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writes:My boyfriend and i have the most unique connection. We've been good friends for over 2 1/2 years, and have had and on again-off again relationships. I worry constantly as to how people perceive me, struggling to comes to terms with how i feel.He's an amazing boyfriend, although we have a lot of differences. We're only young, and so i know i have my whole life ahead of my for other relationships, so why not bask in this love now? Why won't people accept this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): I want to remind you, that:
"Happiness is inward, and not outward; and so, it does not depend on what we have, but on what we are". (quoted by Henry van Dyke).
You create your destiny and you need to be happy with who you are.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (23 October 2008):
Why won't people accept it? Well you don't say what they say so I can't tell you.
Do you have constant drama and go crying to people who are now sick of it? Does he beat you? Do you beat him? Are you planning to run away together and live in a ditch?
If you stop being weak and worrying so much how other people see you and stop letting it affect your relationship then you might find your problems disapear.
Good Luck!! xx
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