.
Q. I believe some teachers are, intentionally or not, flirty. In their mannerisms, their choice of words and the way they say those words. I completely understand that a lot of teachers are just like that in nature; friendly, funny and outgoing. And I ...
A. 17 April 2009: No problem!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Why would he say he had Gulf War Syndrome if he'd never been in the military?
Q. My husband came home from work yesterday and told me he has got Gulf War Syndrome. This doesn't make sense to me, as he's an office worker in a local distribution firm, and has never served in the military at all. Why would you say you had Gulf...
A. 17 April 2009: Ok,
a) he's taking the mick and you have over reacted to it and he's found it hysterical so he's carrying on.
b) he's talking about post traumatic stress disorder, he's seen something traumatic and in his mind, he's been affected by it. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend kissed two girls. Is he at fault?
Q. right i have a question guys. If you have a boyfriend who likes to make friends with any one. Would you class this as he's fault. We been together over 2 and half years. And two times he has made friends with two different girls and they both kiss...
A. 17 April 2009: Yes he is totally at fault.
He led them on, gave them the wrong signals, got physically close to them, leaned in and kissed them.
He could have stopped that at ANY time but he chose not to.
You KNOW when a kiss is about to happen, you KNO... (read in full...)
I believe some teachers are, intentionally or not, flirty.
Q. I believe some teachers are, intentionally or not, flirty. In their mannerisms, their choice of words and the way they say those words. I completely understand that a lot of teachers are just like that in nature; friendly, funny and outgoing. And I ...
A. 17 April 2009: The thing is that you are at the top end of school age.
It's difficult because on one hand you want to be treated more like an adult, given trust and freedom and have people think of you less as a child... but on the other hand you are saying y... (read in full...)
I'm a bisexual girl but don't know how to flirt with girls yet. Help!
Q. Well i'm bisexual but pretty inexperienced when it comes to meeting, reading and dating girls still, i've only had 1 girlfriend which didn't turn out so well since there was no real connection in the end and i wasn't really attracted to her just ...
A. 17 April 2009: You just have to meet them in the same way you would guys. Get your friends to introduce you to people you know, join groups and just get out there.
As for flirting with girls, there is a difference yes.
Men are all about the chase, they want... (read in full...)
Can anyone please tell me is he flirting or taking advantage of me
Q. hi, this guy and i have been friends for three years now.from the beginning all our mutual friends pulled us together and the guy blushes and i cant just stop laughing when people put us together. now i want to know if he is flirting or does he ...
A. 17 April 2009: Well he's made out with you so he obviously does like you.
But you have to make it clear to him that you want a boyfriend and not someone to mess about with.
Just say to him one day. "I wish I had a boyfriend."
If he doesn't say that he want... (read in full...)
My best friend tried to finger me!
Q. So I went on a trip with my school and I sat next to my best guy friend on the bus. It had been a long day and we were both tired so we decided to go to sleep. He layed down on my lap and I put my head on his back. I fell asleep until I felt a hand ...
A. 17 April 2009: Your ex is your ex so he is out of the picture.
As for your friend, well you now know that he wants to be more than friends.
So, if you want him to be your boyfriend then get alone with him and tell him you like him and let him kiss you.
Bu... (read in full...)
I believe some teachers are, intentionally or not, flirty.
Q. I believe some teachers are, intentionally or not, flirty. In their mannerisms, their choice of words and the way they say those words. I completely understand that a lot of teachers are just like that in nature; friendly, funny and outgoing. And I ...
A. 17 April 2009: Some people are just flirty. They flirt with everyone.
It's not their fault that they allow their mannerisms to surface while doing their job.
Plus they probably keep it on such a low level that they don't realise they are doing it.
But... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to fake my own death to see if she still loves me?
Q. Well basically my ex havn't been going out for ages, but I'm going out for her best mate (2 months) and she's always trying to get her to dump me but the girl i'm with doesn't want to dump me so i'm thinking. Is it wrong to fake my own death to prov...
A. 17 April 2009: Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Seriously?
You are seriously thinking about this?
It's illegal to start with. Everyone you know will think you are an UTTER TWAT for doing something as you just don't joke with people's emotions like that.
If you ... (read in full...)
