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writes: I'm a 22 year old male. I am dating an 18 year old girl.I find her mom's attitude towards us a little unusual.She encouages the relationship at every level. She arranges weekends away for us. She sends her daughter to stay at my parents home without me being party to the arrangement. She has even said to me that it would be okay to have sex if we loved each other.In the early days of the friendship she would not allow me to touch her sexually. I went away to uni for a spell. When I returned on vacation she allowed me to go further and has given me a few hand jobs at my request. We have not had sex yet. I sense that she is not ready for it although she said it must happen some time. When I touch her she seems to be dry.I believe her when she says that she is a virgin.I suspect that her mom advised her to allow me to go further.she is an only child and her mom is obsessed about the fact that all her other pregnancies miscarried.I know I need to ask for clarity but I am very confused.Before I try to do that please share your insights and similar experiences, if any.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (28 April 2009):
Well it does seem that she is very happy for her daughter to get a nice boy and get married and provide her with some grandkids AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!!!!
But her daughter does not seem as keen.
You are not in a relationship with her mum so you need to talk to your girlfriend and tell her that you will never push her into anything.
Talk to her about her mum and laugh about it, joke that she seems to be planning the wedding but that it's cool and you just want to chill out a bit.
Her mum is probably filling her head with how she has to do sexual things to keep a boy. You have to tell her that this is not true.
Good Luck!! xx
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