He's obsessed with the 360!!
Q. Help! My fiance of 6 months is obsessed with the 360 that's all he ever seems intrested in and its starting to make me question the relationship what should I do?...
A. 26 April 2009: Yey! x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a pack-rat...Help !!
Q. Hi I hope you can give me some good advise on this, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years now and recently I have moved with him to a 2 bedroom flat in Chafford Hundred, I lived with him previously in hornchuch in a one bedroom which ...
A. 5 November 2008: If he asked you to buy it then I think it is fair to ask him to pay you back for it.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Does he still love me?
Q. I've been with my treasured and beloved boyfriend for over 2 years now. I've had my share of bad relationships. But none of them turned long term like this one. I am a picky person. Down to the some of the hobbies or interests he should have. ...
A. 3 November 2008: Do you really want to be in this relationship while it is like this?
It sounds to me like it has come to the end of the line.
If you can't get him to open up and discuss what is wrong then he is only going to get worse and I don't think it i... (read in full...)
What do I do if my ex blackmails me so I can't date anyone?!
Q. Hello, I am in stuff I don't want to be in. My ex girlfriend keeps pulling that 'if you loved me you would kissed me or hug me or agree with me.' I did love this girl but she is using it against me, and I have some friends who know about us, and ...
A. 2 November 2008: What are you on about?
You have a rubbish girlfriend so split up with her.
Tell her you are sick of her behaviour and don't want to be with her any more.
Why are you so ashamed about being with her and people finding out?
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend took me to a swinger's club !!!
Q. My boyfriend and I went to a swingers club and he wanted to join a couples room of course not knowing what it was I said yes the woman opened the door and there was like six couple having sex or just oral sex. I told him I couldnt do this and he ...
A. 2 November 2008: Well the poor guy was probably so turned on and excited thinking he was going to swing.
He was quiet because he had RAGING frustration. No sensitivity because all the blood was somewhere other than his brain.
Let him calm down and then things ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a pack-rat...Help !!
Q. Hi I hope you can give me some good advise on this, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years now and recently I have moved with him to a 2 bedroom flat in Chafford Hundred, I lived with him previously in hornchuch in a one bedroom which ...
A. 2 November 2008: Well then you just have to go and rent your own place and move all your furniture out and not live with him.
If he's not going to get rid of his stuff and you can't then you are not going to be able to live with him without having a mental b... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have periods when you're pregnant?
Q. Hi me and my boyfriend (of 2 years) have been trying for a baby now for the past 9 months im 21 and he's 22 we have been best friends for 5 years before we got together so we know its the right thing and we have had a few finger crossing moments but ...
A. 2 November 2008: You'll just have to wait for the test and see.
Try using one of these kits that tells you when you are at your most fertile. They claim to have a fantastic success rate.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
The boyfriends nasty habit
Q. I have a boyfriend now... haha... anyway.. he is constantly touching my sides and leaning his head on mine. He is always slapping my butt in front of his friends just to show off and it gets really annoying. we are only 13 and I know that's young, ...
A. 2 November 2008: As you rightly say - it's the 21st century so you don;t have to stand there silently and take behaviour you don't like.
Tell him to get off you if you don't want him touching you.
And when he slaps your arse, slap his head.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Did I make a move forward by calling him on the phone or not?
Q. I met a guy 2 years ago in a tech event. We became friends that day and since he had to move away after wards, we started keeping in touch by emails once a month. I emailed him and he always replied back. The once a month thing became in a twice a ...
A. 2 November 2008: Well since you are 3000 miles from eachother then there is only so far that it can go.
It does appear you are moving closer but I am not sure where you want this to go unless you know you are heading home to the US soon and are going to be in th... (read in full...)
Copying GF
Q. Hey all kind of a trivial matter, love my GF lots shes awesome lets me do what i want doesnt winge (much :P) really sexy and i wouldnt trade her for the world, now heres the problem: weve known each other for about 3 years ive liked her for al...
A. 2 November 2008: She's spending lots of time with you so she's picking things up.
I bet you do things that you've picked up from her and don't even notice.
