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writes:pls will anyone help me to enlighten my mind with the situation im into right now?im living with my boyfriend right now in an apartment, for the reason that my family hates me for loving him especially my father, because he wanted me to marry an american. We decided to live in, with no plan of a wedding for the moment, cause he wanted to prepare for it cause for he said that we should be prepared for it financially for it is a one time event, so theres no problem with this one.the problem for my side is that he wanted me to take my stateboard exam, anyway i'm a physical therapist. I know that this would be an advantage to my sid. In addition,to it he is very much willing to support me regarding this matter, my point is i'm having a second thought if he still loves me? because as if he dont love me anymore for wanted me to go abroad! But on his side he explained this to me that this choice would be a better option for us to live a great life ahead, but i would not be happy going abroad thats why i hate him for that. What will I do? should I pursue with my profession or stay here then knowing that he wanted me to go abroad? Is this a sign that he is not yet ready to get marry me? by the way he is already 32.I thought very negatively with his plan regarding of me going abroad, hey, please help me, what will I do? What will I ask to him directly just to clear up my mind? please anyone, help
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (23 October 2008):
If you do not want to go abroad then don't. Stay where you are.
Just ask him why he wants you to do these things?
Good Luck!! xx
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