It's all so confusing for me
Q. I have posted on here before about a friendship I have had with this girl and we were friends for almost a year and had some good times together. She has had a permanent partner since I have known her but she has cheated on him more than once and ...
A. 17 April 2009: Yep, she's using you as an emotional crutch.
This friendship is all one way and I don't get why you are putting so much effort in. Why not just let it go?
You said you wanted to be more than friends and I get the feeling that the only reason ... (read in full...)
Loveless...split family
Q. Dear readers, To cut a long story short, and without going into personal detail or circumstance. Is there anybody whom has lived apart from their partners for years on end and only get together may be 8 days a year... A phone call once a day to di...
A. 17 April 2009: I don't get why you are still with him if you are not in love with him and not happy.
Why not get a job and a place of your own?
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Can anyone give me some advice on the symptoms I am having?
Q. i have weird symptoms like unusual light period,tender breast and drops every now and then of brown blood what do these symptoms indicates. ...
A. 17 April 2009: Go to a doctor and find out!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is this kissing cheating?
Q. hi, just want some advice. My boyfriend of two years is a lovely boyfriend. I think he can be a bit neieve around other girls though.im hes first girlfriend. But on two ocassions two girls have kissed him and he has stood there and done nothing. I ...
A. 16 April 2009: No, this is not acceptable OR forgiveable.
If they went to kiss him and he pushed them away then fine, but he let them kiss him.
No matter how naive you are, you know when someone is about to kiss you and you stop it.
I think once, he coul... (read in full...)
Cell Phones and Relationships - Where to draw the line?
Q. There have been a few instances where my fiance has been caught lying about a woman he works with. Little lies that have made me think, "why is he lying about this?" - the fact that he is covering up non-events with lies makes me wonder if he is ...
A. 15 April 2009: I'm all for respecting privacy and everything but on the other hand he is acting in a very dodgy way.
There is nothing wrong with having a bit of a flirt at work as it's just fun, it means nothing, and it makes work less boring.
There is also... (read in full...)
I think I am pregnant, but no access to pregnancy test kit!
Q. i live in Cairo , Egypt . suspect that i'm pregnant and need a pregnancy test , i know most of you are from abroad but i have no idea where to go , the pharmacies i've been to i never saw any and here u can ask yea but for someone my age and with no ...
A. 15 April 2009: I think you need help from someone else who you trust. Could you talk to a married friend, or do you trust your parents or an aunty or a cousin enough to tell them?
You need to get someone to get you that test, or you need to go to a doctor. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love... but confused!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time now. I have stuck by him through a lot of problems he has had. He quit his job and is still unemployed. He drinks daily and has made it clear there is no way he will marry me anytime soon. ...
A. 15 April 2009: Yes. It means you know what an idiot you are being for staying with your boyfriend.
it's all very well being dramatic and saying "But I LOVE him!" but you know you are not happy and would be better off without him.
Use this as the kick up the ... (read in full...)
Sees me out, we have sex, and then he doesn't get back to me! Its happened twice!
Q. Im gonna be honest from the start about my problem and would like honest answers. Back in December I slept with a man who afterwards didnt want to know me because I had a drug problem. I did have a cocaine problem until January of this year when his ...
A. 15 April 2009: Guys don't automatically have to be using you... if you have sex easily then you just don't respect you so they don't bother.
I know this guy must hold a special place for you because of how he made you change, but that doesn't mean he's any good... (read in full...)
Showing some scary symptoms....what is happening to me?
Q. hi. i now this is nothing to do with the subject but im very frightend and i need some quick advice. im 17 and im having these strange symptoms. * Cant Breath. * Blurry Vision. * My hands feel huge. * My head feels huge. * My Left Arm is w...
A. 15 April 2009: Well if it is getting worse then go back or call NHS Direct for a second opinion.
If the hospital doesn't know what it is then the internet probably won't help.
Go and lie down and stop staring at screens that will not help your head. Do th... (read in full...)
Showing some scary symptoms....what is happening to me?
Q. hi. i now this is nothing to do with the subject but im very frightend and i need some quick advice. im 17 and im having these strange symptoms. * Cant Breath. * Blurry Vision. * My hands feel huge. * My head feels huge. * My Left Arm is w...