Couples can often stop being brad and angelina and become branelina.
The trick is not to stop bei... (read in full...)
Does he still love me?
Q. I've been with my treasured and beloved boyfriend for over 2 years now. I've had my share of bad relationships. But none of them turned long term like this one. I am a picky person. Down to the some of the hobbies or interests he should have. ...
A. 2 November 2008: All you have said is basically that your relationship has been through hardships... and that he doesn't want to have sex with you when you are upset... and that he's a bit stressed... and he's not ready to get married.
But then you imply that he'... (read in full...)
What am I doing wrong?
Q. wouldn't say I'm a bad looking guy. I'm funny and reasonably confident when I want to be. I've got ambition and passion. I am friends with a lot of girls. Usually what tends to happen is I'll meet them on a night out and then progress to text...
A. 2 November 2008: Yes the internet is making it easier to keep in touch... but you seem to use it as a giant excuse to avoid contact for as long as possible.
If you talk to a girl for too long then you move into the friend zone. And then when you suddenly turn fro... (read in full...)
I have a family and BORED why??
Q. Hello all Iposted before and received so much great information. I have something I would like everyone's thoughts on. I ended an affair of 2 years this weekend and I'm feeling upset about it I almost feel depressed. I'm married for 14 years an...
A. 2 November 2008: As you say yourself, I think it was purely the excitement factor that draws you into doing this. The same reason that very rich people get caught shop lifting.
So rather than having any more affairs or going out stealing from shops I think yo... (read in full...)
Does he like me or he's just playing with my heart?
Q. Hi everyone He sent me a text msg and said:" BaBee .. I miss you alot" and then later hetold me that he was just a wrong message. ( he sent it to his gf) I always keep wondering whether he sent me a wrong mesage or it was his plan. He did ma...
A. 2 November 2008: If it's hurting you to see him then don't. He's not going to think badly of you and does it really matter if he does?
I don't think he is playing with your heart, I think you are just hoping that message was for you. I'm sorry to be cruel but he h... (read in full...)
I'm scared this other girl will win his heart...
Q. I'm in love with a guy ten years older than me but the problem is he moved to Edinbrugh a few months ago and I miss him. I heard off a few of his friends that he'll be coming back for a visit but as you can guess there's competition. A girl I know ...
A. 2 November 2008: Sweetie if he's in Edinburgh he will have so many real girls to talk to that I don't think you need to worry.
You say he's 10 years older than you and that means he's in his late 20's.
He's going to be meeting lots of girls his own age and I th... (read in full...)
Is sex with your loved one a major part of the relationship?
Q. Is sex with your loved one a major part of the relationship?...
A. 2 November 2008: It is for me when he is here.
But it's just as important that I get romance to go with it. It's not about getting down to it asap. It's about being seduced or seducing.
Some couples have no sex and are perfectly happy though.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has gone off sex!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend now for 6 months. We live together and have a dog but for the last 2 months she has gone off sex. I keep asking her what's wrong and she says she doesn't know but it's not me so don't worry but I do!...
A. 2 November 2008: Have you tried all the usual stuff like getting dressed up and going out for a meal? Being romantic and not just getting stuck in the house is always good.
Also when was the last time you gave her a huge kiss when you were not doing it as foreplay... (read in full...)
How can I convince my fiance I'm a virgin?
Q. Hi, I am 25 years old and have been in a relationship for 5 years. We've know each other for seven years and now we are engaged. The problem he is very possessive and now becomes a lot more then before. I used to share things about my male friends ...
A. 2 November 2008: Do not marry a man who will hit you.
This man will not make a good husband and your family would not be happy for you if they knew their daughter was to be bound to a man like this.
Tell them what he is really like.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My ex says he doesn't want me back, but acts as if he owns me! What do you guys think of this?
Q. Last nite i went somewhere with my ex, and his sister a local place, but for someone who said he didnt want to get back with me was very strange, he wispered something in mt ear as in cheak to cheak like he was going to give me a kiss, then he ...
