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writes:Hey just need some advice on my situation. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs and the problem is his babymother. He has his daughter cause his baby mother had her for 2 yrs and she was out the out state, so she finally brang her to him cause he didn’t see her for 2 yrs so his daughter is with him and his baby mother left back to Florida, so the other day he told me that she was saying to him that she wants him back and he told her no cause he in love with me he wants to marry and all that so she said that if he doesn’t go back with her she coming for her daughter and he will never see his daughter again? Should I leave him for this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (5 June 2009):
Well to be honest it's not your problem. It's his, if you love him and he loves you then you just have to stand and watch him deal with it.
He can go through the courts to get access to the child.
She can't blackmail him into a relationship with her.
Stay out of the way and let him deal with this. As long as he talks to you and is honest with you then it's fine.
Talk to him about how you are feeling and figure out how you are going to deal with this woman TOGETHER!
Good Luck!! xx
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