A. 15 April 2009: Call NHS Direct or go on their website. The number is 0845 46 47. It looks short but it does work.
Other than that call your GP and see if he can see you for an emergency appointment.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Afraid he'll leave if I don't get an abortion
Q. im 10 weeks pregnant and my mate wants me to get an abortion i'm afraid if i dont i'll lose him. What should i do?...
A. 15 April 2009: Talk to him.
If he really is saying that it's me or the kid then he's not much of a mate.
It's your body and your choice.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
13 year old step daughter out of control!
Q. My 13 year old step daughter moved in with my husband and I a few months ago. She is out of control and I fear for her safety. A month ago she was kicked out of school for giving a blow job to a boy at a school dance. One of my neighbour said ...
A. 15 April 2009: She probably sees you as the enemy. You personally are probably the reason that her parents broke up in her mind. (Even if you only met her dad long after the divorce, it's still all your fault somehow.)
She's probably very angry with her mum and ... (read in full...)
"Blow on ear": what does it mean?
Q. what does it mean if a boy wants to blow on my ear?...
A. 15 April 2009: It means he wants you to blow (using your breath) in his ear.
Many guys find it a bit of a turn on.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
15 years of marriage, and I feel I need to do something otherwise I am letting my family down and me.
Q. Really need advice from anyone out there. I have been married for nearly 15 years (I'm 36) and have no children. Gradually the bullying and psychological abuse from my husband has increased, or perhaps with knowledge of what it is I have been awar...
A. 15 April 2009: Personally I think you have stayed with this guy for far too long.
Move back home with your parents.
Go to marriage guidance counselling if you want as I think they will point out to your husband that he is the psychopath in this relationshi... (read in full...)
First pregnancy anxieties.
Q. I'm 19 and last night I found out I was pregnant. I took a pregnancy test after having cramps and sore breasts pretty much constantly for around a fortnight. My periods have been slightly irregular for around the last four months so I'm not entirely ...
A. 15 April 2009: Sorry to hear you are stuck in this situation, but 19 and 20 is really not THAT young that you'd be getting stared at in the street. You're not exactly in school uniform!
Read some of the posts on here from pregnant 14 year olds. Now they are the ... (read in full...)
I told my crush of 6 years how I felt. Now I'm confused about what happened. Help me!
Q. I'm too lost now after what happened recently... I've been crushing on this girl for 6 years now, since I was 13 years old, freshmen in high school. She's the same age as I was, she is the most intelligent, quietest, absolutely beautiful girl I...
A. 15 April 2009: I'm really happy for you hun!
I thought it was a good sign that she kissed you but I didn't want to get your hopes up as I wasn't sure what kind of kiss it was.
And well done on making sure she knows that it's a no pressure date. I think yo... (read in full...)
Her mom found out we are sexually active and has threatened to press charges against me.
Q. I am 17 and my girlfriend is 15. Her mom found out we are sexually active and has threatened to press charges against me. I never forced her, but can I still get in trouble....
A. 15 April 2009: If you have had sex with a child then you can be charged.
She's 15!! How did you possibly think that having sex with her when she was that young was a good idea???
Stay the hell away from her, and tell her mum that you will never see her or... (read in full...)
Do people stop using condoms in a committed relationship?
Q. I am a foreigner dating an American and in the country I came from it is quite natural if you are in a committed relationship to drop condoms and using other types of birth control such as loop or pills. The other day my boyfriend said t...
A. 14 April 2009: Well if you both go and get tested for STI's and then you are on a REALLY reliable form of contraception then you could talk to him about it.
But if he wants to use them then you are going to have to put up with it.
Sex is ALWAYS a risk, n... (read in full...)
I told my crush of 6 years how I felt. Now I'm confused about what happened. Help me!
Q. I'm too lost now after what happened recently... I've been crushing on this girl for 6 years now, since I was 13 years old, freshmen in high school. She's the same age as I was, she is the most intelligent, quietest, absolutely beautiful girl I...
A. 10 April 2009: Having someone poor their heart out to you is a bit scary to be honest.
I mean when someone says "I love you!" there is no way you can respond to that unless you are saying "I love you too!"
I know you wanted to sing it all to the skies about ... (read in full...)
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