A. 2 November 2008: He's using you for sex sweetie.
As soon as you stop seeing him and talking to him and letting him do all these things then he will go away.
Cut him out of your life and move on.
He clearly still wants sex with you but he has also stated h... (read in full...)
I suspect he might be cheating, what do you say about the "evidence" I found?
Q. Is my husband, or has my husband cheated on me? We're a young married couple, and he travels a lot for work. He's also not from the US, and so our marriage legalizes him here. I wonder if he's cheating. I've brought up the subject before to him, ...
A. 2 November 2008: Type babel fish into google and you will find a translation tool.
There is not enough evidence to say yes or no at this point. But if you rushed into marriage for a visa then don;t be afraid to rush out of it again.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I was sexually charged for him. Due to repeated rejections, I am now uncharged, what is going on??
Q. I have a dilema. I have been with my BF for over 2 years. We live together. I am older than him. Before we became a couple, we were sort of friends. I went out to a bar with him once, and he met a girl while he was with me. After they talked f...
A. 2 November 2008: Well it sounds like he only got with you because the option was there. Not because he wanted a real relationship.
From everything you have said about him, I really don't think this relationship is worth staying in.
You are an attractive woman... (read in full...)
He's obsessed with the 360!!
Q. Help! My fiance of 6 months is obsessed with the 360 that's all he ever seems intrested in and its starting to make me question the relationship what should I do?...
A. 2 November 2008: Xbox 360?
I wasn't sure if you meant some bizzare sexual thing.
Well the easiest thing to do is to not go round his house any more. Make him come out and away from it.
Meet in town, meet in the cinema, meet at your house.
If he has no a... (read in full...)
I like a girl in my seminars and want us to be friends but how do I approach her without giving the wrong idea?
Q. There is a girl in one of my seminars in university who I would like to get to know better - but only as a friend. We worked together for the first time on Friday and she seemed really intelligent and thoughtful and a nice person. Unfort...
A. 2 November 2008: Well if you worked with her of Friday then you have an ideal reason to go up and say Hi on Monday and get chatting.
Ask her how her weekend went.
Then just get in the habit of chatting to her at the start / end of every seminar and possibly sit... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a pack-rat...Help !!
Q. Hi I hope you can give me some good advise on this, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years now and recently I have moved with him to a 2 bedroom flat in Chafford Hundred, I lived with him previously in hornchuch in a one bedroom which ...
A. 2 November 2008: Telling him to do it or you're not coming back it clearly not a good plan as he is on a winner with the furniture.
So my suggestion is this....
Accept he's a hoarder and tell him you will move back in but he MUST keep the flat clean and tidy a... (read in full...)
My boyfriend took me to a swinger's club !!!
Q. My boyfriend and I went to a swingers club and he wanted to join a couples room of course not knowing what it was I said yes the woman opened the door and there was like six couple having sex or just oral sex. I told him I couldnt do this and he ...
A. 2 November 2008: Wow that must have been a bit of a shock to say the least.
What you can do is a little limited.
You can either tell him he can go alone - effectively giving him permission to cheat.
Or you can tell him sorry but no, you just can't do it. Bu... (read in full...)
Why cant I be the one?
Q. i dont know what to do, i'm tired of just being the friend. i've been in love with this girl i've known for the past 2 years now and she became my bestfriend. i've never felt so comfortable around a girl like i am whenever i'm with her. i've helped ...
A. 2 November 2008: You put yourself in the friend position for her to have as constant emotional support. So if you remain doing this then it's no wonder she doesn't want things to change.
And it's no wonder her boyfriends aren't incredibly happy with her when the... (read in full...)
She used to like partying, but since I go along, that has changed !
Q. hey everybody well im here because i wanna know whats wrong with our relationship well my gf used to be a party animal and me i never went to parties..and now that i wanna go we have went to some but she doesnt enjoy it..i mean is it cause i dont ...
A. 2 November 2008: Well if you don't ALLOW her to drink then it's no wonder she doesn't want to go out.
She doesn't want her friends to see what a controlling boyfriend she has as they would all tell her to dump you.
Either that or she knows she'd have to st... (read in full...)
How do I know for sure that he likes me ?
Q. I have this friend that is a boy and we,ve been friends for 3 years now i really really fancey him and we have kissed and all that a good couple off times but am not shure if he fanceys me back and i really want to no if he does cause i really like ...
A. 2 November 2008: If you are friends then he likes your personality.
And unless you pinned him down and sexually assaulted him then he likes you enough to kiss you so that is a pretty good sign.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I think I'm depressed and need some sound advice
Q. I can't figure out the meaning of life anymore. I'm not suicidal, but lost my interest. How can you get back to living ,without any religious faith? I know I'm depressed, but it's more, I just don't see the point. Is life ever turns good une...
A. 2 November 2008: You have to find something that makes you feel alive or happy and do it.
Could you get a new job or hobby?
Go travelling and find yourself?
Have a think about what you really dream of doing if you could do anything and then make it happen.... (read in full...)
I can't stand the woman my Dad is marrying!
Q. My stepmom and dad are getting married in a few months. I honestly dislike her. I don't like the way she treats him. She puts him down all the time and he just lets her. If I say some of the things I would be grounded for a week. I fight with her ...
A. 2 November 2008: She's not trying to replace your mum, she is just trying to marry your dad. But since you and your dad come as a package, she is trying to be a step mum to you. She'll never BE your mum, and she knows that. She just has to try and be a bit of a ... (read in full...)
I'm going crazy, why wont he talk to me?
Q. I dont understand why I can be pushed aside like this! I havent been able to sleep lately because I am unsure why talking to someone is so hard to do. I understand people are busy, including myself, but this guy talks/flirts with me and appears t...
A. 2 November 2008: So he is hyper sensitive and you have to walk on egg shells, yet he gets to treat you any way he wants?
This is how you get sleep.
You accept that this guy is mentally unbalanced and how he acts has nothing to do with you or logic or normal ... (read in full...)
My cousin's boyfriend came onto me....
Q. i was at a birthday party for my cousin. and my cousin and her boyfriend and their daughter were there with my aunt and uncle. well my cousin's boyfriend and are good friends. well at the party we decided to go hang outside together and talk about ...
A. 1 November 2008: Why would your boyfriend be affected by this. This guy kissed you and you told him to piss off.
Tell your boyfriend he came on to you and then decide together if you should tell your cousin.
The fact he did it twice says to me it was not a mis... (read in full...)
Do I Have Qualities Guys Like?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl who has her eye on some guys in her class. I'm around 4'9, I'm a 30A, and I'm decent looking. My sense of humor is like a guy's, I don't freak out when I see a bug, I like dirty jokes, I'm girly enough, but not very girly. I ...
A. 1 November 2008: Well since you are not getting asked out then the evidence suggests that no you do not have qualities that most 13 year old boys like.
So you have a choice.
You can try and change and act and dress like a brainless bimbo that you say these bo... (read in full...)
My dad says that anything bigger than a five year age difference is too big and illegal until I turn 18. Opinions please.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have just started seeing each other. He is 22 and and I am 16. My dad says that anything bigger than a five year age difference is too big and illegal until I turn 18. I was wondering if anyone had any advice for me, or was more ...
A. 1 November 2008: It's not illegal for you to date some one of any age now you are 16. You cannot marry without your parent's permission though.
However, I think what your dad was saying is that he does not want you dating a guy in his 20s when you are pretty m... (read in full...)
I just want him to know how much this is hurting me.
Q. I've been on and off with this guy for almost a year now; and about 2 weeks ago we broke up while i was away, but he didn't really give me a decent reason. - so then I was major sad, trying to figure out why he finished things when it was perfect ...
A. 1 November 2008: Yeah he's messing you around a lot here. But do you know why?
You are letting him.
You have at no point said "so what was so important that you wanted to talk about?" you just sat and worried yourself sick.
You have at no point said "You ca... (read in full...)
What is her problem?
Q. Hi, my best friend finally admitted that she has a weight problem (she was in denial for years). So now she is on a diet and she's giving me a lot of heat just because I'm being supportive!! She said I'm being optimistic and she hates me for that? ...
A. 1 November 2008: She sounds like she has some problem going on that is all coming out in the form of this dieting mess.
I don't know if you can get to the bottom of it and help her because you seem to be the focus of her lashing out. Is there anyone else like a m... (read in full...)
How can I change my appearance without spending a fortune?
Q. Hi, I'm 18 years old (turning 19 in just under four months) and I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. My general appearance is that of a punkish, hippie(ish) Luna Lovegood. My boyfriend's into Kat Von D's and Liz Vicious types. I want to ...
A. 1 November 2008: Hair dye costs very little and a good restyle won't cost nothing but will be worth it.
Make up wise, you can probably use most of your old stuff but do it differently.
Then it's just a matter of buying some cheap bargains in the style you wa... (read in full...)
Could this be oral herpes?
Q. is this oral herpes? lips burning everyday but no bumps or sores or anything.but there is painful burning on the lips and if i wash my lips it starts to burn around my mouth area and there are also bumps on my tongue that have been here for a while ...
A. 1 November 2008: See a doctor and find out.
Or go to a pharmasist and get some advice about cold sores. I think there are creams you can use.
As far as I know (and I am not qualified or anything) coldsores and herpes come and go. They get worse in the winter I ... (read in full...)
My 5 year old daughter kept giving our dog chocolate. Our dog end up being put to sleep, and my wife is blaming the 5-year-old.
Q. My 5 year old daughter "Lauren" (not her real name) (she was 14 in dog years) chocolate. I told her not to but she didn't listen. Then my other daughter (who's 13) came to me saying something was wrong with the dog. Long story short our dog en...
A. 1 November 2008: Well it is her fault. She was told to stop and she didn't.
Whether she was told in a strong enough "DO NOT DO THAT AGAIN! YOU ARE HURTING THE DOG AND THAT IS VERY NAUGHTY." way is another question.
Why did she have access to chocolate when s... (read in full...)
I wonder if he prefers shaved pubic area...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going steady for three months, i think we're ready to take the next step. We've touched each other through our cloths, but never actually 'touched' each other. I'm slightly worried though, would he prefer me to be ...
A. 1 November 2008: You just have to ask him what he likes.
Some men like girls to look like little 8 year olds down there and be hairless, some men like you to be hairless so you can look like a slutty porn actress.
Most men like some hair so you look normal.
... (read in full...)
Does sperm cause problems by swallowing?
Q. right quite a wierd question, can you get an upset stomach from swallowing the sperm?...
A. 1 November 2008: If you feel disgusted by what you have swallowed or the taste of it then you might throw up.
But since it is just proteins then I don't think you can actually get ill from it.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Could he have passed this STD to me?
Q. My regular partner has informed me he thinks he may have an STD - if he has will it definately have been passed on to me when we last had unprotected sex?...
A. 1 November 2008: If you've been having unprotected sex with someone who has an STD, then yes you probably have it too.
Pop down to the GUM clinic at the hospital and get checked out.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Why do women rationalise their cheating?
Q. Why do women Rationalise their cheating? Men cheat a lot more than women but at the very least they know what they're doing is wrong. When a man is generally caught cheating, whether he cares or not, he's not going to argue about what he's done, but ...
A. 1 November 2008: Women are less strong about leaving when things go wrong - they want to stick it out long term but then stray instead of standing up and saying "I'm leaving, this is going to hurt you, sorry, bye then."
It's the same that when men kill their wi... (read in full...)
Can our relationship work if he cares but doesn't love me?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years and asked him about his views on marriage and children, he gave me answers but also told me that since a situation in his past he has never been able to love anyone since and although he cares for ...
A. 1 November 2008: Well it'll be a big risk to commit to that.
He could stay caring about you and get married and have kids and you could love him with all your heart and then suddenly he meets a girl who he falls in love for and you are left alone.
Alternatively... (read in full...)
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